Swinging Single
Both Male and Female
Would you ever consider going back to vanilla?
For the singles in the lifestyle and a hypothetical for couples if (for whatever reason) they were no longer with their significant other, you meet a vanilla who knocks your socks…
by Forfunin2054replies114viewsSingle female dipping toes in and advice welcome
Obviously I'd love to find a primary partner and then the play will get far more fun in The safety of that right person.. but I'll wait for the right fit But I really feel that wi…
7replies242viewsAre scammers starting to infiltrate the website?
I do not see any reason for a scammer to use an AI image. They can steal an image from the internet a lot easier. Asking for a phone number is normal. Most people want to make sur…
by Ymichael1414replies1,149viewsSingle Black male looking Syracuse
I'm a laid back single blk male. Looking for couples and single women Been playing since 2007 I can open pics and face pics also Laid back and freaky fun Have a nice day
2replies344viewsSF Seeking Significant Other
I have tried numerous regular dating sites for months trying to find my next 'person'. I am honest, forthright and don't like a bait & switch, so tell them up front that I enjoy s…
by FunWithUs7046replies183viewsSingle Male Profile Advice
Hi folks, I recently created a profile and am having zero luck meeting couples. I was married and in the lifestyle for about ten years then when we divorced I took a break for abo…
by JoeCrow2replies233viewsSingles or couples wanting to meet without seeing face pictures
This is purely curiosity, not asking for advice. Ok, we get a ton of requests from singles saying they are ready to meet us without even offering a face pic of themselves or even…
by JeffX_RebX49replies5,742viewsCommenting on photos
If you see a beautiful body or face or shape on a profile, is it wrong to make a non rude comment? Just saying hi I think you have wonderful pictures?
1replies114viewsLooking for feed back and opinions
As a single guy, is it better to go out with a group of other single guys and if so, what’s the ideal number or to roll solo
3replies310viewsWhy do some men lie about penis size
Last week on "One Thousand Ways to Die' they had a segment about some doofus (probably a yankee) who strapped a salami onto his thigh with a length of rubber hose and went to the…
273replies36,475viewsFirst rule of Swinging Single - Be single
We very seldom reach out to single females, but we made an exception this week to one who's profile seemed a real match in a town we will be visiting soon. We sent a nice opening…
17replies3,974viewsDisadvantages to being single
Something I've taken for granted is that, as a regular couple, if you are doing something wrong, it will quickly be picked up on and corrected. Singles do not have that advantage.…
by mayhem88replies1,462viewsMeeting single guys
I understand that single guys get a bad rap here. Maybe I’ve been very fortunate, but I’ve found (in my vast and extensive 5 weeks in) that the good have definitely outweighed the…
20replies3,276viewsBHM (Big Handsome Man) Why the double standard??
I have noticed an interesting trend over the years in this lifestyle..... great attention and care has gone into making sure that BBW are seen as just as beautiful as smaller wome…
by lonelylvr69132replies7,316viewsThis is why single guys get a bad rap
Our profile is very clear - we don't want singles to reach out to us and we don't want anyone to reach out via IM. Yet - this morning we get an IM from a single guy simply saying…
by AandJinNNJ43replies7,239viewsUnreliable Single Males
Can we start a list of unreliable single males profiles. We are so sick of getting stood up or worse ghosted. We need to out these guys!
by coupleofqs28replies2,634viewsGenuine guy
I’ve been in and out of the lifestyle for a while, and I’ve seen how single guys can get judged before anyone actually knows them. I know I’m not for everyone, but I believe in fa…
3replies607viewsLong island ny
What I'm looking for in a FWB is someone who respects both my boyfriend and me.(but only meets with me) Ideally, you’re available at least once a week—not just for sex, but also f…
1replies600viewsrisks with phone chat?
I feel like this is a stupid question, but it's not like I've never looked stupid before. Are there risks of texting strangers, and has anyone gotten scammed? I contacted a couple…
by slowpoking5replies503viewsCalifornia nude beach couples and unicorns disappearing?
I've noticed over the years that California nude beaches have a smaller and smaller ratio of couples and single females. Do couples prefer nudist clubs and pools more than the nud…
1replies249viewsHallpass Couples Unite
Great news guys. There are plenty of incredible wives out there who want to spend time with you. But you have to put something into the friendship as well. If you do, you'll make…
by fraunhubby681replies616viewsNv single male looking for bifemale for ltr
Hi I’m looking for a bi female ages 40 to 60 for a ltr. I’m 56 years old and 6’ tall and 230 lbs. LvNative is my name on here. I don’t have an ethnicity preference but l am lookin…
by LVNATIVE2replies503viewsWidows
Ok as a widower who lost his partner and now after a time would like to reenter the scene. Is wondering do widows who lost their partners stay in the scene and at some point want…
by MrClliny7711replies2,289views- 0replies383views
Photos of the wife that doesnt look like she knows
I've been noticing a trend on profiles where the photos of the wife look like she had no idea he was taking her photo. When I noticed one, now they all stand out. I wonder if thes…
53replies3,766viewsLooking for a Profile Critique and a little Advice
Looking for a critique of my profile so I can fix anything that might be inadvertently driving people away, I would also appreciate any advice on messaging people so that there mi…
by Vintage859replies488viewsCritique My Profile
Hello all! Was hoping to get some feedback on my page and what I can do to improve my chances/options with couples. Thanks!!
