Real names or Knick names?

“In that type of setting if a playmate; someone you had played with going by your alter ego name; called you by your LS alter ego name in the presence of you coworkers could and probably would create issues with your coworkers.”

It was clear enough; it was my fault for believing people shouldn’t put themselves in that predicament or they wouldn’t choose a playmate stupid enough to approach another while knowing one was in other than a social setting, based on how most everyone says they are ‘selective of intelligence over looks’.

~Allen

“First I am not speaking from experience. I would think if one was in a professional setting and a playmate called you by another name it could get dicey really quick.”

From experience, why would you have a playmate in any other setting other than Lifestyle Social?

Also, If in a professional setting, why wouldn’t they know your real name?

Rhetorical questions, of course.

~Allen

It really comes down to your decision and how discreet you all need to be. Some couples will simply go by the first letters of their first names which isn't too hard to forget...

I have known people who create what they call lifestyle named which they use exclusively for people they interact with as swingers.

Early on, Lady and I considered this as we both were in places in our working lives that made us a little nervous at the time.

It didn't work for us though. The whole thing would become awkward very quick so we abandoned that idea almost as quick as we had come up with it.

Funny thing though, fast forward to today and we find many of our friends routinely using our screen names when talking to or about us.

We only ever use first names. Can't bothered with remembering Nick names

I think knick names would be fun, like alternative egos. He thinks it's not necessary and we would forget and mess it up. What are your thoughts?