That makes sense and for how fun this was I'm all for buying those umbrella lights and de/re-flectors to make the lighting better looking.
If we're being honest, this was hands down the best foreplay we've experienced lately!! So exhilarating and liberating!! ...the positive feedback isn't hurting either! ;)
There is a reason professional photographers charge so much - and have so much equipment to improve the lighting!
Just think of all the fun you can have with photo shoots every so often to update your pictures! ;-)
Yes, we have work to do....but a good start right??
We actually used construction lighting and our dining room chandelier at full power for a lot of the pics on the first floor (kitchen, tantra chair, living room)...just construction lighting upstairs. But it threw wayyyyy too much light and shadows. Again, it was our first time taking it seriously. We both talked about how much we loved doing the picture night though.... haven't been THAT horny in a while! We fucked twice during the nude shoot! I came in her twice during the second plowing and she had a beautiful creampie resting in her slit!...but we were told beforehand that those type of pics weren't needed/appreciated. So I didn't shoot it. Next time I intend to because I found it fucking HOT!!
So we'll try day light and different tactics in the future. But until then, these will have to do. Thanks!
Wow! So much better than "time out" in the corner.
I agree that you need to crop out the chair in his picture - that will also make the big shadow less noticeable. And to be honest the all black outfit makes it a bit difficult to get a good idea of his build. For future photo shoots maybe daytime lighting and/or a lighter shirt will help.
You've inspired me - I'll try to grab Phoebert on the next sunny day for a photo shoot. It's way past time for us to get some public pictures on here!
You’re welcome! Best of luck to you both!
:-)
~Allen
eatme- thanks for the offer. I didn't think it was too bad but professionally it's pretty important we both stay anonymous. I'll fix it at work on Monday. My home computer won't let me (Chromebook).
mayhem and hotluvrs- thanks!! As for how we ended up together.....I am a hellacious piece of ass with a cock she's called magical!! ;)
In all seriousness, we're both just really down to earth and good all around people. As she would say, good hearts. So we connect really well together! Thanks for the compliment though. She is a catch!!
Oh, and I totally agree that if you are going to obscure your face, obscure your face.
Overall, very, very nice job.
A couple things keep running through my head.
First, how did a guy that’s just learning to dress cool get such a beautiful wife?
Second, you two are gonna have a great time in the lifestyle. You’re willing to ask questions, and to act upon the advice given.
I hope your date night is awesome.
The pictures of the Mrs are awesome.
The picture of you two together is good; love the smiling faces, not thrilled with the angle, but not bad.
The picture of Mr alone is crap. Sorry.
Look at the composition. You are way off to the side of the frame and you seem to be doing a bad job of trying to sell a chair.
Look at the weird lighting. You’ve got odd shadows and a brightly lit wall.
The good news is you are looking good, dude! Crop the chair and much of the wall out of the photo.
Looks good to us.
Nice pics, although that strip is not too discreet. I can help with that if you’d like.
~Allen
Check out our new public pic!!
Also added others to our public gallery... take a peek! ;)
Hopefully this is the final piece of the profile upgrading puzzle that opens the flood gates of interest/connection.
On the secretary.... she's definitely in the know and cool. We've been friends for a long time.
I eventually reread your original message and saw that at least one of your secretaries is in the know - that definitely makes it easier to get good pictures of you as a couple. Have fun with it when you finally manage to work that bit of scheduling magic!
Okay, maybe the secretary is cool and won’t raise questions or talk to others secretively. Fora is plural for forum.
~Allen
That specific secretary knows everything. The rest haven't a clue. But my wife just informed me she can't make it tomorrow. So the temporary plan will be to blur eyes on what we already have from last weekend's shoot.
What does fora mean?
Oh dear, the secretary knows. You could have a fora user do that for you.
~Allen
OK - now I'm totally curious!
Does your secretary have ANY clue why you need pictures of the two of you and need to blur your faces?
Thanks to all 4 of you!
