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I posted this to your question in the Open Forum thread, but it's more appropriate here: "My lady friend and I are members. We're thinking of keeping my RV there this summer. It's a vanilla resort that is family oriented, so if you abide b…
My lady friend and I are members. We're thinking of keeping my RV there this summer. It's a vanilla resort that is family oriented, so if you abide by the rules you'll be fine. The owner/management does take a dim view of overt sexual acti…
I recall long ago learning that the guys wore socks in 70s-era porn so they could quickly scoop up their clothes and dash out if the production was raided by the cops.
Solair Recreation League, and Sunridge Resort, both in CT. Dyer Woods in RI. Sandy Terraces in MA on the Cape. I've never been to any of them, but they look nice. All seem to be vanillla. So I'm sure any overt sexual activity will be quick…
@oreocpl2015: What's the weather like at PVR in late April? We're looking for options for a birthday week around then. TIA.
"Did the party perhaps not allow SMs? That's about the only reason I can think of to hire a human ticket." We saw that a lot at swinger clubs in the Netherlands. They only allowed couples of SFs. Guys would hire "pros" as their ticket to g…
To the OP's question: Any other folks with experience at Secrets over the weekend? We're planning a trip to Secrets in late April. Again, trying to decide on Thur-Sun or Fri-Mon schedule. We were at Caliente in October and Did Thur-Mon. We…
We spent a long weekend (Thurs-Sun) there a few weeks ago. Our first time at Caliente. We had a blast. Facilities are a little dated but overall good. For some odd reason the main pool is ice cold, but we spent most of our time in the smal…
I had a very bad experience there with the staff a while back. I will never return. We just got back from a fantastic trip to Caliente this past week. I would much prefer to spend my money there where I am respected and my patronage is app…
owcangrace- Thanks. I've just tried it and it will produce a delimited file. It needs some extreme housekeeping to clean it up to make the data useful. I'll work on it and post again if I can create a useful product. I doubt it can be conv…
I've actually compiled a pretty comprehensive list of LS-friendly and/or Nudist campgrounds, resorts, beaches, hot springs, etc. for the lower 48 and Canada. I like to do long-distance bicycle touring so I use that as a planning tool for c…
Fun4Two is a great place, but it's out in the middle of frick'n nowhere. Fata Morgana is closer to Amsterdam. I was a regular at Fun4Two when I lived in Holland, but I had never gone to Fata Morgana.
When I lived in Europe I found that SDC was a popular choice among the natives.
If you're a single male I don't recommend. I had a very bad experience there once. Will never go back.
Not really a theme, more of an ice breaker: I went to a party once where it was made clear that at a certain time after everyone had arrived and had a drink that all clothes were to come off. We were nude the rest of the evening. Really op…
In reference to what LMK said about SM, I have to respectfully disagree, and I'll add my personal spin. I think SM "newbies" to the LS taint all of us SM. We're all are aware of the stereotypical SM that swoops onto SLS and sends out a bar…
As an SM I hate to say this, but the OP is spot on with his approach towards SM success. (The reason I'm hesitant to endorse him is because if more of us act like him it mean more competition for us who try to act as gentlemen). That has b…
Sometimes it seems I get a lot of WVM looks from around the same geographical area, which is often a few hundred miles from me. At first I thought it was weird, but after a while I concluded it must be something in the algorithm of the sit…
IMP: I have almost the exact same plan, only about 18 months behind you! Great minds... My two year plan is to retire early, sell-off my share of my business, then go full time RVing until I get tired of it or too old to do it anymore. Of…
This is copied from a post a made to a similiar question here some months ago: I lived in The Hague for a number of years. Fata Morgana and Fun4Two are two of the more famous LS clubs. I've never been to Fata Morgana, but went to Fun4Two q…
You might want to check out another website that focuses more on Europe. When I lived there I used different swinger site than SLS to meet people. I'm trying to come up with a creative way of telling you the name here without getting this…
Ashtons, or when I can get them a good Cuban Cohiba. Lately my go-to smoke for a casual stroll on the beach has been the New World by AJ Fernandez.
