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Regret/jealousy
My husband and I are interested in swinging. He's worried after the fun Regret or jealousy would take over. What do you think? I'm really looking for the woman's perspective.
12replies1,160viewsPickleball Player Swingers?
It would be fun to meet other PPS at a resort (nude or vanilla) or somewhere Pickleball is played (inside or outside) to get to know each other while playing Pickleball, then, aft…
by Zeemac11replies1,159viewsmasturbation
How many of you ladies and gents out there ever masturbate while driving the interstate
20replies1,157viewsSeriously thinking SLS Is
prejudice against Male singles males Hell even give you something else Taboo subjects off limits You people wake up!!! It's 2020 not 1960 you discrimination is big time we cant sa…
14replies1,156viewsWhat to Do When Someone Won't Listen to NO
I'll provide details if needed, but this is a general question. We have seen and talked to a couple from SLS at bars as well as recently at a hotel takeover by Friction Parties. T…
by Katnandrew12replies1,156viewsHIM - Straight HER - Bi-Curious/Bi
This topic is not meant to cause hate and discontent but to express my thoughts and what has happened with us in our journey as two very happy Bi people. I wanted to make this cle…
by dragonrapide21replies1,151viewsROLL CALL Where are the LS people who actually respect and support LGBTQIA+
They seem few and far between on this site. Are you here? Sound off here? Let us know we are not alone? Thanks.
by Esperanza91139replies1,149viewsDear Santa, 2019
It's that time of year again! It's time to climb up into Santa's lap and tell that jolly old elf what your heart desires. Merry Christmas to all! XOX, Kibby
by kibblesnbits10replies1,148viewsSex on your mind??
Hello, I'm the 57 y.o. male half here wanting to ask the ladies and gentlemen about my posted question. Do you have sex constantly on your mind from your waking hours? If your wor…
10replies1,135viewsLatinos in the lifestyle
Hey, I wanted to create a thread on here to carve out a little spot for us Latinos to get together, and talk shit over some virtual cafesito. I want to see that Latin flavor come…
by 6zcouple12replies1,124viewsWhat to do see in New Orleans?
It looks like we may go to NOLA for an upcoming weekend with some friends. These are fun folks to eat, drink, and dance with for a weekend, plus a bit of sightseeing, but not swin…
19replies1,120viewsBeing involuntarily outed: How common a problem?
Many of us are in careers or communities where being know as swingers would be bad. It makes many of us nervous, but how big of a problem is this in the swingerverse? How often ar…
11replies1,116viewsAdvice needed to tell or not to tell
Just found out recently that a very close friend of ours ( female) slept with what we now know is a bisexual guy. The guy is pulling this secret shit on the side of being with fol…
10replies1,114viewsMenstrual Discs?
My wife gets really heavy periods with bad cramping...so I don't see us ever using these. Also not sure what the general consensus is on playing during menstruation in the LS. Do…
10replies1,113viewsSpokane Free Members
Okay , I understand why people use the Free Membership but really Spokane over 90% of you are FREE MEMBERS. This is not High School but yet many of you act like it is a dare to be…
by Gent6514replies1,101viewsWeightless People on SLS
Many profiles show "0" for a person's weight. It's amazing how common it is for SLS members to be weightless! Of course, this is bogus. 10 times out of 10, the person is hiding th…
by asianlust17replies1,100viewsHot Date Etiquette with communication
Howdy everyone. Just wondering on what your thoughts are on communication for a hot date. I've found that many people post a hot date looking for particular things, but then simpl…
28replies1,096viewsPenal Implants
I have has prostrate surgery and a penal implant. Even though I can have orgasms there is no ejaculation. Have any women run into this and what are your thoughts? By the way with…
by pdjrswing15replies1,093viewsViitiligo in the lifestyle?
Hi All! First post in the forums here, we recently became lifetime members. We're looking for some feedback on how to approach vitiligo in the lifestyle? She has is on her inner t…
10replies1,088viewsLonger erections
Ok let's hear your insults or jokes. Really what are the best ways or over the counter supplements to help with longer ,stronger erections. Looking to be able to keep it up long a…
8replies1,084viewsWhere are the originals?
Guess who??!?! How has everyone been? I see some of the “ old school” people it yet so many seem to be gone. How are you all?
13replies1,084viewsFakes and flakes
We keep getting fakes and flakes, I know every site has them, but it seems as if SLS is infested!
by JulieClif14replies1,081viewsHow many?
One of my friends (a woman) made a profile here... within two days she received over a thousand messages! She didn’t post any nudity! I have never received one, and rarely get a r…
10replies1,077viewsHad enough heat yet?
Ok after 6-8 straight days of the heat index nearing 100. I'm ready for fall. I don't know how people cope with it in the southern states where it's like this a lot. Trying to get…
26replies1,077viewsLS Video Gaming?