RonKathy...on Playboy's swinger mansion show I once saw a newbie rock a pair of form-fitting tuxedo boxer briefs...maybe I'll pick up a pair on ebay. I can't see over-dressing my cock & balls as being a problem.
hotluvrs- As for what kind of date....not totally sure. It's the Saturday night after Thanksgiving. They actually asked us out to begin with (for tomorrow) which was a really pleasant surprise! But we are totally booked this weekend. We said we were free all next weekend. They said they're hosting family (several nights) for Thanksgiving and didn't want to fully commit depending on how things are looking on Friday. When we asked what their thoughts were on where to meet, they just replied "let's start with drinks and see where things go..." So we have no clue if they want to meet at a club, local bar, their home, etc. But based on their response of seeing where things go, maybe sex is on the table? We're fine either way. We're just thrilled to be meeting another couple!!...In the LS. Don't want to sound like we have no friends. We have plenty of couples-friends....just not the kind we can fuck.
All 3- Yes, yes!! We'll be changing the profile public pics tomorrow (or over the weekend). My wife is meeting me at my college office and my secretary is going to be snapping some pics and then helping us to blur our eyes or faces. In both our nudes and other photos, we made sure not to include the the dreaded corner. As the monkey said after the train ran over his tail...it won't be long now.
Congrats - hope the date goes well and y'all have fun!
Please consider replacing your public photos as well - they really aren't all that enticing so may limit how many people reach out to you. To be honest it almost looks as if you were both put in the corner as punishment (and not the fun kind). ;-)
~Phoebert's Wife
Forever,
That’s great news. Now, hurry up and change that profile pic of you in the corner. I keep checking to see when you’re going to get rid of that.
By the way, what kind of date is his going to be? Strictly meetNgreet, or is there the possibility of some play time?
Congratulations, and I think we are all rooting for you!
Congrats!
Wanted to update....
Two weekends ago we did end up going to the outlets at Hershey. We were on a mission!!! We went into every single store that sold mens clothing, tried on dozens of pants/jeans, shopped for tops...hell, I even bought 12 pair of dress socks!! In the end, we bought a dark pair of well fitting (but not slim fit) jeans, and similar fitting grey/graphite pants along with shirts (technically sweaters)...one in black and one in maroon. Everything except the non-jean pants can be seen in our new pics (for those that have access).
Now we have no clue if that's what tipped the scales in our favor. But less than a week after getting the new pics up and sharing them (and our new profile) with another couple....WE HAVE A DATE!!!
Debating on whether to go with the jeans or pants, new sweater/shirt or a button down. But I'm far more confident in my attire now than prior to the start of this thread. Just wanted to say thanks for all the replies! They are greatly appreciated! :)
Those are all kinds of great ideas!! We'll have to check them out for her. Just need to figure out what I can wear. This weekend we're celebrating our 10 year anniversary in Hershey. Plan to go try things on at the outlets. Hopefully we'll find some jeans, pants, and shirts for me that look nice.
When going to a party we are shooting for sexy, but also for easy access. A sweater-dress with a hot pair of thigh high boots (with or without leggings) can be nice for cooler weather. She can always take the leggings off at the party if it's a chilly day.
For a woman with a little belly, something that comes tight just under the breasts but hangs down from there works well. I'll usually go for either an off-the-shoulder or deep V neckline to highlight the Mrs better assets ;-) I think the basic look/style is called "baby doll". A tube top upper that hangs down from under the breast can be both sexy and provide easy access too.
In warmer weather, a sun dress can work well with either high heels or what I call "fuck me" (platform heel) strappy/cutout sandals. We both like the look of some of the longer asymmetric dresses as well. It's rare that the Mrs will wear pants to a party unless it's really cold out. If she does, she'll still pair it with a shirt as described above or a nice sweater dress.
The length of the shirt/sweater dress is usually long enough to just barely cover her ass if she decides to wear just that at a party, which is usually the case after we've played and she doesn't want to put all of her clothes back on.
Checked out Light In The Box... saw some possibilities but Yandi has more of a selection unless I'm missing something link/option-wise.
As I've said, I'm shooting for looking hot/attractive...as I think most are. Just not used to making any fuss to do so. That's why I'm curious about specifics as to what sort of pants and tops would help accent my build. What you said makes sense for parties. When you talk about "outfits"....what types of pants/tops are you going for? Thanks
