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Frankly, none of the books I've ever read seemed to match very closely to reality. I've often wondered if most books are written by people who failed at it. Just sayin.. As a professional musician, I can attest that most of the "tutorial"…
If you want to be the bull, then you would do best to create a profile here that is more specific about being a bull for hotwives/cuckolds and then they will find you.
For a lot of hotwives/swingers, it's not just about "other" people, but relies a lot more on preferences. A lot of women want their fantasies fulfilled... A lot of men don't seem to really comprehend what that really means. Many women fant…
TheTravelVeteran : Best response ever, in any forum or discussion board ever. best. ever. Thank you for that, and the laugh at the captain obvious irony of it.
My first time was at a gloryhole club. I stood around for about two hours just trying to get an understanding on how everything operated. There were different rooms, theater rooms, private rooms, and a row of about 10 gloryhole rooms the s…
Met a girl at a bar when I was out with friends, we made out a little, but I was with friends, so I bid her goodnight and got her #. Called her a couple days later, made a date. Worth mentioning I was only 21-22 years old, as was she. I sh…
I very recently had a chat with a guy claiming to be bi, and everything in the chat seemed really positive. Comes time to meet and I email him the day before, and like houdini, he vanished into thin air. This seems to be the status-quo for…
I hate to say it because I find women far more sensual and erotic than men (when it comes to receiving), but the best blow job I ever had, and by a longshot, was from a man. At the time, I was young, and not really into it, but he knew exa…
I met someone on SLS who was actively trying to get pregnant. She wasn't asking for anything except a good time, and her hubby seemed into it. I'm guessing he was sterile, although I'm not the type to top .. She was also interested in domi…
Do you have stats to prove most couple on SLS are seeking other couples? I just don't see that - I see a lot of couples looking for the single female bi-sexual unicorn as much as looking for other couples. I see a lot of couples looking fo…
I don't think it's anywhere near as bad as ncalcouple states- Keep in mind that his experience may be more negative because of the frequency and negativity of his posts, which are on on display on nearly every topic in every forum here. Fo…
I always felt that straight / gay was like a VU meter. 0 is 100% straight and 100 is 100% gay. Bi can be anywhere in between, a straight guy who has bi thoughts but can't act on them because he finds it too repulsive might be a 8 or 10 on…
Don't assume her clingy-ness is a sign of wanting more. The girl I was with when I created this profile was a FWB situation, and when she appeared to get clingy, I got concerned. At first I played along, figuring a little bit of more-than-…
My wish would be 2-3 times daily, at least as a minimum.
There's one somewhat near me, 45 min drive. Very hit or miss, mostly miss. Out of the 5 times I've been there, I've only had two good nights. The three off-nights were pretty much a lot of really really old men, which I'm generally not int…
I had been bi curious my whole life, but always kept it to myself, afraid friends, family, co-workers would not understand. Even today, I would bet my company would fire me if they knew, as the owners are super-religious. However, once I g…
I have super sensitive nipples- The women in my life always learned quickly that if they wanted to make me cum on command, just reach out and tweak them, and bam, 30 secs or less and I climax. I've always had sensitive nipples, and feel li…
I agree with the others here, that meeting up for a drink beforehand is always the best policy. While I'd love nothing more than to put up some pics, I can never bring myself to do it. I'm in the closet even more than your average swinger…
Sure people take pics from the best possible angles, but I've yet to meet anyone here who was outright deceptive in their profile. I'm sure it happens, but outright lies? Seems like most people just do the little white lies. There's anothe…
Attitude is far more sexy than a perfect beach body IMO. I get that some people will angle pics in an attempt to put their best possible foot forward, it's human nature. Getting all butthurt about it, why bother? I've met people I thought…
Ok, that being said, I wholly support the paid membership. Keep in mind if you have a free account, or allow free accounts to see your profile, any pics you have up are totally public.. anyone on the internet can find them. Not being "out"…
I disagree that CL is the place to go to swing- around here, it's considered to be the lowest of the low, as in: go there if you want a disease or a crackwhore. There's a lot of clubs in my area, so SLS is all over the place and it seems v…
As long as it's a nice cock, the size doesn't matter.
@JackMichille As someone else answered, I've also read that prostate stimulation has some health benefits and no known downsides. The key to stronger ejaculations is simply abstinence... sorry to say. Consistent masturbation hurts your abi…
Get one of those prostate massagers, every toy store carries a variety. The basic ones simply allow you to angle and rub or hit your prostate however you desire, you play around and find what works for you. The more expensive ones can vibr…
I'm submissive by a long-shot. I have dommed, and enjoyed the learning curve, and even found pleasure in parts of it, but I was never truly comfortable in the role. As a submissive, I'm perfectly comfortable and just love femdoms and male…
