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24u717 wrote: So that’s it. We’ve reviewed all new meassages but the badge still shows “1”. Number increases when we actually get a new messages. The unread message is near the bottom of your message list on the first page. Scroll down you…
SLS did not and cannot delete any original pictures. No website can do that. We removed copies of pictures that members posted here. Everyone should have their original pictures. If you do not have it, then you deleted it and it must not h…
Your profile had the city filled in, but did not have a zip code. I updated your zip code. Please see if that helped.
PershingSquare1983 wrote: The new swing dot com site no longer opens on Safari on my Mac. It was working fine up until a few days ago. Now I get an error message "Too many re-directs trying to open the web page you are trying to enter". Mu…
calcanfun2 wrote: Last question. By chance was the Zoom recorded, and if so can you post a link to it? We can teach you how to post URLs on the forums to get around the wildcard content/word sensors if you'd like. ;) We are planning on hav…
calcanfun2 wrote: Sorry we missed this. Wayne, can you give us a bit of a summary of some of the comments/suggestions received and staff's response to that input? Thanks! Many members seem to still be confused about being able to login to…
ne14oldr wrote: Anyone play the VA Lottery on the App? I've been having login issues, using the reward section to purchase online tickets and the app is "down for maintenance" several times a day. I've contacted the Lottery Headquarters an…
BottomsUp508 , We fixed the bug causing this issue and I removed your profile from the Nov' 26 cruise.
BottomsUp508 wrote: We’re no longer on the November ‘26 cruise and have removed ourselves from the attendee list but the banner persists. We also still show up as attending even though we’ve repeatedly removed ourselves. It’s annoying as w…
If you select the List view, you will see icons on each card to represent the interest levels, without having to view the profile or tap on them.
We are going to have a Zoom call tomorrow at 8:30 PM Eastern Time with several staff members, if anyone is interested in joining. The link is in the news article on the homepage.
jlalbany wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: jlalbany wrote: Wayne - Hope all is going well with you. There is a problem with Messages - when you display a message, just half the screen is available to view. There is a large margin at the bottom of t…
On the swing.com homepage, there is a "What's Happening" section that you can select to expand that shows what we have been adding to the site. That has been there for months.
jlalbany wrote: Wayne - Hope all is going well with you. There is a problem with Messages - when you display a message, just half the screen is available to view. There is a large margin at the bottom of the message. Someone play with the…
The stories should be working now. There was some sort of DOS attack hitting that page over the weekend that our developers were dealing with.
" I'm assuming SLS receives detailed invoices for work completed to substantiate each billing period. Seems easy enough to almost copy and paste and report to us what your contract developer is justifying in his or her billing?" Everything…
Goodenuff wrote: windowShopping7 wrote: Big Brother says no sexy stories for Good. And I'm OK with that. I don't read Erotica here or anywhere for that matter but... ...we did watch porn. Not sure what happened but shortly after we changed…
The Erotic Stories section is down right now for everyone. Our developers are aware and have been working to determine the cause and correct it.
CouplesToy909 wrote: Licker_and_Nymph wrote: Because it is based on how the crow flies, not what the actual driving distance is. It's always been like this. There is no point at which LA is 20 miles from Redlands/Yucaipa. I'm not even 20 m…
The upload date was added in March of 2025. Right now, it is only on swinglifestyle. It is not on swing.com or the mobile app.
