overeducatedcoupleRegular
Carlisle, PA, Us
Your SLS experience, or perspective of it, is a lot different than ours
While youre waiting
LoveMeKnot144Regular
Hunt Valley, MD, Us
Yowzah! Sounds like I need to make a trip to New Orleans soon.
By way of Atlanta. ;-)
~LMK
DBCooperMNVeteran
Prior Lake, MN, Us
RUSTIC
It can, and does happen.
Last summer, I met a couple at PLayaLinda (I was there with a couple I play with). The couple had set up near us and the husband chose to stay inside the clam shell tent they had set up. While I was talking with my friends I noticed the woman checking me out, smiling and flirting with me. She disappeared into the tent with her husband and shortly after they both popped out and smiled at me. throughout the remainder of our stay, the wife kept checking me out to my delight.
When they were leaving I went over and introduced myself. We had a friendly talk as I helped him take down their tent. I mentioned I was on SLS and they said they were also, we exchanged information and agreed to check out each other's profile. We did contact each other via SLS, which led to exchanging numbers and agreed to meet.
This is where this topic comes into play..... i got a hotel room halfway between the two of our locations (Daytona Beach).... while I awaited there arrival I took a shower, brushed teeth, applied body lotion and cologne. I set up a mini bar in the room, went and got ice, set up my blue tooth player with some nice mood music. Made sure the bathroom was clean, my toiletries organized and relaxed.
When they showed up we made some small talk, had a drink and she then excused herself to the bathroom with her personal items in tow. When she emerged she was in a sexy outfit, she walked over to her husband and kissed him, he then excused himself. She looked at me and said, "I knew it, I had a feeling that hygiene was important to you! She came closer and we kissed.....
Point being 1. Clean is important to me and should be to the people I am seeing and going to have sex with. 2. Having the room arranged, neat and music playing in the background helps to ease everyone into a comfortable mood. 3. Being a host (even in a hotel room) should let the person(s) that I think of them enough to make them at ease, drinks, snacks (if need be) help with that.
HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th
Although the probability is low, we have actually had success doing some spur of the moment messages and hotdates. "Groom or doom" is our motto when it comes to play. We always put in as much effort as we can to prepare to host someone. Now we have never had the person go from message to the hotel room. We always meet elsewhere first. Quick NSA's really don't need a ton of prep for the room other than making sure things are clean, organized, and you have some drinks around. Like others, we will put a good deal of effort into staging and prep if we already know who is coming.
_rabbit_n_scamp_Veteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
No need to watch through the window BT, the SFs we know always like some extra.
~Scamp
hiwayrider2020Regular
Aurora, OH, Us
rabbit_n_scamp_....I agree with your set up....Bathing, grooming,, and beforehand, being tanned, selecting what to wear when that door opens. First impressions is what gets the ball rolling. Looking as sexy as possible is erotic!
RusticMagicRegular
Ridgeville, SC, Us
sexxyjessy69 what we would like to know is how in the hell do you not have plans in advance and then shorty have someone on the way to your hotel room? Now picking someone up in a bar or whatever and heading to a hotel room we get but not contacting someone through SLS and getting a quick enough answer and them heading right over. Heck even calling people we know usually does not result in that kind of response.
bridgetenderVeteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
Why am I having this incredible urge to make myself a peanut butter & fluffernutter sandwich and enjoy it while peeking into Rabbit & Scamp’s guest room window?
Triggers…damn triggers…
BT
_rabbit_n_scamp_Veteran
New Orleans, LA, Us
If we have invited a couple over, we spend the time showering and grooming, setting the mood with fresh sheets, dim lights & candles, having some drinks at the ready and dressing for fun.
If we have invited a guy (or two) over, I will likely dress rabbit and possibly blindfold and/or restrain her.
If an SF is coming, we prepare the spare room and plan to spend the weekend together. ;^D
~Scamp
RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us
If we are at home.. we set the mood, first off clean house.. groom each other prior, .. rub coconut oil or something yummy on each one, powder her privates with marshmallow powder.. (YUM YUM) dress sexy ,clean nice sheets, appropriate towels in all bathrooms with mouthwash, mints, etc.. set the music , get out the healthy appetizers, light the candles, turn on high electric candles, turn down lighting... now wait and anticipate the knock at the door while making out with each other... talking about what we will do... ! YES!!!
Out and about dancing and and have a hotel.. its usually off to the races as soon as we get in with the person we just met at the bar or restaurant!
GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us
"It’s not like ordering a pizza."
Until someone says "extra sauce and hold the sausage".
New_and_NaughtyVeteran
Las Vegas, NV, Us
I don’t know that it’s that easy to just decide we’re feeling horny, let’s log in to SLS and invite some friends over. It’s not like ordering a pizza. That being said, when we’re at a hotel waiting for playmates, we tend to relax at the bar and have a few drinks before the arrival time.
sexxyjessy69Member
Alpharetta, GA, Us
So you're at home or in a hotel with your significant other. You've had a drink or two, flirted a little, and decided to have some extra fun tonight! You get on SLS and invite over some company for play time. Now they're on the way. Meanwhile, what do you do? Go ahead and get the party started? Decorate the room? Lay there anxiously? Set out appetizers? Ive always wondered what other couples do! What if they are 5 minutes away? What if they are 2 hours away?