We understand not offering face pictures up front but not requiring them up front and not posting your own. Of course there are several other things we consider hypocritical as well like looking for someone HWP when you yourself are not especially if you fall way outside of that parameter (hey we do and freely admit it). Another is not being up front about your age or especially weight (those that claim say 99 years old or do not put in a weight) on your profile because both will come out sooner or later. Those are not because we judge based on weight (admittedly we do have top and bottom age limits) but rather we prefer to meet with folks who accept who and how they are and not saying (especially weight) is rather telling of how you feel about yourself. Of course everyone is entitled to looking for and hopefully finding what they want but asking for something you are not offering is counterproductive to say the least.
Hypocritical profiles
I have always loved the “drug free” or “No Smokers” — but 420 is OK....
What?? How does that even make sense.
Now that you mention it, the non-dickish, benefit of the doubt approach might be a better one. ??
BT
They could have just meant that they want to see them... We have many who just plain refuse to send face pics on here or anywhere else. Double check and clarify with them: "So, in your profile you demand to see face pics and yet have none. How is it that you all share face pics? Also, I am assuming that only the wife plays since there are no pictures of the husband."
Or just roll with BT's bad breath suggestion.
OP,
They left you with the perfect opportunity to respond, ...understanding that they require face photos and thanking them for making theirs available. Then, closing with regrets because you’d have concerns, based on their face photos, about their breath...
Now, would I ever send such a note? No, but it’s ok to dream once in a while.
BT
I had a couple hit us up on messenger so i took a peak at their profile. The thing that stood out right away way their banner that stated in all caps “if you don’t have face pics don’t waste our time”. The problem i had was they only had 3 pictures on their profile & all 3 were of her ass!?!? Not 1 face pic & certainly not one of the guy. To me it’s ridiculous but i see it more & more on here....