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In MY opinion, what RealINDiscreet said 2 days ago and what CandBmn said makes more sense then any explanations I have read from SLS employees. It appears "The technology of this site is much more complex then any of you seem to understand…
Yes, Please and Thank you Wayne shall I send you an email address thru the message option here?
Where can I find exactly what Free members have access to and the limits free members have? I am not likely to renew my account as a paying member. Going from a paying member to a non paying (free Member), does my current profile remain th…
I'm glad I read forums, my message counter also indicated zero messages when I had 4!!! New banner needed because it will likely take a week or 2 to fix.
Thank you Wayne, I'm all set now
My Message counter works, but it says I have 2 new messages when I do Not have any new messages....SMH
Messages is still not working properly, It says I have 2 messages and I dont see them when I click on messages. As much as I Liked this site I am NOT likely to renew the membership.
I have "Undefined" and I am computer illiterate. I don't know what a "Cache" is nor what a "Browser" is, or how to clear and reload it. Almost like you want us to fix the problem ourselves instead of giving us the service we paid for when…
Perhaps, That's what they mean when messages mean "undefined" Looks like it undefined as to "If" they know what the problem is or even how to fix it!... SMH
I could be wrong but I believe that prostitution is Legal in RI as long as it is behind closed doors.
Please note "The Wall" will only reflect post from those that you friended
@Apolon21 Yes I have been to a swingers Convention in Vegas. They have Seminars on many topics like Rope tying, Female ejaculation, BDSM to name a few. They also have many vender selling clothing, shoes, toys, lotions, trips and sexual fur…
In my Opinion Humans are one of the fewest species on this planet that tries to mate for life. I think it is more a personal choice, love is love sex is sex
As a widow after 19yrs of marriage, I would love to have love letters from him. I do have the little cards from flowers he sent and he was also the kind of man who would send me flowers for no reason, not so much on just a birthday or anni…
Funny story...I once set up a 1st time FMF for a young playmate of mine but unbeknown to me he had used lidocaine on his penis so he wouldn't cum to quick, till i went to suck his dick and my mouth went numb!!
Leather Chaps and a Banana hammock, or thong
Question for those that feel swinging is for couples not singles.......When your at a club, event or party do you only play as a couple and never as a FMF or a MFM ? If I go to one as a couple it is with the understanding he can do his thi…
@Heels, I have always been a Single swinger since 2004 and I share myself with those I select. Perhaps you just feel more comfortable swinging with Couples. If I do attend an event/club/party as a couple I still Wont take one for the Team
IMO my advice, go to an event but Not with the notion that you have to or are going to have sex. Swinging to me is as much social as it is sexual. You Don't have to have sex you can can just watch until you are comfortable to participate.…
Funny story... One very hot day I was anxious to get home from work, so I could go skinny dipping in my pool. During that ride home I was behind a car going under the speed limit when I saw a head pop up then go down intermittently. I susp…
I heard the new owners of the property would Not renew the lease.
If all else fails you can go to your nearest Porn store or search online for an inflatable Penis, she can feel it grow and expand as you pump it up!
In my opinion What will did will forever be etched in many people's memory much like Ted Kennedy and Chappaquiddick.
When I 1st went and tongue kissed my late hubby is when I 1st discovered he had a full set of Dentures in his mouth! I stuck with lip kissing after that.
You can get pregnant from Kissing!
YKW in NC allows single men the 1st friday of the month. One Friday I went, there was a Gang Bang going on. How it worked as far as i could tell, was the female mingled with the other guest and would pass out tokens and explain that she wa…
Once, years ago my hubby rolled over in bed and accidently took the skin off my ankle with his toe nails and they weren't overly long!
@CopNKitten, "some people get drug tested at work so would rather not be near it, and yes the test can detect it even if you've just been near it" If someone did Not smoke it but happen to be around it and then they got tested, do the resu…
Here's a crafty idea. Take a roll of toilet paper and wrap it in festive tissue paper and a bow and then attach a tag or a sticker with the following message....Just for You....Money is scarce and times are hard, so I'm giving you this ins…
20005 NH Man said a friend put a padlock around his testicles when he passed out from being severely intoxicated.. The 39yo said when he woke the paddle lock was in place and his friend was gone. He attempted to remove it himself with a ha…
That reminds me of a guy I briefly dated yrs ago who's Penis head was flat on one side instead of the full Mushroom head. Story was he got it stuck in the vacuum, said he was fixing it for his Mother. Apparently it swelled so bad he also h…
Too many woman and not enough men isnt good either, some of those B*tches get greedy
When a Loved one passes their never away, they walk beside us everyday!
