Is Michigan forgotten?
You look at SLS events and they never host any in Michigan or let alone Indiana, Wisconsin. There are some in Illinois. Why can't the great lakes have a huge festival?
DragonLovers4u
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Adult sex playground
Okay, we are looking for ideas to put up on our 10 private acres. We want to make a "Sex Playground" for adults. We have a sex swing up, sex table with straps, sex swing, trampoline, and bondage rack. What are some other ideas we could get…
How to respond?
We had some questions about organizing a swinger party. Some of the questions that are hard to answer, we like some input on. One of the major ones we always get is "How many couples/people are attending"? The frustration in this is we are…
Thank you SLS
That is true erotic amazon, I think you are dead on with putting effort forward.
Male posing as female
What is worse, is the amount of "couples" we find on here that amazingly the woman does not want to play anymore but he can. That is what we get more than single males posing as females.
Thank you SLS
I am so glad there is the option to turn off the single males from seeing you. We used to go to a club nearby that had a right amount of mix both couples and single males. We stopped going because the club becomes one maybe two other coupl…
Outdoor Playground
We want to turn our back yard of 10 acres into a couples playground. Please give us some ideas that we can build or add to the outdoor playground? Currently, we have a: Trampoline, sex swing, sex altar, ropes and ties in trees, fire pits,…
Messages will not work
The birdie is flapping its wings. Does not show a number for the messages, but like there are some with the bird flapping. I go to Messages and the wheel is spinning and says "loading". Then I go to IE from Chrome thinking they haven't upd…
Re did our profile
We redid the profile, seems we are not getting any replies or messages yet. What are we wording wrong, and we are hiding faces at first. Is that the way to go? So many people on here do not show themselves. What is the best approach to att…
IM Messages
Just a spinning wheel here too, they do not care. They got their money.
Messages Not Loading
I cannot even see my replies. I sent a ticket, but who knows... They can't reply. Really bunk they will not address this issue.
Religion
Yes, we are touching on a taboo subject. But pagans/Wiccans are good purveyors of sex magic and not all but most are polyamorous or open. We started a pagan/Wiccan group on SLS but how many actually understand what kind of magic sex magic…
Organizing Gangbangs
We just organized an almost successful Gangbang. We wanted a 8 hour time slot and allow guys to come play with her 1 on 1 through the day. But try and keep it continuous so she was getting filled. Things started off really well, but come a…
getting the play started
My husband always says, well we are attracted to you. You guys wanna play? the bedroom is ready LOL
Attractive or not
We have been swingers over a year. Been on SLS over a year, we have been to the swinger clubs also. I have asked what it takes to attract other swingers and couples. Seems the status quo is "It all falls into place". Well we did not contac…
Social Clique
We have been in the lifestyle for close to a year. We are finding out that when you go to the clubs, or parties that there are these social "cliques" of couples. Usually the same couples always in their own group. I understand that couples…
Tips on planning
So you want to plan a "Swinger house party" or "gangbang". We have noticed that it is hard to get other couples or swingers to commit to a party or event at all. Some will accept and say they will make it and then back out. I do not know i…
Snoody People
How do you approach the "Better than thou" swingers without being an arrogant asshole such as myself? The swingers at clubs you walk up too and introduce yourself "Hey I am so and so, this is my wife...." and they literally look and ignore…
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
You should offer a icebreaker feature that allows you to send a simple message to show interest. As some of us put in a long message and never get replies. Also offer a rate and comment for each venue or club for swingers. So people can se…
Is swinging illegal or something?
So I live outside a small city (pop: 1800) and the analogy they use is "if you fart, neighbor at the end of the street knows what it smells like before you". I live not in the city but out in the country and by ourselves and kids. The loca…
introductions?
We have no problem only stating our First names in the introductions. Never our last, is this a bad thing to do? I feel a more personable approach is better than a standoffish when you are contacting like minded couples?