RonKathy wrote: Went on SwingCom today only photo we see is our lead profile one.. no others show up even when we clicked on the numbers? After viewing the profile, select the "Galleries" tab to see all the pictures. Personal pictures are…
Single_again1960 wrote: PeachesAndCreamAZ wrote: Today in the profile settings, you can set it to be viewable based on relationship/gender. For instance, we have our profile set to be viewable only to other couples and single women. It wou…
Single_again1960 wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: Single_again1960 wrote: Goodenuff wrote: Single_again1960 wrote: Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica One option m…
SparksNvCpl wrote: Posting this again due to no reply——There are approx. 22 podcast choices with a supposed 2900+ episodes however, apparently only can access 2 podcasts for each one. Why can’t we select more or browse a more extensive lis…
Single_again1960 wrote: Goodenuff wrote: Single_again1960 wrote: Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica One option might be to change your preference levels f…
Single_again1960 wrote: I'm seeing lots of improvements with the new site....are you aware that using the common form of swing dot com is a prohibited word and not allowed? Any idea when, or if, Multi Factor Authentication (2FA) will be im…
Single_again1960 wrote: I searched but couldn't find this topic Will it be possible to create individual Private Galleries? Right now all I see is Public, Private & Personal with no option of creating sub galleries within the Private and P…
mayhem8 wrote: Just did a Search for MAISAILEWI3 and it is gone, FWIW. There was never a MAISAILEWI3 profile on the site. Tags made a typo when he posted that message. The correct profile name that was a scammer was dealt with, but it take…
Goodenuff wrote: "Please do not report anyone or name any other member names here in the forums. Use the report button or send us a ticket. The name you posted was not even a profile that is on this site (if it was, I would have deleted yo…
tags wrote: Members alert Profile screen name of MAISAILEWI3 is a fake and will try to solicit apple gift cards after chatting here and wanting to use the WHATSAPP. There is a cert but it’s linked another with similar info in that profile…
" Sometimes when I hit send nothing happens and the message disappears." In that case, the message was not sent. I specifically mentioned that you need to see the message appear in the history box to know that it was sent. If it does not a…
" Someone's lack of an answer.. is an answer as stated by many over the years on SLS." Lack of an answer is absolutely not an answer. Just because a whole bunch of people believe something does not make it correct. If you do not give me an…
" I wonder if the initial message was ever received" Can you explain what you mean by that statement? If you send a message by typing it out and selecting the "Send" button and then you see that message appear in the message history box, i…
calcanfun2 wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: JustCurious123408 wrote: This may be touchy for some so apologies in advance, but what about a search feature on endowment size? It prevents from anyone being lied to catfished, etc. How would we verify…
JustCurious123408 wrote: This may be touchy for some so apologies in advance, but what about a search feature on endowment size? It prevents from anyone being lied to catfished, etc. How would we verify that what they say in their profile…
NefariousTitan wrote: No pics on Beta site? There are public and private pictures on swing.com. The personal pictures have not been added yet.
ItalianGinger4u2 wrote: Seems to be up on PC, but still down on mobile Chrome browser (iOS current version). Is now working on Safari. I just checked it on Chrome on iPad and an iPhone and I see the dates. Try refreshing Chrome or open an…
I set my Hot Date location to Westmoreland, NY and I see 5 hot dates when all profiles types are selected and I see 2 when I filter out single males. It appears to be working.
We rolled out a fix for two other issues this morning: 1) Messages on swing.com being broekn up into multiple bubbles and words line-breaking in the middle of a word. Those should be fixed. 2) The login page had a star field animation that…
vabeachcouple33 wrote: I show new birdies/messages. Clicking on Messages takes me to the right page, but nothing loads and the thing just spins. It is because you have one message thread with another member that has many, many messages (10…
The paragraph formatting when viewing a profile should be fixed now on swing.com. PeachesAndCreamAZ , Thank you for working with me on this and reminding us that it was not corrected.
okcitron71 wrote: Looks like we're back to OG SLS event functionality, right as Swing events were starting to make *some* sense...not much, but some. Both systems are available now. If the new events system does not make sense to members,…
" Congrats Wyoming. You bought a reserve of gold slightly smaller than a volleyball and dedicated a huge vault to hold it for... reasons." Size doesn't matter. :) If Wyoming had a reserve of neutron star material that same size, you wouldn…
TNAandL wrote: If I jump from old site to new site everything is opposite. Who viewed us is completely different from site to site and we always view them by date. Might have messages on old site but do not show in the messages on new site…
AandKForFun wrote: i agree it should be more prominent at the bottom (similar to how it was before)... its one of the more important features of the site and kinda gets lost in the "hamburger" I have been here around 23 years and didn't ev…
NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: Why do you make it so hard to find the hot dates section now? Now you have to search it out in the side ham…
NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: Why do you make it so hard to find the hot dates section now? Now you have to search it out in the side hamburger, when it used to be at the bottom of the fr…
NorthernMichiganCouple75 wrote: Why do you make it so hard to find the hot dates section now? Now you have to search it out in the side hamburger, when it used to be at the bottom of the front page. It is in the side menu where it always h…
Right now, you have to create a new profile using the new name and let us know and we can transfer your membership to the new profile. You cannot transfer anything else. The owner has stated that he would add some type of alias system, whe…
Coupleofgoodies wrote: The entirety of the events section is broken. How can such an awful website get even worse and more broken? What is broken? Please be specific. When I look at all the event pages, they are working (other than some mi…
Goodenuff wrote: sls_WayneC wrote: The site already restored all older, public and private pictures. That is done. A 5+ year old picture on a swinger site is pointless and useless. If you need more pictures on your profile, upload new ones…
snj1216 wrote: Why is no one addressing this concern?? At least reply and let us know you're working on it. Yes, we are aware. We read these posts everyday. We are working on it daily and you should see improvements each day. Almost everyt…
The site already restored all older, public and private pictures. That is done. A 5+ year old picture on a swinger site is pointless and useless. If you need more pictures on your profile, upload new ones. This is the feedback we received…
RonKathy wrote: Hilarious.. just saw a older profile in Fl west coast area.. guess what they had many many photos 2019 . makes one wonder how and why all ours from same time on XXX were taken down ! RonKathy , We restored all the old publi…
jlalbany wrote: jlalbany wrote: Wayne - I was able to fix it. I used the Events settings button and edited the zip code and added the leading zero. I have events now displaying. Thanks ! I was able to fix it temporarily by adding the zero…
A single female profile sending you an initial message from a long distance away is a huge red flag. If anyone immediately asks you to take your conversation elsewhere, that is also a huge red flag. Never do that. There is no reason to do…
There is a way to give yourself access to your galleries. It takes a few clicks, but is not that difficult. Most people do not want or need to do that, as you can go to "Tools" and "Manage Pictures" to see all your pictures. The problem wi…
I do not see either of these issues happening when I test it. I will send you a message to see if I can get the exact details so I can recreate it.
mayhem8 wrote: I have to wonder if SLS regrets adding the "Reply to...." feature? I realize it's just text and not a significant amount of data storage-wise, but it has definitely blown up the average forums post size. Storage-wise, it is…
Goodenuff wrote: Do you get messages from penguins or seals when you change your location to Antarctica? I've told some members they could use "McMurdo Station, AQ". A remote research station in Antarctica. Eventually it may have a high ra…
Single_again1960 wrote: Would be nice to have a way to temporarily disable an account without deleting it or changing the location to Antartica Right now, you cannot disable your profile yourself. That is an option the business is looking…
okcitron71 wrote: Just noticed that links to events on SLS are pointing to the event section and even listings on Swing, which doesn't appear to support authentic and has place holder content for a variety of things. I assume this isn't in…
Our site as well as others have been being hit by what must be a scammer network. For us, they have created entire websites to impersonate us and trick people. One was slshelpdesk.com. We finally got that site taken down, but they have cre…
spoonerpa wrote: HT: I just received a friend request from someone 300 miles away from me. That is a first that happened to me for all the years I have been on SLS. BT: I just received a friend request from someone 300 miles away from me.…
TJPartnersInCrime wrote: This has happened for us off and on over the years as well. My hope is that with the new site, this issue will be resolved once and for all. In the meantime, I type out all longer messages in notepad and then paste…
Lilrat4fun2 wrote: Not liking these changes today! Very upsetting and apparently not just for me. I do not ever want my comments edited for grammar or spelling. If I come across as an uneducated boob, it's likely because I want to! Suggest…
FloridasFunCouple69 wrote: Webmaster wrote: RonKathy wrote: What about changing photos from lets say from our private xxx to something else that is acceptable in that gallery instead of resubmitting the photo. This is also on our list. It'…
sybianrydr wrote: partyforthree49 wrote: I opened our personal pics for some people and they said it showed zero pics. I looked and it was empty. All gone. I uploaded 20 pics in there to replace them. I saw all last night. Today only 5 sho…
The site recently removed pictures that were uploaded 5 or more years ago.
We made an update that now allows paid members to send a message to free members, even when you have your profile hidden from free members. If this block had anything to do with the issue of some member's messages disappearing, that should…
Windows can be downloaded, installed and used for free, at least temporarily. It will have a watermark/nag prompt, but can be used in a pinch. You can get it directly from Microsoft.
