We can confirm with the Fokkers wrote, Saints & Sinners is great for all levels. Just be completely honest about what you're looking for we have found almost every couple and most single men are willing to hear your limitations and either agree to them or let you know gently that they are looking for more/something else.
You are overthinking it. Saints is a great place for newbies or club newcomers. On most nights most stick to their groups. It’s a place where you really have to make an attempt. The playrooms don’t really get all that busy since the club also has its own hotel and most go back to their hotel room to play. The Red Room downstairs is where you can go if you want to be watched or engage with others in play. Another reason the regular playrooms don’t get much action.
Look at the list of who will be there and if anyone strikes your fancy reach out to them.
Have a great time.
I want to set some expectations as far as our first time going to saints and sinners AC on a Saturday night
It will be our very first experience at a club and we are not ready for a full swap but want to play-not ready for hubby to have the wife with a man but other various situations we are completely fine with
Should we expect mostly for us to stay to ourselves and have sex in the midst of others. Or is it possible to find a woman or couple that will play while her husband watches us?
Any other clubs that may be better for first timers. What should we bring? We really want to stay anonymous too and are so concerned about running into someone we know
