Trying to meet

Post a profile and search out couples. I am confused as anyone that has dated couples knows that the best way to meet couples is through the couples you have swapped with....

At the expense of offending, there is no need to filter through dating sites for single men. First of all, where are their girlfriends and/or why don't they have one? I learned a very long time ago that it is a waste of time and frustrating to try to have a date with a single man from a swingers site. Most are married, unreliable, and dysfunctional.

Pick up a single man the smart way. Get all sexed up, go to an upscale bar at happy hour and take the pick of the litter. Isn't this what you would do if you were single? You'll have to endure or kiss a lot of fake frogs trying to date online.

We concur with the previous posters. You have a very strong emphasis on SM's. Some couples won't read past your tag line. There are also some who shy away from couples who are very SM friendly.

SWFL~ your tag line still says "Seeking respectful MALES" and your interest levels don't show that you are interested in couples. update your profile to reflect your new interests

"How can we break this habit of not being able to met couples."

Have you read your profile lately? Your tagline? Tacking something on at the end instead of reworking your profile to appeal to couples is not a good strategy. Particularly since the way you worded your little afterthought, you sound like drama bombs in waiting.

Also, run spelling and grammar checks. Horny guys are generally not all that sensitive to typos, couples might be.

Contact A LOT of couples!

As a single, I do that and, I hate to call it “The law of averages,” But that’s what it amounts to, i suppose ....so send out a lot of Site contact mail.

I have NEVER met with a couple that did not ask me to come back.

I have not been accepted by very many single girls. But, one in particular acted very strange and wanted me to mistreat her physically! No thanks! I prefer couples!
—— SLO

Have to agree Ron Kathy. They wouldn't be a couple we would be attracted to.

Welcome.. first thing we see.. well is a guy who may just not fit many peoples "fantasy of swinging".. change it up,.. especially the photos..

Or head to Leesburg and Daytona Bike Fest you should find what you want..enjoy!

Good morning we have been a member for years and have always been interested in single males a have certs and met when we say we will. The problem we're having is now we're intrested in meeting couples and seems we get a cold shoulder since we just met males before. How can we break this habit of not being able to met couples. It's just disappointing to us that we can't reach out and get couples interested in meeting us. Any responds or help is appreciated.

@copnkitten You hit the nail on the head.

"I'm a very respectful guy".

Yeah? Would the wife you're cheating on describe you that way too if she knew what you were doing?

Always makes us laugh when guys claim how respectful they are while behaving disrespectfully. Who would expect anything but more of the same down the road?

nice guys don't cheat on their wives