[quote=NC_Seniors]The one and only time I tried it, the receiver requested that the female take over again … draw your own conclusion! ;-D[/quote]So 18 months after the first time, I tried it again with the same male and my loving wife’s a…
Ours was in a suite on a Bliss cruise. I (male half) guess there were at least 20 couples there. The whole place was pretty much just beds and mattresses on the floor. It was almost overwhelming to walk in and see that much licking, suckin…
I recently told my wife that I’d like play with another male, and I asked for her “blessing” to pursue it. I had in my mind that it would be just the two of us. She said she’s OK with it, but she wants to be there … strictly as an “an obse…
Had the experience described in the original post once … inCREDible feeling! I’ve also had the opposite experience once … two women going down on me at the same time, passing me back and forth every 15 seconds or so. That was even *more* i…
If it’s your first cruise, then go direct. If you use a travel agent and later call the cruise line with questions or to make changes, they *might* — and I emphasize the word — tell you to contact your agent. Who might be on vacation until…
mayhem — Glad to see that you’re taking advantage of SHIP in your state. (Here in NC, it’s called SHIIP … the extra I is for Information.) I went to see them when I was about to retire and their advice on Medicare was *really* valuable!
Sorry … I should have been more specific. A simple Google search turned up several clubs in Dublin. What I *meant* to ask if is anyone has a recommendation.
Sorry … I should have been more specific. A simple Google search turned up several clubs in Dublin. What I *meant* to ask if is anyone has a recommendation.
“Did y’all see Trump getting up in the garbage truck with his vest on . That was a tribute to all working men and women .” A tribute to all working men and women? That’s what you think that was? Really? He looked just as fake and stupid as…
Male half here. Hard to argue with all these points. For my SLS listing, it’s easy and obvious. I’ve never performed oral on another man but would like to try it once anyway. It seems to me that DOES make me bi curious. My wife is also lis…
Male half here! I’m exactly where Mayhem and MandC described … truly bi curious. I’d like to exchange hands play and oral with another man just to know what it’s like. My wife and I are actively looking for an actually single male — too ma…
ricimer99 and ionsawmill — OK, so *now* I feel your pain. I received the following SLS Message just this morning from somebody who’s 40 years my junior and whom I’ve never even heard of, much less met: “Daddy can I suck on your cock” (Note…
Mayhem8 — No, you don’t need a younger man to satisfy your lovely bride … what you need is an older, more experienced man! I’m more than happy to offer my services! And I can bring a WWB (Wife With Benefits). ;-D
“craving” is too strong a word … but I *am* curious to try stroking and sucking a cock just once anyway. My wife is willing to engage in an MMF where the emphasis is on the MM part, but she isn’t sure just how much she wants to play with a…
EC — OK, possible that someone who knows your family could “out” you … but that would lead to the inevitable question of how *they* found out! ?? Just don’t think it’s likely to happen.
owcangrace — Thanks for the kind words … much appreciated! :-D OK, re Medicare Part D … you don’t HAVE TO have it. What you DO have to have is something called credible (or creditable … I forget which) drug coverage. My wife retired from s…
I can think of several reasons: 1. Maybe they think that you’re too shy to make the first contact. 2. Maybe they think that you got distracted and forgot about it. 3. Maybe THEY think that YOU think that they couldn’t possibly be intereste…
Male half here. Yes, playing with another male has been on my mind for the past 8-10 months now. I’ve always played straight, even within the LS … but I told my wife several months back that I’d like to swap hands play and oral with anothe…
We’ve never met up with a single male, but I suspect that if we were to do that, we’d say we’re at least paying for our own dinner … and *maybe* his too. While I understand Ymichael14’s point about being grateful for the opportunity, my fe…
Certainly real for me! Starting maybe 9 months ago, I began to feel really curious to know what it’s like to exchange oral with another male. My wife has swapped oral with (I *think*) 3 other females, so she knows what I experience when I…
I got into the lifestyle straight … no real thoughts of cock. Then I found myself wanting to try sucking a cock (just out of curiosity). Now it’s nowhere NEAR all I think about … I’d still rather lick a pussy!