@mayhem: I think guys are stupid when they're young (it could be argued that we still are...but I digress). Looking back on the decades I can recall clearly now when women were flirting with me, but at the time I was too dumb to know it, o…
@Couple4 more: Agree...Shein! I did a shopping spree for a sexy friend on Shein earlier this year. I bought her some thigh-high red boots for Christmas and asked her to model her boots for me wearing the all the outfits I picked out for he…
I wouldn't find it awkward. Why would it be awkward? I'd assume that if the couple I was playing with were married then it would be normal for them to express their feelings. Am I right?
@LMK: Thanks! And we really do need to try to meet up some time rather than just talking about it. We need a plan to overcome the obstacles of distance, and of I-95!
I've been in the LS for over 10 years, always as a SM. The one certainty I've realized is that the longer I'm in the LS the more I learn about people...and about myself! When I started out I was like many SM. I enjoyed playing with SFs, co…
I really like kissing. I even have it in my profile. I've even had a woman cum just from kissing her, fully clothed. (Not bragging here so don't hate on me. Its simply happened a couple of times over many, many years. When it does happen I…
@Zulu: I agree with you. I like to go to events when I can. In our area the events that allow single guys are few and far between. When I can arrange a date I try to attend. And yes, I agree it's easier to meet someone at a M&G in person a…
I was diagnosed with PCa 14 years ago as a relatively young man in my 40s. Never had any symptoms. It was discovered on a PSA blood draw, and confirmed via biopsy (probably one of the most unpleasant experiences I've ever had, but that's f…
I'm procrastinating on doing more important things today so instead I just did my own analysis of my messaging success on this site over the past year: Over the past 12 months I've sent out approximately 100 unsolicited messages to people…
@mayhem8: I don't post in Forums often, but I have discovered the magic of the BLOCK button. One simple click and the problem disappears!
@flalovemonkeys: Yes, Fun4two! The orgy room on the top floor with the steep ladder. I lived in The Hague for about 9 years so I was a regular visitor.
Lost mine at a swingers club in Holland once. Black stretch boxers in the orgy room. For about 20 minutes I groped blindly in the black light over and around multiple writhing, moaning, sweaty, fucking bodies trying to find them. I was nak…
@New_and_Naughty: I don't even know gtrguy, but I feel the need to come to his defense. Why the attack and calling him a liar? This has overall been a good thread. Of course the math works for him regarding being in the LS before the inter…
I had a horrible experience recently at Paradise Lakes. I recommend to everyone on this forum to avoid it.
@Hertoflexible- Hi K, I'm your neighbor just up the street! Thanks for the reply. I've been to Club C3 about 2 years ago. It's a great place for swingers, but my friend is vanilla so I'm not sure if that place is best for her to, plus she…
I never really worried about pick pockets, but I left there in 2014 so things might have changed. Good idea to keep things in your front pocket. The subway was sort of a new thing then so I can't tell you anything about it, but I will say…
When I lived in Europe I traveled alot. Never had a problem drawing the local currency from an airport ATM when I landed in a non-Euro country. You should check with your bank to ensure your network works in Europe. Most do. You get better…
I'm getting a lot of positive comments on Caliente. Started to look into it and found that I can't book a room. Apparently only couples or single women can book overnight stays. I'll have my friend do the booking instead. Not to go off on…
@ Onehornywife Coincidentally I just asked someone else on here about Paradise Valley. I'll look into it. Thanks!
@RonKathy - I was the guy who had the bad experience at Paradise Lakes. I left after just 6 hours. Based on the way I was treated by the staff I will never return. One of the worse experiences of my life! I think if I were with a friend wh…
Oh, and I forgot to mention, bicycling in Amsterdam is not for the faint of heart. Imagine driving through Manhattan during rush hour, except doing it on a bicycle while trying to dodge hundreds of other bikes, pedestrians, taxis, trams, a…
I lived in The Hague for a number of years. Never been to Fata Morgana, but went to Fun4Two quite a few times. One of the best swingers clubs in Europe. It's a hike from Amsterdam though (about 50 miles) so unless you have a car that might…
@RonKathy Thanks for the comment. In the back of my mind I've been thinking Caliente is ultimately the right spot. Just wanted to see if there were any other hidden gems out there. I have seen your comments here for some time on here so I…
I had a horrible experience at Paradise Lakes this past February due to the staff. Will never return. Do not recommend going there. I tried posting my experience on the forums here but my post was removed by the mods. If you want more deta…
Hi All. I have a long-time friend who wants to go to a nudist resort with me for about 4 days this June. She knows I'm in the LS, but our relationship has always been vanilla. She'd has confided to me in the past that she'd like to experie…
Hi All. I'll be in Central FL over the Christmas holiday. I was thinking of spending a day or two at a CO resort. I've been to vanilla CO resorts before, but always a part of a couple. This time I'm traveling solo. What's the attitude at P…
I appreciate the advice. I'll take a harder look at my wardrobe, remove some skin pics, and work on my syntax. Thanks guys!
