Poly Triad With a Single Guy

here I am look no farther, up for doing everything a poly relationship consists of

I've been part of a relationship like this on more than one occasion and it was fun while it lasted but usually the husband or BF gets insecure after seeing his wife/GF getting pleased by another man. I hope to find another situation like this again in the future without the drama.

@HollyBlue, Hahahah, that's funny.
Just to clarify, that was a vivid memory from 2009, so yes that observation was very impactful. Then again she was HOT, that day I wanted to be a "Bookend"

So, you're the creepy guy from across the bar who was rubbing himself?

Fun_ItalianCple, just curious if you've found what you're looking for?
I distinctly recall watching a 3sum to see if they were a triad, I saw signs of flirtatious affection but never saw actual kissing, touching type PDA. (I like to "people watch" out in public) I'm sure they were all three sexually connected though.
What maded me focus on them (besides her beauty and drop dead sexiness) She was wearing a zebra striped referee shirt, and the two guys she was with could have been book ends.
You can just imagine the thoughts that were running through my mind. Similar to my thoughts after reading your post.
Thanks Fun_ItalianCple for ignighting that memory.

This is the same thing the wife and I are looking for, we have been talking about it for months. It would be so erotic to go out the three of us and tease all night long possibly meet a fourth.

Being the life has taught me so much about myself and the friends I’ve made along the way never had a negative experience which is the biggest plus of all and the level of respect has been awesome. Poly life some of my most spontaneous moments would not trade it for the world.

I would love to try a Poly Triad at sometime in my life. Everything about a Poly Triad just feels right.

Even better kissing them both in public and ...

Very hot and a scenario I've partaken in a couple of times. Once the rules and boundaries have been established with the couple, then these kind of games and play is super hot and fun.
The first time, for me, we were in a crowded bar and sitting at a table. On my way back from the restrooms I saw them kissing. Later, when he went to the restrooms she kissed me and a bit of fondling and the people at the next table gawked and smiled... fun, fun.

This is our situation and I (the Mrs) loves it. Hubby is also looking for his poly person.

Through the years we have been fortunate to have experienced several poly relationships with both men and women. At one point we had a single male for 3 years which was fantastic. Single men added to a couple is always a real treat when you get the right one of course,

when we dated another couple exclusively it was awesome. THe good thing was all of us were bi so anyone played with anyone at any time.

I totally think this is so hot too. We've gone on MFM dates and flirted in public a lot with a second guy but its always been spontaneous. It would def be fun to find a steady reliable additional man for ongoing fun!

Probably above your age range and below your looks desires, but I think it would be a great time to go out in the vanilla public world as a threesome and freak people out a bit!! And MFM is simply a slice of heaven.... Have fun!!

Can someone define some of the terms in a Poly life? Kitchen wife i think is one or something like that???

Who you are looking for isn't impossible to find. What we have run across, more often than not, is that most single men who show some interest really don't get being an equal third and push for a preferred status of some sort. There is a tendency for them to want to nudge the husband out because they aren't 100% into a poly mindset. Most are just simply looking for one on one companionship. Filtering through is a ton of fun if you let it be.

I am a guy who has looked for the situation you describe: the regular third with an ongoing couple. Not so easy to find as all three must have chemistry and the semi monogamous aspect is not for all. Do hope you find the right fit for a third. The pursuit could be fun!