When I 1st moved to SC I had already been swinging for 11yrs but knew no one in this area. Comfort is key so I wanted to attend events that were interracial friendly, BBW friendly and age appropriate. As I search on this site for events ne…
My favorite is the burgers at Steak & Shake
How about..."Have you ever swung before?"
Your Welcome @ late, Many parties, clubs and events have a social area, some have a DJ and dance and are BYOB. Many are in Hotel/Motel where people get their own rooms to play privately or to invite others to their room.
I have a FWB who hands are always cold, its wonderful in the summer months but in the winter I make him wear knitted gloves ;)
I usually tell those interested in swing that you do Not have to get naked nor do you have to have sex, but you need to be comfy around naked people and people having sex. It is typically not a free for all where everyone touching/groping…
I have been meeting others from on line as a single woman for 17yrs. My experience has been that about 80% of the plans I make never happen. Whether it is car, work, kid/s, illness, family problems or they simply ghost me. I never take it…
Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie........Russian Proverb
Well I just tried and Did gain access to the Chat room, the message is still there but clicking on it does nothing. I assume its just a carry over from the group home page regarding terms and agreement?????????
Nope, cant get to anyplace in the chat room asking Any question. I'm very computer illiterate and have no idea what a browser is or does or how many browser options there are. I only use my Lap Top to access this site. Now I will say I hav…
I tried to access the chat room today and saw this message "Chat room has been updated. We added a Swinger Club and terms and agreement for members to accept before entering the club rooms." Where do I find this chat room Update ? Is chat…
@ 8" In answer to your question, "Are you really trying to understand the virus? Or wanting to argue that it's fake and dispute the CDC and medical experts?" I truly am trying to understand the virus, obviously I am not educated enough to…
Thank you for your explanation 8", I'm just trying to wrap my mind around it, so you said " Vaccines are dead or inactivated organisms or compounds that are used to provide immunity to a particular infection or disease." If that was effect…
TBR can you explain and help me understand this statement...."Second, the unvaxxed population serve as a reservoir for the virus to mutate. That puts everyone at risk. See Delta variant." Back in the day Doctors overly prescribed Antibioti…
I am of the opinion that Humans are 1 of the fewest species on the Planet that tries to mate for Life. We have the same instincts as the animal kingdom, for warmth, shelter, food etc and Sex! If your in a loving committed relationship and…
Go to forum's Website messages and see Wayne response under Terms and Conditions of Membership
How about a Royal crown Bag or an insulated lunch bag
Not long ago they decided that Antibiotics were being overly prescribed thus making the Antibiotics less effective and now they are reluctant/cautious of prescribing them currently. Every year there is a new flu strain a new flu shot which…
Scamp, Let me clarify MY opinion.....That they often charge single men more as to discourage an overabundance of single men, so it doesn't become a "Sausage Festival"
I am sorry you feel this way Travel Vet, but understand why you would. It has been my opinion the reasoning behind those events that allow and charge single men larger fees was to limit the amount of single men and to hopefully attract qua…
Yes Thank you Wayne, The scroll on my mouse dick the trick, I use my lap top.
Hi Can someone tell me how I can scroll to view other chat rooms? Since they add a new feature "chat rooms by state" the scroll bar disappeared, according to others in Chat the scroll bar to view the other chat rooms to enter has disappear…
On the tag line on Who viewed me, if you look to the right you can click on "view more" of those who viewed you
Your so right Mayhem, I've worked for a company that was sold more then once to other company's and when you are a part of the company you see the internal changes before the Big announcement.
I started meeting others from online after my hubby passed in 2002 after 19yrs of marriage. No one told me I needed to come up with a screen name so the first thing that came to mind was this is kinda wild and I was a widow. Wildwidow and…
These are things I don't understand...Getting vaccinated doesn't prevent you from getting corona nor prevent you from spreading it. You have those, that test positive for corona but have no symptoms. Health care professionals are reluctant…
Seems I stand alone on the not into kissing so I have a question for those that do kiss. How do you handle a person you are kissing on and they are a lousy kisser, ie to wet, to much tongue, Dentures, missing teeth, bad breath????????
