I totally agree! I always thought it would be so awkward, and the first couple times it sorta was lol, but honestly I think sleepovers are so fun and hot. The middle of the night sex is so hot. The next morning sex amazing. Plus its a really fun way to start the next day!
we enjoy them but has to be with special couple or single
We don’t get to have sleepovers very often, but not absolutely opposed to it!
When we have parties, we usually wind up with a couple or two that sleeps over. Every now and then we have the female half of a couple sleep over when her hubby is traveling, and we at times both really enjoyed the "wake up call" the next morning.
I pretty much always wake up with morning wood the morning after a party, and the Mrs appreciates me letting her sleep in. The company in this case really enjoyed the wake up call even more than the Mrs enjoyed sleeping in. Was a win/win.
I only have sleepovers when in a Swinger convention/Resorts or Hotel parties. and I have to know the couple or Singles really well..
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We have to play a couple times with someone before we are ok with a sleepover
We have enjoyed couples sleeping over and single woman. Morning sex is a great way to start a day..
My sub has stayed over several times now that my oldest son is old enough to understand. He knows his mother and I still love each other and nothing will change that, but we like to have adult fun too. I've had 3somes into the wee hours of the morning with her and my wife more than once. They're both bi and enjoy being with each other, and she absolutely loves wake up sex in the mornings with me. I say go for it if your relationship is strong enough for it. If there's any doubts at all, don't do it.
My wife enjoys sleepover solo with my approval. She enjoys morning sex and I tell her she gets two dates for one. Lol
Spot on BJ, as with anything in this lifestyle there is a level of trust that you hope to get to where you feel comfortable with people. I have been with a couple for over six months and we extremely comfortable together both sexually and vanilla. We usually play in the afternoons so falling asleep through the night doesn't happen. We have dozed off after many an intense session, but never fell asleep through the night.
I might add, any sleepover we have had with a playmate was always with someone we knew rather well. A "1st time" playmate staying over has never seemed like a good idea.
We've had sleepovers a few times. One guy in particular was very comfortable & enjoyable to have over. I enjoyed my Husband & my Bull using me late into the night and then we all fell asleep exhausted in our bed together. Me in the middle with the guys on either side. A little getting used to to fall asleep with another person in the bed, but I was exhausted. LOVED being wakened by my Bull in the middle of the night with his hand between my legs and his mouth on my nipple! A rush because at 1st thought it was my husband & I had forgotten about our guest. Both of us being quite and not speaking a word as he climbed between my legs. We were trying to be so quite and not wake my husband. (...Felt like 2 sneaky kids, lol!) My husband LOVED waking to our heavy breathing and my muffled moans as the bed shook!! Hubby then got a turn after my Bull and I finished with me (and a quick trip to the bathroom). It was HOT!
Next morning Hubby headed to the shower and our guest took the opportunity to take me 1 last time. (Hubby knew exactly what was going to happen!) Excused myself for a quick brush of the teeth and a bathroom stop and I was like HELL yes, back in the bed! Steamy and quick & greeted by coffee from Hubby as we laid there breathless afterwards!!!
A quick shower & I made breakfast for us all.
It's fun when there's a comfort level with each other!
Sleepovers are awesome and exhausting, particularly if they're over several days.
"I personally find morning experiences with the right couple after a steamy night much more bonding and satisfying then a few hours meetup." This right here is why we don't do "sleepovers" well and the fact we like to sleep in our own bed. Our encounters are not "bonding" experiences. We are not having sex for and to or with anyone that has caught "feelings" which to us is what "bonding" means. NSA means just that NSA and when that line is crossed we have found it frequently leads to drama. Now this does not mean we are not friends with sexual partners nor does it mean that we would not stay the night in a spare room if the situation warranted it (I don't drink so I can always drive) but we are not spending the night sleeping with the other couple or individual. BTW we have recently given thought to traveling with others in the lifestyle and getting say a multiple room cabin or other accommodation but that would be more for sharing expenses so we can enjoy the location with friends we also have sex with than "sleeping together" or "bonding".
If you want to avoid any person getting up in their feelings, avoid sharing a bed for the entire night.
Some of us speak from experience.
We have a friend that spends the weekend with us because he lives 200 miles away.So we have him stay at our house.And we all end up playing all weekend
I have, on occasion, voluntarily had sleepovers with playmates, usually when they or I have had fairly long drives or we are spending the weekend together. I tolerate it for the pleasures of morning sex, but it's far from my favorite thing and has only ever happened with those I've known well enough that the intimacy of it doesn't bother me too much. (This would be in contrast to my ex-girlfriend who, the first night we were together, brought her toothbrush and acted like my bed was hers for the sleeping. I stayed awake most of the night, because fucking someone doesn't mean I know them well enough to fall asleep around them.)
We are a very secure and drama free couple and we have never felt that sleepovers were a threat to our NSA fun or our relationship. We always found they were an enhancement to the fun, and generally just a continuation of what started hours earlier.
I agree Esperanza, might be for a different reason though... I feel my role in a threesome is not to replace anyone, but to enhance their sexual appetite. We all have limits and I draw the line on that.... Sure we can drift off from an intense sexual encounter, but I will never spend the night asleep with a couple. I will, and I have spent the night when it entails on and off again sexual activities though.
Mistake if you want things to be NSA.
We enjoy sleepovers quite a bit
We’ve only done it once, and it was with a single woman. What a great way to drift off to sleep and even better way to wake up!
We have done a few sleepovers with couples that have been fun. Mostly because we dont want anyone to drink and drive so we offered the back bedroom, or slept in theirs, or we just remained paired off with the significant other in respective rooms.
A lot of our play is wife as hotwife/unicorn with single male playmate. We do host and wife and her date enjoy their night and often overnight in master bedroom. Again, partly because of our no drinking and driving rule, but mostly because wife finds it sexier to roll off and sleep and be woken in the middle of the night and again by morning wood.
She has one particular long time boyfriend and they enjoy the closeness and sexiness of her at his place for the night or weekend. For her it's comfortable spending that time for normal talk, tv, bottle of wine, flirt, tease - enjoy the night with no rush or time pressures.
It isnt uncommon that her date nights become over nights. She will either whisper in my ear at the bar or send me a text "it's going well. We are heading to his place. Ill text you in the morning when to come get me." And typically, get updates like "MMMMM! Fun!" and maybe pics and vids. She, of course, enjoys the physical fun and excitement. I love the waiting at home, picturing her fun, waiting for any texts, and the rush of getting "Good morning. I'm ready. Come get me."
We are equally comfortable, secure and turned on by her off on her own, or having me watch/listen, or join. It is all sexy fun.
We have done three sleep overs. One at our place and the others at two different couples homes. I would think as long as the connection between all the players is a good one that it can be rewarding. Things got going again between the ladies right after breakfast with the couple that stayed at our place. Of course eventually they were ready for some hard cock so the guys got to play also.
I am not sure how common sleep overs are. Since we started swinging just over 2 years ago we have only had 2 sleep overs and both were with the same couple. I think it is more common for a single to do the sleep over with the couple. This is just based on our experiences so far.
