Which is better

Yeah, I totally missed it. My eyes always glaze over when I hit that stupid thing. Good catch. Yeah, I'm guessing it would be a complete surprise and not a pleasant one.

I'm guessing she has no idea , yet.

I read the profile twice before I found that tidbit hidden at the bottom, after that stupid institution warning.

I'm guessing she doesn't know and he doesn't really want other people up know either.

Not cool.

~rabbit~

"PS Married and she doesnt play"

does she know you play?

Hi. If you think you would be a good fit, it's okay to send a short email that gives some indication that you read their profile and think your interests might align. I would very much rather that people didn't open their galleries on the first email. There are some who insist on it and for those of course you open your photos, but for the rest you have the option of attaching one of your photos to your email. Do that as a compromise.

I know you didn't ask, but I read your profile and you are not doing yourself any favors with the first few lines. I can explain why and at great length if you like, but not unless you ask. If you start your profile with "I'm looking for..." you'll make a much better impression. Also, a common pet peeve is that it's "discreet." Discrete means something quite different.

Good luck.

I see many profiles on here where they are very interested in females, very interested in couples, but only slightly interested in men. Question is it better to email them, open pics for them or just pass them by? I don’t want to be rude or seem creepy. Not sure what the appropriate etiquette is.