I've been on the site for a while and think I have been able to build a good profile over time, but I'm always open to constructive criticism. So fire away...but be gentle!
Stan Musial
Don Knotts (HeHehe)
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How is possible that I have just received a private image access request message from a woman who has never viewed my profile, nor has she even been on line for the past 2931 days?
Gordon Lightfoot
@Best - So let me get this straight...I buy you a big house, then we have sex in the town square, become local celebs because of that, get a drink named after us at the local watering hole, and then we jet off to Hedo for a week? So how is…
Colin Powell
@Best - Although the article didn't state it explicitly, I would assume that one would have to be with a willing accomplice to do the deeds which merits having a Villages drink named after then. Do I see any volunteers? (if one did the dee…
RonKathy- Out in the open, even better!
@RonKathy- Found a great post in the Daily Mail about The Villages. Unfortunately I can't post it, but it did mention something about a 10:1 ratio female to male, an underground lifestyle scene, a thriving black market in Viagra, and occas…
@Best - I've had a couple of opportunities to start playing as a couple. What has happened is an attraction starts to creep in our friendship, and then jealously. At those times I wasn't totally in to her, or I just wasn't at a point in my…
To the OP...for me it depends on the situation. For daily vanilla wear it's traditional cotton boxers. I like briefs, but am approaching the age where they no longer like me. LOL For daily wear I'm not a fan of boxer briefs. Too uncomforta…
I've thought about it as a future move. I think I'd like to live near a CO resort, but not in it. I think it would be awkward to welcome some prudish relations to visit at a CO resort. Coincidentally, my folks live near you in Apollo Beach…
@Best - Unfortunately a lot of the M&Gs around here are not open to single guys, so even that is not much of an option. The ones I've been to I've had to go with a lady friend. I was part of a small group who tried to establish a regular g…
Curious...I know of a few couples who have met in the lifestyle, but more often than not they meet, are together for a little while, then drift apart. I think that some only become a couple in order to be attractive to other couples and si…
I'd like to find someone to date in the LS, but at this point in my evolution as a swinger (aren't we all evolving after all?) I tend to think it might not happen. Looking for a compatible LS friend (FWB, fuck-buddy, or whatever you want t…
Thanks RonKathy. To say I'm totally frustrated with SLS at this point is an understatement. A resolution for 2020 is to find an alternative.
Happy 2020 everyone! New year's musings from a single lifestyler: Looking back over the past 6 months since its surprise implementation I have only met one new lifestyle friend with the new message system, whereas before I was meeting abou…
Some advice: "Never travel with someone you haven't already slept with." That's one of the "Atip's Truisms" (to speak of myself in the third-person). Some might not agree, but as a single that always seems to work best for me. It means to…
I think certs are a dual-edged sword. I have a few and I've also given a few, but I've never asked for a cert nor have I been asked for one. As an SM I see certs as validating what I've written in my profile. It's part of the whole package…
My communications has tanked in the past 6 weeks. I had a well-crafted note that I would use to introduce myself. It briefly described me, my interests, experiences, etc. and I would modify it to match the interests of the person I was sen…
I feel like this site is in a death spiral now. Communications have ground to a halt for me. Like another poster said before, as a single male I have to use the written word effectively in order to separate myself from all the rest of the…
Midagehippie, which resorts do you know of in Western PA? I'm thinking of visiting Pen Mar when I'm traveling through next month. Do you know anything about it?
