choking

Neither my wife nor I are comfortable with it.; We have however tried a few other kinks and enjoy them. You can PVT message us if you like to know.

A girlfriend of ours years ago was into it a lot. We were not comfortable with the extent she requested at all.

My partner enjoys choking. She has me stoping when her breathing is shallow

I’m sure you know this, but be very careful with choking.

One of my ground rules is no choking if either of us has been drinking.
Consider checking out some bdsm web sites for advise on proper techniques.
We never choke to the point of partial asphyxiation. For us it’s more of a role playing D/s thing.
I know that partial asphyxiation can intensify an orgasm, but the risk isn’t worth the reward for us.

The wife just recently started asking for me to choke her while I’m fucking her i was really excited about how she was asking for tighter grip as fuck her to orgazm

We love it

I love being choked while getting fucked on my back, his shoulders under my knees, pinching his nipples. If he starts choking me a little too tight I’ll pinch his nipples a little tighter when he eases up on my throat, all ease up on his nipples and he’ll just keep pounding me. It’s the perfect volume control. I love it this scenario I will squirt every time in under three minutes.

Submissive male seeking an Amazon Gal...to put me in a leg scissorshold....and delight in my struggles

Love it! Giving and receiving. Love when she about looses consciousness and collapses on top of me while riding. When she gets blood flowing again she fucks real hard.

My wife has really gotten into me having my hand on her throat while she is riding my cock. I will talk dirty to her and gradually increase the pressure of the choke. She cums really hard when I do it to her.

I've started to really enjoy a firm hand around my throat as a round of sex progresses. It's not something I want all the time... it's part of variety. Some guys understand what I need as I move their hand to my throat during a heated sexual encounter. Other guys seem clueless and either don't engage or give a "wimpy" hold around my throat (annoying). My husband understands exactly when and how I need it. Long term Bulls sometimes get it after a while. Communicating the concept to playmates seems difficult and I don't always want to have to explain or keep saying "tighter".
I really enjoy it when I'm on my side with a guy deep inside me from behind. His 1 hand gripping my hip as he thrusts inside me and his other hand FIRMLY around my throat! His hand just tight enough to where there's a bit of constriction of my air, but not to where I pass out or choke. He's in total control as he fucks me from behind! Other times I enjoy/want it when I'm on top riding a cock. Building to an orgasm while a man has a firm, controlling grip on my throat makes me cum HARD!! Makes me feel submissive... out of control... slutty. It feel primal, dirty.... such a rush!

So HOT, but I don't want it all the time or every time I have sex.

J

Thanks, LoveBug.

Yeah, some of the replies/notes I’m seeing here are frightening.
Jim

I agree with you SLOtowner. It's not a joke to choke. I have seen people get brain damage and even die from it. I'll take passion from my man any day.

Obviously a little trust is involved but omg i love it. Like the feeling of giving up control and knowing he can do whatever he wants to me. That's so hot

I like to choke off the blood supply, not the air. This eliminates the "panic" feeling, but enforces the sense of being controlled and overwhelmed. She normally loses consciousness within about 5-10 seconds. I love the way her body twitches as she slowly comes back to consciousness after I choke her out during sex.

Being bi and submissive, I had a regular married guy a few yrs ago that enjoyed having me in my back, face up as he slid his cock in my mouth and we kept working and working it deeper into my mouth until it entered my throat. I finally got over the gag reflex in order to take it. It was at this time he began watching my throat swell as his cock would expand it and he began touching snd feeling my neck area. He enjoyed feeling my neck swell and would hold my neck and throat squeezing it pretty tightly as he fucked my throat. I could trust him which was very important and I would squeeze the front of his thighs as a signal that I needed some air. He got so horny feeling my throat swell from his cock thrusts that it just took a few more thrusts and he would cum hard. That was a different kind of choking experience but it was always hot for both of us.

We both enjoy it, both giving and receiving during role play (we take turns as the dom). Not enough to leave a mark but enough gentle pressure to establish control. Pretty hot.

I had a gf a long time ago that liked me to put a heavy hand on her breastbone when we had sex. One time my hand rode up a bit and was touching her neck. She apparently liked it and she slid my hand higher so it was around her neck and she orgasmed almost immediately. She didn't like literally being choked (nor did I want to do it!) - just the hand wrapped around her neck. Turns out other women I've been with like it, too - again not really being choked or much pressure on the jugular, just held down by the neck.

@over - It seems a lot of guys neglect the neck and I agree, it is definitely an erogenous zone for both parties.

The ex loved to be choked. The first time i seen her with a bbc pounding her ass, his hand around her neck and a large dildo in her pussy was amazing for all 3 of us

I have a grappling background, and we first got into kink through a grapple den event. Needless to say. chokes are part of our kink repertoire.

To me, there is also just something sensual about a woman's neck. I love snaking my arm across a neck, exposing it, kissing, carressing sucking, and breathing heavily on it. Get's the motor going for sure.

I absolutely enjoyed choking (with trusted partner) it's a wonderful addition to intercourse/orgasm.

I like having it done as well as chocking a willing partner. It can be very erotic.

I’ve done it before and it has been very fun and erotic, but it’s definitely not a first date move. I think that it requires familiarity and trust, so it would take a few sessions before I was willing to partake.

I’ve done it before and it has been very fun and erotic, but it’s definitely not a first date move. I think that it requires familiarity and trust, so it would take a few sessions before I was willing to partake.