Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
Newbies - Yay or Nay?
I've heard many experienced couples will avoid newbies like the plague. I know that we have had mostly good luck with them and have some very good LS friends as a result. Some amo…
by mayhem817replies828viewsEnticing neighbors to play
Neighbors that you meet at a swing club or party - sure. Neighbors that you're not sure are swingers - no way in hell. Too much chance of it blowing up in a bad way.
20replies1,406viewsThings that are a big turn off in general
I could have sworn we already had a topic for this, but if we do, I can't find it. I think the one I remember was "words that turn you off", but this isn't just words in this case…
by mayhem813replies1,882viewsDoes anyone NOT shave their pubes bald?
Does anyone (couple or female) NOT shave their pubes bald? Seems every couple or female we meet does. We were once with a couple whom did and neither of us (wife or I) liked. We r…
by NOVA_FWB80replies8,570viewsLOCATION
Don’t know about advice but we’re In the same situation and we live on an island. Here everyone knows everyone and also we would be shunned if they knew. But we keep trying to mee…
by Onelyph3replies743viewsParty talk
I am kind of surprised that there isn't a topic about different party types and what people's take is on them. I think that people are aware of the various party types such as Mee…
by mayhem87replies346viewsThis site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
We've not met one single couple on this stupid site that didn't pull some sort of bullshit... Not one, they fucking vanish like a fart in the godamn wind or they don't reply or ma…
198replies18,403viewsNorthwestern Wi
Looking for trail riding atv /utv riders in northwestern Wi. Single men or couples, into riding the trails and maybe more.
5replies860viewsToo many certs?
We were recently contacted by a couple with over 60 certs. My first impression is kind of eww, I get it we will sleep around but over 60? Seems a Bit gross. Groups thoughts?
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STICK MEN / WOMEN IN THE PROFILE
How does everyone react when they see stick men, and women in the profile, paid couples? Not to mention the free ads? We tend to send as little information as possible or just blo…
by MNJFLA2replies220viewsIs oral enough for women to be satisfied?
I've seen hot dates listed by single women or couples looking for men who want a bj, many times they are very clear that it will not go beyond a bj and for me that can be great es…
by milftaster8replies1,080viewsHot Date success rate
I posted some Hot Dates for when we'll be at our timeshare. Not sure if it's the time of year or what, but we seem to have gotten a surprisingly good response. This sort of flies…
by mayhem86replies309viewsMost Active LS Communities/Best Places To Live
Hi All! Would love to hear from others who may have some insights to share from experience. I’m seeking recommendations for locales where there is an active LS scene, plus, a dece…
by CDSunnyGurl1replies604viewsVacation?
Aloha from Maui! Just curious from all you couples out there, how important is it to connect with couples/singles while on vacation? As a SM living on Maui it always makes me wond…
by 808ltvm3replies1,433viewsStarting a group
Would starting a group for newbies be a good idea? I'm thinking meet and greets for people who are not comfortable around people at meet and greets because they feel intimidated o…
by Ymichael142replies745viewsInteresting sharing arrangements
We always try to lead by example by being inclusive when it comes to our LS friends, and it's great when they reciprocate. A new and fun situation recently is that a close LS frie…
by mayhem81replies608viewsMen shave or beard ?
I have for years shaved my face but recently have decided to grow out my beard at least for a while. I want see how I look with a beard. I see many men will shave, while many will…
by MNJFLA4replies732viewsI have a problem
Not sure what I am looking for ...mainly to blow off some steam, I guess. Until not long ago, I was always able to attract lovers. But...mother nature has NOT been so jkind to me…
by midagehippie18replies1,923viewsBull looking for girlfriend
Hello everyone! I am a 46 years old single and healthy bull, never married and have no kids with a remote job that allows me to move for the right couple. I am looking for a coupl…
by kyen07591replies406viewsWoman to play
Why is it so hard to find a woman to join us. Generally I (f) try to get things going with her...should he take the lead?
6replies1,446viewsIs there a Bahama swinger group
It doesn’t appear that there is a Bahama SLS group. Anyone have other sites that work best.
by gr8fun4allvt0replies240viewsHung Pakistani in Philly
Loooking to meet cool people in the Philadelphia area. Take a look at my profile and hmu if interested
1replies332viewsNorth Florida Unicorns
Hello SLS folks. We are a nice hard working respectful Married couple in north Florida. We have been on the prowl on and off for a few years. We have been in the lifestyle for qui…
by Swirl900replies283viewsEver hear of this club
Rhody Boats Bristol, RI . Also shows a Providence, RI address . I just saw them advertised here on SLS and I ever heard of them before. Just wondering if anybody has been there an…
by Ymichael141replies438views- 4replies663views
Why is the communication on here so terrible?
