@MandC508 - Well, as with most women, I preferred her without the breast implants, back in her early days. I dislike artificial enhancements of any kind, and most boob jobs look so obvious, and grotesquely unnatural. Outside of that, Nina Hartley has aged quite well.
Interesting that older Nina Hartley is a lot more attractive to me than the younger Nina Hartley.
@MandC508 - Yes, there are swingers from all walks of life, including schoolteachers. And COPS (as well as a surprising number from the medical field)! It can be strange to think of "innocent" professionals like teachers, or librarians as being in the lifestyle. But they can be as freaky as anyone else. And again, that's a contrast I find very intriguing, and arousing. Rather than the woman with the hooker fantasy, who dresses in skimpy dresses and stripper shoes at the swing party, I'm far more turned on in the "vanilla" world by the wholesomely attractive wife that looks like a next-door neighbor. A good-looking woman in a modest blouse, and jeans, or yoga pants is far more sexy to me. Contrast. The excitement of the unexpected.
Also, I've heard that Nina Hartley is very friendly, and quite accessible to her fans. I am a devoted Butt-Man. I used to keep a list of my favorite porn stars with the best butts, and Nina was definitely among the top contenders. Another was Tiffany Mynx. Janet Mason is another.
BlackVulcan556:
Absolutely agree on The Graduate. Hot as hell, and did weird things to my brain in terms of thinking about the older woman/younger man scenario.
And I never remember crushes on my teachers when growing up, but there were a couple that my son had that got my heart racing. Made the parent teacher conferences more fun. I remember reading a story somewhere where the father of a kid was at a parent/teacher conference and recognized a teacher from a swinger club experience.
We never expect to play with the relatively younger hot couples like Harleycouple12, but it has happened more than a few times for us and is always an unexpected pleasure. I think the biggest thing for that is being in the right place at the right time.
We are always a fan of younger woman and older couples
Oh, I definitely crushed on a few of my teachers as a schoolkid. But I never fantasized about them sexually. No, my wet dreams were reserved for those female classmates who just set my hormones ablaze as puberty descended upon us all.
A key game-changer for me, and it's an obvious one, was when I first saw THE GRADUATE on television. Even though I was extremely enamored of the beautiful, young Katherine Ross as the daughter Elaine, I was not immune to the seductive power of Anne Bancroft as Mrs. Robinson. Typical, of course. Looking back, I can't help but wonder if that seminal film helped to chip away at my mental barrier of morality, eventually leading to my venturing into the swinger lifestyle many years after. The idea of a guy fucking a mother and her daughter further twisted what was already starting to bend in my pervy perspectives on sex.
I guess I was a more typical kid and had a crush on some of my teachers in my school years. These days, i do find the older guy/s and younger girl genre of sex particularly erotic.
I also find it particularly erotic when the Mrs plays with much younger guys.
I never really had any Age Gap fantasies before I actually experienced Age Gap sex. I mean, growing up, I had multiple crushes on the hot girls in my junior high and high school classes. But they were my peers in age. I imagined I would marry a girl 2 or 3 years younger than me, per the typical examples in my circle, and the couples depicted in mass media. But because of the solitary path my professional career led me down, my innate shyness, and because of my strict religious upbringing condemning premarital sex, I never found any serious prospects for marriage. I was in my early thirties, still a virgin, and all my siblings were already married off. So it was that when a mature white woman boldly flirted me in the electronics section of the Target department store, I pursued the opportunity. It was my late rebellion. I didn't want my whole life to pass by without ever finding out about sex. She was my first, and she was 20 years older than me. Still, I didn't suddenly fantasize about much older women. Years later, I met a girl offline who was many years younger, just over the legal limit. That was very enjoyable, but it didn't cause me to fantasize about much younger women. It's only now, in my second foray into the lifestyle that Age Gap sex greatly excites me.
I prefer older couples for a variety of reasons. First off I just find women of a certain age wildly attractive, but also there is just less drama and increased experience that leads to a better time all around.
I like the good old vintage porn with the ladies in heels, garters, etc…. So much class.
SLS sucks in that regard. Their profile info and searchability suck.
"In pure fantasy there is nothing like that 18 year old girl next door."
Maybe I'm not old enough yet, but the young girl next door has never been a fantasy of mine. I'd do it, but it's not a fantasy. :)
In pure fantasy there is nothing like that 18 year old girl next door. Perhaps it’s that lusting for the forbidden fruit, and/or the sexually intoxicating taboo feeling of wanting something you know you can not have. Feel free to message my profile inbox to discuss further.