Does anyone combine video gaming and lifestyle play/events? For example: A Smash Bros. then smash party? Or Mario Kart then angry sex?
by akerehs10replies1,069viewsCurious: How many couples or singles, when browsing, do this
I have. I’ve also found that those visiting my profile will sometimes do the same. BT
by bridgetender9replies1,069viewsYour thoughts
I've only been in the lifestyle for 6 months or so but I've notice a good number of hotel get togethers where the female of the couple will be "entertaining" multiple males. They…
19replies1,067viewsIf you could ask President Trump any question what would it be. He has agreed to answer honestly.
President Trump, are we alone in our Universe? Has Earth been visited before, in the present or will Earth be visited in our future?
27replies1,065viewsOrigins of Fake News
I was just reading a BBC article on the origins of fake news. In 2016 there were a massive number of “news” reports coming out of Macedonia, much of which was written my teenagers…
by hotluvrs15replies1,064viewsSomeone tried to extort me here
We started messaging, we exchanged messaging apps (kik/snap), we talked for a couple of days. She sent me a couple of nudes, everything seemed too good to be true, I requested a p…
12replies1,063viewsInconspicuous erotic/sexual art suggestions?
We are going to be ordering a print that is around 3'x3' for our sex room. It will be hinged to the wall and serve to conceal our spanking tools behind it on a rack. As of now we'…
16replies1,057viewsGang Bang with Fixed Guys and Cream Pie Fantasy
Hey everyone, new here to forums, but maybe someone can point me in right direction. I would LOVE to have a gangbang/train scenario with several men who are fixed and clean with a…
by gingergal396replies1,056viewsHoliday Plans
What’s everyone doing for the holidays this year? Anything fun or interesting or non-vanilla? My husband surprised me with a last minute trip to Indianapolis to run in a Christmas…
12replies1,056viewsPussy stretching
Question, why in the world would a woman want to stretch her pussy? I’ve always liked it tight gives me a better feeling if the pussy is so big you could put a milk bottle into it…
by butch194313replies1,053viewsWe threw a party. Here's how it went
Our anniversary was spent not in Mexico but was cancelled. We decided we wanted to create the atmosphere of a swingers club. We rented a party house in a rural area with a series…
by FunInMidwest7replies1,051viewsHappy July 4th, 2018.
We will probably play naked pool volleyball and then come back to watch the locals with all the illegal fireworks shoot them off in the dirt parking lot next to the NLV stadium. W…
by ncalcouple13replies1,048viewsLifestyle podcast suggestions
I spent several hours in the truck today and searched "swinger" on the IPhone podcast app for my phone. I was surprised at the number that came up. I tuned into several with "Spir…
by dreamsofdirt10replies1,048viewsThanksgiving Day 2020
In the midst of the roughest year that many of us have endured in recent memory--a year in which nearly all of us have experienced loss of something or someone dear to us-- we pau…
24replies1,046viewsLifestyle temporarily only social
Was just wondering everyone's thoughts? Will the lifestyle just be social, not sexual, interaction for the remainder of the year?
by bambi5911replies1,046viewsOld messages showing up as new
We logged in today and our message counter showed 99 unopened messages. As we dived into it, we really only had 2 unopened messages and the rest were random past messages showing…
by stcloudcpl19replies1,042viewsFunniest advice from parents
What is the funniest things your parents told you to keep you from sex at a young age....
27replies1,041viewsBookendS on Amazon Prime Video
Anyone else, particularly couples, that have watched the movie BookendS on Amazon Prime Video right now? We thought it was a great flick to begin with but should be a prerequisite…
by ncwv19replies1,040viewsAmazon Firestick
Get the 4K native Fire Tv version 2018 over the Firestick, it has an optional Ethernet adapter for wired Ethernet over long wireless spots. The Fire Tv 2018 version has a quad cor…
by 888eatme88811replies1,040viewsAdvice on someone just stopping by our house
So yesterday our ring went off when we were both working the man walked all the way around our house checked both doors. So we contacted the neighbors that live here and no body k…
28replies1,034viewsWho has the most certs on SLS?
We are only in double digits. We’ve seen profiles with triple figures. Who is number one?
13replies1,034viewsUseless Poll
Since this is an Open Forum, and there haven't been many new threads recently, I decided to try a completely useless, meaningless, and unscientific poll. Sock, sock, shoe, shoe.?…
by DBCooperMN25replies1,033viewsAt what point does the LS become more than a hobby?
I've heard people write in their profiles that they don't let the LS (lifestyle) define them. Just curious at what point people feel like that line has been crossed? For us, we wi…
by mayhem826replies1,032viewsWhy do people lie on here so much?
Why do people say they are looking for single straight males and then when one write or post on here ( or a hot date) they all seems to suddenly not be looking. I do not understan…
by wolfpak6910110replies1,032viewsOne position for the rest of your life
Hypothetically if you were to pick one sex position that you could play in for the rest of your life, what would that be?
by koolfriend123replies1,029viewsRock Roll ---Some Favorite Lyrics :-)
-------- --- Do you have SOME favorite Rock & Roll song lyrics? --- TRY to list at least one song name, the artist and at least a couple lines of lyric.... (I'll start): T. Rex, 1…
by SLOtowner14replies1,024views
