Cant see what OH2 is posting but PLEASE dont listen to anything he says he is a FORUM troll and always negative on SLS and Life..
He has switched profiles 5 times.. trying to disguise who he is and has NO swinging experience but from all those who turn him down!
That is freaking hilarious.
It was more than rude, but let's go with that. Some people don't care about the pleasure or comfort of others and will do all sorts of shit unless they're stopped in their tracks. Saying "What the fuck do you think you're doing? Did you ask?" is not a bad way to make shit like this stop. But women in particular are pretty bad at immediate reactions and so people like the host keep getting away with it. And their prey end up asking if something clearly out of bounds - why the fuck would you want your body used by someone who had no interest in you except as a receptacle? - is...rude.
Nope it's not you, yes it was fucking rude! Do you know if anyone else at the party has had any issues with the guy or any other guys that attend? Makes me wonder if the host himself is like that, then what are the guys like he invites. When other guys see the host doing something like that, then the other guys are going to think it's ok behavior ... I would suggest not attending that party anymore and tell the host it's because he is fucking rude!
So for "us" if one doesnt have the decency to ask, flirt before hand, and well just act with some manors we dont care where we are... a party, Trapeze in ATL /FtL ( yes happened to me here) we will not hesitate to to say NO hold on buddy !
Its my body and no one has the right to touch, play or anything without first asking with some class.. for "us" its not a free for all and that is why we are so picky... and YES swinging well over 25 years now !
Some are just plain RUDE!