40calsig — Not everybody on a Bliss cruise is there to swing. Some people go just because they like the uninhibited, free-wheelin’ atmosphere. They can be completely naked in/around the pools and hot tubs. They can have sex with each other…
swingcurious03 — Your question is so generic as to be “unanswerable”. You didn’t say what the $5K includes. You didn’t say what kind of room. The only useful info you provided is that you’re looking at a week. As NJShoreCouple pointed, the…
Actually, Viking doesn’t include tips. However, you DO get wine and beer at lunch and dinner (although it’s house wine). Still, their Silver Spirits alcohol package is something like $25/person/day. 3 drinks and you’re already ahead. You a…
hotluvrs — Yeah, but if a woman offers to suck your dick (but not fuck you), she’s probably gonna expect you to lick her pussy in return. Oh … wait! ;-D
Goodenuff — I was checkin’ the boxes right there with ya until you said you can “tell time on a clock without hands” … wouldn’t that be just a clock face? ;-D
A little off track I know, but I can’t hear the words “bath house” without thinking of Peter Graves in Airplane… “Joey, have you ever seen a grown man naked?” ;-D
If by “tying him down in the bed with her later entering the room” you mean this will be a complete surprise to him … I think that’s a horrifically BAD idea unless you know he’s fantasized about it and shared that with you. Otherwise, just…
Ocbj — Since we opened our Profile to all singles — male AND female — back around Halloween, we’ve heard from nearly 70 of the former and — surprise surprise! — 0 of the latter. Your numbers aren’t that far off WRT to those who clearly did…
travelers — Actually, that’s happened to us on three occasions. The night of our first full swap, while the other husband was “fishing” for a condom, the two women took turns giving me oral. That lasted only until he was “properly attired”…
JATO40 — It seems clear that you like MFMs and didn’t think trying one was mistake. So what did the one guest do that got him voted off the island? (Maybe something we need to look out for?) We’d also like to hear from couples who think th…
We’ve had full swaps with half a dozen couples. We’ve both swapped and had sex with each other in large open playrooms. We’ve done same bed with one other couple. We’ve done a separate rooms swap. We’ve attended what can only be described…
Northgirlsouthboy — That’s me! I’m not sexually attracted to other men even a little bit. I don’t want to make out with one and I *definitely* don’t want to engage in anal sex with one (in either “direction”). But I AM intellectually curio…
Yet more… heard from a single — allegedly — male whose profile is woefully lacking any meaningful content, has no pictures, and says he likes “daytime meetings during the week.” We’re pretty sure this one is a no-go! ;-D
2muchfunclub2 — “We know a couple who had an angry wife of their ‘single’ guy show up on their doorstep while they were having their MFM. She didn't leave quietly and the cops showed up. Good times.” Precisely the reason we’d want to meet…
mayhem8 — “If you're just mainly looking for a MFM experience, why not just enlist the male half of one of the couples that you already know that would be willing to help you with that?” Uhhhhh … because we’re not bright enough to have tho…
Irish Rose — The profile doesn’t mention his marital status in any way at all … but it IS a single’s profile. Only after 3 weeks of correspondence did he — unprompted — mention the wife. The question is … why did it take that long? We’ve b…
We’ve never done one of these but started talking about it several months ago. At that time, just to see *if* there’d be any interest in us, we unblocked our SLS Profile for single males. We’ve now heard from more than 50! They’ve been wee…
Straight male here … this was WONDERFUL!! ;-D We non-bi couples get them too. Not quite as graphic as the examples listed, but some of them are just WAY too presumptuous. We recently unblocked our Profile for SMs thinking about trying to f…
Caucasian American male here. Have had a number of white female partners from the US and one from Europe. Have played with one Asian female from Thailand. My wife is Hispanic from Chile. Have never been with an African American woman. We t…
The OP’s question was “How did you get your wife/gF to begin swapping?” I didn’t … SHE got ME to! After I ramped up enough courage to broach the subject, I merely suggested that it would be *really* hot — for me at least — for us to share…
WayneC — While your statement is technically true, it’s pretty easy for us to tell if someone either didn’t read our entire profile or read it and simply ignored a simple request we put in it. We have a statement near the end that says, “I…
evadregdab — Our last cruise (August) was on HAL and our next one (January) will be on HAL. We booked the second one before even going on the first one, and after that first one, we have no regrets!
Have to second what venuss said, at least for those who are early into the Medicare world with the energy and health to travel. The absolute LAST thing you want to have to do if you should have a medical emergency 1500 miles from home is t…
Beachbabe — If you say something that you *know* isn’t true, you’re a liar. If you say something that you *believe* to be true even though it’s not, you’re full of sh*t. But you can’t be both!
Last September, we flew to Seattle and spent a few days sightseeing JUST SO we could ride Amtrak’s Empire Builder 46 hours to Chicago. It was *beautiful* … straight up the Puget Sound, turn east at Everett, go through the Cascades, wake up…
Viking is just getting into the Mississippi, but we’d highly recommend them based purely on our river and ocean cruises with them. Probably the #1 name on the Mississippi is American Queen, but they’re pretty pricey too.
MY memory — and I’ve been wrong before — is that sex has to be in the cabins and play areas only. On our cruise, they turned the sports court into a play area, at least after nightfall.
mnb, . We’ve been on only one Bliss cruise, so I *hope* I get this all correct. . They’re *indeed* complete ship takeovers … but don’t assume that EVERYone there is in the LS. Some people come just because they love the sexy, uninhabited a…
“My wife is younger than I am and made less money in her career. So, her monthly payout would be far less than mine based on her employment. If/when I die, her benefit steps up to mine.” Precisely the reason that I waited until 70 and my w…
Mayhem — You’re correct that if you start drawing $35K/mo at 66+8, you’ll have received $140K at age 70. But at that point, your analysis falls apart. The correct question is if you start drawing an additional $1K/mo at age 70, how many mo…
Looking for a club for a one-time visit on a Thursday night in August. Coming up empty so far. Most promising is Club Joi, but they seem to be open only Friday and Saturday. Found another place, but Thursday is especially for FFM and MFM t…