I like that mature, aged like fine wine look.
I have fantasies for younger and older.
I adore HOT young women and always have... especially those who enjoy HOT older men! lol My personal recent record is 44 years YOUNGER. While I simply have a special Fondness & Craving for the Sexcitement that a Hot girl regardless of age, who openly Loves & Craves Sex brings to bed... especially 1 who enjoys being adored & made to feel like the special PRIZE she is.... I really go wild over Legal-YOUNGER 18+ girls (and that's almost everyone lol) who LOVE to show off their bodies and be watched... AND WATCH themselves... looking Hot & "performing" on cam or in pics.... that's SO Hot!
I've always had a thing for older women, lusting after every housewife in the neighborhood when I was a teen. I finally got to have sex with an older woman at a swing club. I was about 27 and she was mid 60s by my estimation. I got to experience a few more such women over the years and they were all wonderful. Now that I'm 69, I've fantasized about meeting a younger woman who has a thing for older men. I still like the older women though. ??
Ive had the good fortune to play with both youger and older women where the age difference was between 17 years and 20 years. In the case of the younger woman who was 19 she was gorgeous beautiful face, great body and a nice personality. A sexually adventurous young woman for sure with a high degree of sexual energy who was the wettest of all Iveever been with. Depite her claims of being infertile due to a car accident we used condoms and fucked for hours my balls were about to implode as she had the ability to completely drain me of every sperm cell in my body on multiple occaisions
The oldest womanI was married, radiated class, was tall had a nice body and dressed conservatively, we would have dinner and a drink then off for bedroom fun while hub waited at home. She would sometimes wear a sexy garter belt and stockimgs and had nicely trimmed pubic hair. After dinner we would have passionate sex. Pregnancy was not an issue yet we we had passionate hot messy and wet sex with her literally beckoning me to give her everything to the point of where she was running for the bathroom and later taking her back home to her husband who was waiting at the door with both of them smiling together at the door.
Ive had the good fortune to play with both youger and older women where the age difference was between 17 years and 20 years. In the case of the younger woman who was 19 she was gorgeous beautiful face, great body and a nice personality. A sexually adventurous young woman for sure with a high degree of sexual energy who was the wettest of all Iveever been with. Depite her claims of being infertile due to a car accident we used condoms and fucked for hours my balls were about to implode as she had the ability to completely drain me of every sperm cell in my body on multiple occaisions
The oldest womanI was married, radiated class, was tall had a nice body and dressed conservatively, we would have dinner and a drink then off for bedroom fun while hub waited at home. She would sometimes wear a sexy garter belt and stockimgs and had nicely trimmed pubic hair. After dinner we would have passionate sex. Pregnancy was not an issue yet we we had passionate hot messy and wet sex with her literally beckoning me to give her everything to the point of where she was running for the bathroom and later taking her back home to her husband who was waiting at the door with both of them smiling together at the door.
Awesome
I was fortunate enough to spend three naked hours with a couple (mfm). He was my age, she was 20 years younger. I can say it wasn't necessarily a fantasy. And we all lost track of how many times we popped. She was young, thin, and beautiful, with a lovely smile when she orgasmed. And she came quickly, whether by oral or by penetration. That in itself was worthwhile. I didn't look at her as being 'younger' but as a very fun sexual partner. I think it was the same for her.
I also don't get into the daddy/mama/son thing.
I agree with that perspective, pcbguy1830. Well put. Unlike some others, I never like certain family terminology used as "pet names" during sex. I never want to be called "Daddy," no matter the age of my female partner. Others think that's cute, using terms like "Daddy," "Baby Girl," and "Mommy/Mama." It works for them. For me, it's a thrill-killer. Again, it's less an age issue than a problem with the incestuous/Oedipal correlations and analogies.
I don't want an older women treating me like their child (or grandchild, as the case may be). I'm reminded of the movie BILOXI BLUES (1988), starring Matthew Broderick as Private Eugene Jerome. Private Jerome visits a prostitute named Rowena (played by Park Overall), and as he undresses to join her in bed, she says, "Come to Mama, now," and Jerome replies, "C-Could we not use the term, 'Mama?'" Hilarious line, but oh so true. A hang-up, perhaps, but oh so true.
Age is a relative thing in part as it involves appearance, behavior and attitude. So as an older guy when around much younger women if they act with immaturity I’m not interested. Similarly with older, if they act like a grandmother, it’s not sexy. With older, if they act confidently like they are younger and comfortable in their own skin, very sexy. If younger and they act maturely focusing on the person not an age, that too is very sexy. And appearance is always less important than the others.
