First time meeting performance

I had been texting with someone on SLS for a bit and we set up a dated to meet at a house party. We both came with partners but we both free to mingle with who we wanted to, after all, it was a party. She and I went off to a room with the door open. She waved to her partner to join, (ok, that was cool) So the three of us are getting into it, then out of nowhere, without invitation, without warning, my partner decided to come up from behind me and landed her tongue on my balls.

Totally unexpected, What a reaction I had,,,(No, not a good one, Not the one I've always fantasized about either,,, it was NOT good)

It was a shock! An unexpected Shock! It totally ruined the moment and everything came to a complete halt, What a bummer!

With that said, this new connection I made, who was just as upset as I was got over it and we hooked up another time. We had the most exceptional one on one time together that great night in Spanish Fort.

Some think they are ready for the lifestyle but then when it actually happens they find out they are not cut out for it. Some husbands think they want to see their wife with another guy but when it happens they do not like it. Just shows that it is not for everyone. But for some it can be very enjoyable and lots of fun. You don't know until you experience it.

It usually is a compliment.
I have never been able to cum from a blow job in less than an hour with vanilla sex. I always jerk off after awhile.
I just recently had my first swing experience. Woman approached me at my first swing party and offered a blow job while her husband watched. I accepted. This was in a semi private area so others were also watching. I always wanted to do this. I was so excited I came in about 5 minutes.
When I was 30 I had a girlfriend who kept encouraging me to last longer While fucking and I got up to an hour every time and then she said an hour was enough. But I had her almost every night. So I was used to her
So, yes, not lasting long is common when you are excited or your partner is hot .

Hi my name is ...squirt.

I have never been that bad.
Well, not since I was 15.

Viagra.
That will solve the problem.

Ya had that experience when we used to meet up with a couple or a single, it happens. I don't seem to have the issue of not getting and staying hard. But some have, maybe because I started at 20 doing this? But even way worse is no shows, WTF why would one say to meet up and then chicken out. Be ready too in either case. OMG

So to add to AR we have seen way too many guys single and in couples.. "think" they can swing with a 3rd or 4th and they can't. It has happened to young guys, middle aged and older guys... The only guys who have been successful and can keep hard.. are the ones whose mental and physical head is in the game! BRAVO, KUDOS ! but they are few and in between on this site.

It has been very disappointing as AR stated several times and recently for the wife and she is tired of it! YES we get jitters first time on a meet ..and those she gets to come quickly giving a BJ, even playing with.. and come back again and can fuck her.. BRAVO we get it! Those who can never get hard.. sad! Now we even say so in our profile!

Well that was all very nice. Now for your dose of hard, cold, reality. You only get one chance to make a first impression, so don't fuck it up.

This has happened multiple times over our....16?... 17?... years swinging. I don't even remember anymore. We hook up with a couple. She and I have a wonderful time. Absolutely fabulous, and we want to do it again. Then we all get back together, BTW we always do separate rooms, and Robin says never again. But honey, I like her and she likes me and it was great... Yeah, now I understand why she liked you so much, NEVER EVER AGAIN!

Don't blow it on your first impression.

Y'all are the best kind of wingnuts!

Adding my two cents and agreeing with sexyjessy - when our guest cums too quick it's a bit of a compliment. ;-)

Rarely is anyone at their best during a first encounter. As long as we all get along reasonably well then I eagerly anticipate return encounters with the single gentlemen we've played with. Generally the second encounter is better and by the third we've started to learn all the things that really drive each other over the edge.

~Phoebert's Wife

Right. REAL men don't play with dolls, they're action figures.

shifty eyes

I think it’s an action figure.

BT

Never send a man to do a puppet's job.

"fairly quick encounter" as in, done in 10 minutes, or shakes hands "HI, my name is..." squirt.

Because I know which one I'd be. ;)

Jessy,
You are a kind and caring person who is mature beyond your years. Your concern for others is as valuable a gift as any sexual intimacy that someone would be lucky to share with you.

God bless you.

more often than not, when i meet a new guy, its usually a fairly quick encounter lol. but honestly its fun and hot. i take it as a compliment. and usually im looking forward to more playtime! so dont worry about it! :) everyone has first time jitters. i still get super nervous everytime im meeting someone for the first time!

Thank. Laughing at myself has helped

Everyone is nervous the first time you meet. Just relax and don't expect anything more than a pleasant meet with new people. I just put the sex thing in the back of my mind.

And be willing to laugh at yourself.

Who else has been embarrassed and annoyed with themselves when meeting a couple for the first time?

I had a last minute opportunity to meet a sexy local couple this morning. Sadly, my performance was less than stellar... I was excited and nervous and didn't last that long. They were good sports about it but I don't know if I'll be invited back.... So disappointing. ??