So, I was asked at Thanksgiving what our New Years resolution was and off course I said, "More fun!" I was asked, "How?" and I responded, " More role-playing time!"
Of course I got the "look". So I had to add," and, uh, world piece!" Geez...vanilla friends are no fun...
Flirt with the wife
right! i love that freedom of just knowing that anything can happen. AND that its all totally ok! like that makes it all so fun!
Being in the LS is very freeing in some ways. It used to make me uncomfortable if a woman flirted with me, partly because of a strong sense of loyality and the fact that I couldn't/wouldn't do anything about it. Now I can just go with it, and if it leads to sex, all the better. The Mrs of course gets to do the same and we both can really enjoy people more now, whether they be LS or just flirty vanillas.
While I would like to say that we have never mixed swinging within a vanilla setting, that would be a lie.
A frisky feeling night, some attractive friends, mixed in with a few drinks, can sometimes bring up a situation that we would not have chosen with more forethought. I have a very vanilla hunting buddy who 15 years later after a very drunken bonfire party still asks me "do you remember that night with your wife and the brunette girl? Damn I wish I had pictures" - LOL.
Thanks mayhem! Ya I totally agree, they are sooo missing out! Swinging is so freeing and fun!
Yas Wife! How many times can you say "it's a nice day out"? Haha I like to party! :)
Yes, trying to behave in the Vanilla world can be difficult at times. What do you talk to vanilla people about? The weather?
Jessy, if you look anything like your pictures then merely sitting next to a vanilla couples husband is probably plenty of concern for his Mrs without any flirting ;-) These people have no idea what they're missing, but there's that old saying that ignorance is bliss.
Anyone else get so used to just letting loose and enjoying life at swinger parties and events all the time that you finally go out to a "regular" bar and have a couple drinks and start flirting with a guy only for his wife to walk up to you and tell you how inappropriate you are being? No? It's just me that got too carried away? Whoops, lol. I guess i forgot where I was for a second. Ugh, regular life is boring lol.