Nowackosplease3 wrote: Are there plans for a phone app or notifications to the email we signed up with when there is a message? We already have a phone app. A new version should come out soon. I'm not sure if it will have notifications, bu…
L8Bloomers68 wrote: Why is the messaging platform so unreliable?? Its constantly failing to send messages..Very frustrating when you type a long message hit send and it just “poof” vanishes. Thus has been going on for years and getting wor…
RNV2025 , Please email the picture to pictures@swinglifestyle.com and I will get it posted for you. The error you mentioned is caused by the proportions of the image you are trying to upload. It is not a size error. It is an error caused b…
RNV2025 wrote: RNV2025 wrote: I uploaded some pictures as we were updating our profile and I tried last night to upload a couple more and I keep getting an error and it won’t let me upload anymore and I only have about 12 pictures. I tried…
Fresno_Power_Couple wrote: We’ve been getting these on a regular basis lately. No other contact, no hello, no nothing, just these image requests. I don’t recall ever having received that before we took or 5 year break in 2020. Is this a ca…
Rocco757 wrote: Does the owner of the site or a third party answer the help tickets?? When I've sent in a ticket the information I get back is wrong for example: I submitted a ticket about a concern of a free member and I was told the site…
HOPnrBED wrote: While in discreet mode all profile default photos go blank, is this a glitch or will you no longer be able to see them while invisible? Discreet mode lets you use the site in public or around others without drawing attentio…
It should be working now.
I tested this and it is not just you. The pagination is broken. It only ever loads the first 100 forum threads for each section. I created a ticket for the developers to look into it.
lcmim wrote: Again I ask Wayne: I thought the original banner mentioned remving to an historic data base. Are these photos permanently deleted? It mentioned that briefly due to the fact that we were shocked that so many people do not keep…
" Who deletes peoples personal photos of their recently passed spouse. Fucking insane." We have always done that. If a member's status changes for any reason, we update the profile. If their spouse dies and they let us know or another memb…
Yes, it is optional. No one has to use it.
irishrose22 wrote: Does that mean if 2 different profiles used the AI tool and happened to choose the same likes/kinks/etc., their profile txt could be exactly the same? No, you can submit the same information and it will be different each…
" 3) Under Kink, will you be adding more?" We can add more. Please send me any suggestions that you would like to see. Thank you. I will look into the first two questions you asked. Over time, it should get more refined and our developers…
We have made some updates to profile editing. On the new swing.com site, we have an AI enhancer online that will help you polish and write your profile. All of our AI agents are internal to the site servers. As always, none of your data is…
An update that went along with this (for both sites) that I think most of you will like is that now your profile edits and updates will go live instantly. No more waiting for us to check and review your changes. We will still check them, b…
We see some members are already using the new tool and posting about it. That is great to see! This is a section where you ask questions and post feedback - What you love, what you like, what you hate. We will be reviewing all the comments…
Opentravelingguy wrote: Why is my message feature not working but my video chat feature is? Some iPhone users have been reporting issues with messages disappearing when they send them and getting the "reconnecting" message. It could have s…
Greyhoundguy wrote: it is funny they took all of our newer g rated pics down and left our older r rated pics. this makes no sense at all. We only removed older pictures (uploaded 5+ years ago). We did not remove any newer pictures and leav…
" and according to Wayne in the Just Wondering forum we were all notified about two months ago by the owner mentioning in the Swing Beta forum that all photos had to be dated. Did you miss that posting? You must be part of the large percen…
Onehorneywife wrote: I just looked at our Beta profile. Some of our pics are missing like others that didn't know that was happening in addition out Personal Pics are locked so I can't check on them and we have a CERT from someone that we…
Classycpl72 wrote: Webmaster wrote: Kakuseijin wrote: Not sure if this has been mentioned, but on the original SLS, you can see what a profile is looking for (Preference wise) without viewing their profile, and also search for only people…
funcoup3640 wrote: Funny how SLS just decided to do this without taking a vote or actually asking the paying members their opinion. If you don't like em' don't look. We did get feedback from our members. That is why we did this. Members ha…
Ghostmachine7 wrote: JLCoupleCA wrote: We’ve experienced this as well - yet see SO many main profile pics with full nudity. Just submitted a ticket questioning this and included screenshots of some profile pics that are full nudity. They’r…
tbrmskss wrote: "new pictures of you are better than old pictures of you." Thank you for making that decision for us. I dont know how I would have figured that out otherwise. Now can you start working on the list of things we have asked fo…
They got the default pictures restored that they did not mean to delete.
I have seen this issue too. It is some glitch in the Who's On. This site is almost 25 years old. This is why we have created swing.com and are focusing on that site and making sure it is the best it can be and works properly. It would be i…
irishrose22 wrote: " If you had an old, default picture set, that should not have been deleted. " Our default pic is the only pic we have that is older and it looks like it is still there, so not sure why VA's default is missing. We genera…
The owner posted about this 67 days ago. Here is the forum post. https://www.swinglifestyle.com/forums/Suggestions/Swing_Beta/all_photos_must_have_the_date_uploaded_imprinted_on_it/threadid_356012/viewarticle.cfm