by gym_escape2replies1,109viewsChicago Suburbs-Lifestyle experienced widower seeks lady for LTR and swinging partnership
This trim, fit 25-year lifestyle veteran is widowed and looking for a woman interested in a LTR/swinging partnership. Please see my profile here. Thank you for reading my post! I…
0replies445viewsSingle male bucks county looking
Looking for a partner that is into the lifestyle but isn’t everything. Live a very normal life. Job house family etc just am single and looking for a partner.
by big189025replies758viewsNew to LS and having a difficult time meeting others
Hi I’m new to the LS and am looking to meet single females and couples. I don’t write short introductions nor do I act pushy. What would be the best advice for me you could think…
by LVNATIVE12replies1,658viewsStarting to play separately - single male now
Wife and I have been in the LS for about 2 years now. We have decided to start playing seperatly to see how that is. My concern is that I am now trying to meet people as a single…
by Lucky24guy8replies1,061viewsNE Atlanta unicorns
We are looking to add a sexy female to join us for some fun. Meet for some drinks, talk and have some fun afterwards if the mood is right. Hope to hear from you soon!
by ComejoinUs0812replies1,006viewsSF with married guys
I recently had (what I think was) an odd experience. Let me know your thoughts. I’ll preface this by saying I’m a SF, bi comfortable in certain situations but definitely not a uni…
16replies3,149viewsErection assistance
In a situation where a single male is looking for a couple (mature, 60's) would the couple have an issue if I use trimix or viagra? Trimix only takes a few minutes for some pretty…
by Bfwpmale8replies1,192viewsSingle male in Florida will share pictures looking for LTR
Seeing if anyone in the area would like to get to know each other better? I am real and have met a few great people but would like to meet someone that would like to see each othe…
by Emarrero8131replies752views- 2replies1,254views
Am I doing this wrong?
Hello, I’m a single male in my mid 20s but I’m having a hard time getting anyone... Not being aggressive, if anything, not approaching knowing not many people are looking for sing…
by JGO0074replies1,222viewsAttending first hotel party
I’ll be attending my first hotel floor takeover party next weekend. Any advice for a first timer, and should I look to book a room on the party floor or will booking a room somewh…
by ItsMrFlex13replies2,686viewsBucks county PA
Good afternoon and hopefully this is allowed. I have been divorced for 5 years now and been searching for a partner that is interested in the life style. I am fit. Job. Great fami…
by big1890212replies2,212viewsDo SMs Want SFs?
I feel like I may be an outlier here, but I’m a SF who likes to have sex with SMs. I thought it wouldn’t be that difficult as I keep reading that there’s so many SMs out there. Bu…
36replies2,770viewsDating Classifieds
I'm interested in a significant other, to be married or not, in a committed, non-monogamous relationship in the lifestyle. This means like the married couples here, we would swing…
60replies3,757viewsSingle female seeking advice and swing partner
Maybe more. As a single female new to the lifestyle I was expecting it to be easier. I’m learning, networking and trying to be patient. I’m finding that married couples are having…
22replies3,660viewsAdvice for the Single Guys from a couple who just blocked you
You think the men who need to understand any of this are going to read this when they don't even read the profile of the people they want to fuck? ????????
by Esperanza9113replies1,204viewsHusband's, how did you do it?
I see so many hott couples of all ages, men sporting GORGEOUS women that are into living this lifestyle, and I always think to myself, "how do these guys end up finding such attra…
by Thaiger30replies5,944viewsWhy no dating or classified forum?
I can't be the only person searching for a mate in the lifestyle.
28replies1,344viewsMessage after blocking
I’m only 2 weeks into this so still learning the site. But something just happened that freaked me out. Received a few messages from a guy. Politely said no thanks. He asked why.…
8replies866viewsFunny Certs
Saw this today and had to share. Taken verbatim. No, I don’t know what “interesting conservation” means. Man, talk about a bare minimum. Poor guy. Looks like being local was the o…
3replies778viewsSingle Males not welcome here
I’ve wanted to be a part of this lifestyle for years, but mostly too nervous, and not really sure where to start. For years I’ve heard how kind and accepting this community is. I…
by Blue434358replies4,598viewsWhat are you into
“What are you into?” I get asked this question often and I’m not quite sure how to answer it. If only I had taken the time to write a profile….. that had all theses things listed……
18replies1,165viewsSLS needs to be more tolerant
I join this group as part of a couple and now find myself single. Although the intro to SLS says it includes singles and couples, the focus of SLS and most of the groups are coupl…
by OVDamsel24replies3,675views