I don't mind tender teasing erotic light little kisses on the neck ears and lightly on the lips but NO deep passionate kisses for me. I personally find passionate kisses to be even more intimate then sex itself, because when kissing that w…
I'm guessing that the red alert Banner on the home page "SLS is undergoing upgrades, members may experience some downtime throughout the day." will be a permanent part of SLS's upgrades.........
Thank You
I'm guessing the red alert banner on this site "SLS is undergoing upgrades, members may experience some downtime throughout the day." becomes a permanent feature on this site.
Edging just makes me want it even more!
Do you all feel the same if it is the female half of the "married" couple that is undercover as single? I have always been a single swinger not looking for a permanent attachment, I simply seek friends/friends with benefits. In "MY" opinio…
What is "Fly Over" ??
I see an upgrade of after your city/town & state it is now reflecting Us or USA SMH
Hi Wayne the issue Duke Rice stated happens intermittently, but has been occurring for a about a week intermittently. I sometimes have to sign in and out of chat to make it go away.
I have been meeting others from several different sites online since 2003 and my experience has been constantly that 80% of plans I make Never happen. Work problems, family problems, car problems or just plain ghosting. I never take it per…
I think they even had Friday off at SLS because their were other issues with chat and messages they have not addresses
Funny we cant see pictures but we ALWAYS can see their advertisements, SMH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Messaging not working again
Yeah it plays "Ground Hog Day" with showing yesterdays messages and todays chat disappears once you leave the room or switch to another room
Communication is key to everything SLS lacks communication so we are left to speculate
Or Explain why there are so many issue, Knowledge is power and with knowledge comes understanding and perhaps less frustration......................
ATM = Ass To Mouth
Where I am located their is a church called "The Cowboy Church", I live in the "Bible Buckle" I want to start my own Church, The church of Sexual Freedom. Since the virus has kept many out of Church, I would create a Fans Only page and Pre…
Or...............You could say (his 1st name) What are you wearing?....Like the State Farm commercial (ok Jake from State Farm, what are you wearing) I did that once and they hung up on me, god I hope they put me on the do not call HER lis…
Today is my renewal day yet this site is not giving my access to renew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I try to submit a support ticket to Billing but my access does not show a place to hit send!!!!!!!!!!! When I scroll down the screen behind the sup…
Thank You 8inch
@currentrider...I know you dont want this subject here but i have a question....I have exceptional credit but my credit rating goes down when I dont have Debt or Borrow, why? I ask you this based on your reply about national Debt.
Nope not offended, we all have things that we like or dont like. Communication is Key so if im not what they prefer or their not what I prefer its best to know that up front I dont want to waste their time nor mine.
Wayne I only use my Lap top to access this site and I have the same issue when I send a message to someone for the very 1st time. I can not see all I am typing in the message till I hit send and go back and view what I sent. No Im not subm…
My 1st younger man, I was 45 he was 27. I was skeptical, reluctant then he said 2 magic words......Just Imagine!
Agreed, It is not like it is a disease, its a virus
Johnson & Johnson lied/recalled Baby powder and you want us to trust them ?
Wait for it, Wait for it.........Different Strokes for Different Folks......Sharing is caring...LOL
You can always watch yourself/s in the Mirror.....LOL
Smile, Make Eye contact, Focus on the half full not the half empty, and live your Best Life!
I've been to several each offer similar things and sometimes it really depends on the attendee's. Best advice which ever you choose, simply smile and make eye contact but not in a creepy stalkerish way, have fun make the best of it even if…
I am a fan of cum quick but cum often. Nothing excites me more then when I make his engorged dick start twitching and throbbing till he erupts, that's when my excitement peaks! Of coarse I seduce his mind 1st.
@fokkers, My sister gifted me with a pair at Xmas my only thoughts was to wash my car with them and are thrilled to find a Better use for them, so Thank You!
In my opinion, the thing that most dildos lack is the body heat of the Real Penis. Maybe try wrapping the dildo in a heating pad or submerging it in warm water 1st and see if that makes a difference in how it feels.
Happy Nude REAR to you as well
Happy Nude Rear!
Vanessa del Rio
EQ #2 all 3 in this order 3, 1, 2
@Wayne If this is true "This is us listening to the customer and doing what they want done. " Why hasnt SLS reinstated the old message system?????????
@Wayne If this is true "This is us listening to the customer and doing what they want done. " Why hasnt SLS reinstated the old message system?????????