We are fairly new as paid members. We know we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. It seems like no one bothers to put effort into their paid profiles. It’s just a lot of one sentence pe…
by Ozone869replies649viewsShe is Dead Again
It was a late summer evening Of flowered simplicity Two lovers walked down a path Bound by their mutual anxiety The breeze was warm and it passed with no threat Of any of the oran…
1replies449viewsWTF is no on these sites serious ?
We have sent out at least what seems like a few hundred inquiries, and most no response. Are these people real, or just fake posts. Do people post just to snoop on others' profile…
by MNJFLA5replies526viewsUPDATE We have encountered Flakes and Been Ghosted but this is new
At least you know now.
by irishrose224replies1,232viewsNE Indiana - an SLS dry spot
Wife's parents live in Fort Wayne IN and so we are there a couple times a year. They are older so we stay at a hotel and spend 8 hrs a day with them but leave early enough so we d…
by owcangrace8replies514viewsWhat to say when contacting someone ???
Well after we have been in this for over six years, and not getting the responses we would expect. We feel it is past time to ask for advice again. We are wondering what couples s…
by MNJFLA13replies1,552viewsFake profiles
I know it would be somewhat of a black eye to SLS but this site really needs a section to post the names of fake profiles. The sad reality we have come across is most of the ones…
2replies412viewsDating other couples
Nope we are not old fashion but does anyone date (get to know each other) anymore? It seems the sex party has pushed the ONS agenda forward so if you are not having sex right away…
by scorpionbull8replies988viewsWhy is the BDSM kink crowd more relaxed?
I went to my first BDSM munch that I found on Fetlife. Unlike swingers, there isn't any requirements to attend. Swingers will not even talk to you until they make sure your profil…
by Ymichael1416replies825viewsHot dates
Do you think this is ok for a hot date? I'm not sure what to write. I didn't choose a time because I'm not going to go there if nobody will be joining me. I set the same hot date…
by Ymichael140replies310viewsWeight and age truth ???
I know we all fudge about our weight and age a little, it is just human nature. My questions is how much less should we state for our weight or age, if we intend to embellish? I h…
by MNJFLA10replies1,359views- 2replies571views
Seeking Clean Cut Straight Single Man for Wife in Mid Michigan
I’m looking for the Right Man to introduce to my wife. She is new to this and has no experience. You must be Single Straight Clean cut . Non Pushy Respectful Clean DDF. Have face…
by slvrking2replies355views- 0replies628views
Bullshitters .
Many of these swing sites have a ton of bullshitters due to the nature and privacy of the lifestyle. Just out of your experience can you share some of your bullshit stories of how…
by BruuceWayne62replies5,849viewsSmall Towns
I moved from Houston to East Texas is so damn hard to meet a couple or a single woman I'm not even looking for sex on the first date just to go out have a drink dinner or somethin…
by thatdude984replies826viewsSLEEPOVERS
Does anyone have sleepovers? How do you feel about them? Do you sleep with the other partner all night, switch, or how do you make it work?
by MNJFLA5replies1,079viewsMutual Attraction
WELCOME.....Never , ever take one for the team! Swingers well over 30 years and each year we continue to refine what we each like and enjoy.. this includes 3 sums, classy, sensual…
by RonKathy4replies623views- 13replies2,257views
When should we disclose??
Here is a question about disclosure. Both Nin a& I are visually impaired. At what point in the courting does everyone think we should disclose this? On one extreme one couple we m…
12replies1,714viewsConvincing Friends to Swap
We have been talking about swapping with Close friends how do we start this ?
by lickerman358replies1,865viewsWho does most of the online shopping for playmates?
It seems a common thread here is that it is very difficult to make a connection for many couples. My question is, who is doing the majority of the looking, reviewing profiles and…
3replies506viewsWhy the difference?
Hi all, we just got back from 10 days at a resort in Mexico. We had a great time at our favorite naked, LS-friendly place in the sun. Everyone was very friendly and it was good to…
6replies578viewsWTF ???
Well we have been in the lifestyle most of our marriage. We have been on swinger sites for a long time, a few of them. We send many many inquiries and can count on one hand the nu…
by MNJFLA6replies868views
