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I have a friend that wants to have an intimate relationship with his wife's niece. The wife is not on board. They have an agreement that each gets to refuse the others playmates.…
15replies1,503viewsA swinger vacuum
I love where we live. Small rural communities. Very little crime. Quiet. Friendly people. Miles from the hustle and bustle of the city but DAMN... It's like a swingers hell someti…
16replies1,502viewsIs this site dying?
The community here seems to be dying. We have the same profile on other sites and have quite a lot of traffic and fun. Here I see a general lack of trust level. Folks are removing…
by Wearefun80517replies1,501viewsRedneck
How are all the redneck couples doing with all this talk about shutting down everything. We are still up and running for a little longer here in Indiana but who knows how much lon…
by AshNdave3317replies1,499viewsGet over yourselves
Have you can into the swingers that think their shit don't stink . Lmao , Manson, beautiful people comes to mind . A toxic soul and attitude , are a huge turn off . You can be a v…
13replies1,490viewsSingle males
What is anyones thoughts on men who say they are single but really arent or married men who say their wives dont know they are on the site? My hubby and i made the decision to not…
by gary76710replies1,480viewsRemodeling advice
My husband and I were discussing the renovations of our recently purchased lakehouse tonight. He mentioned finding an eco-friendly stripper that won't harm the wood. Any idea wher…
21replies1,478viewsFlakes
Is there a place on the site to post bad feedback on other profiles. We've had two guys flake on us back to back. Its getting tiresome and a big waste of our time. Would like to b…
by ONELOVESwing28replies1,474viewsHoarding / Hoarders
This week I started going through my house, basement and garage to get rid of old stuff. All this time I thought I was different than those people on the tv show Hoarders. I don't…
by 8inchcable28replies1,474viewsLeave politics out of swinging.
Have been noticing more and more people putting in profile that they will reject people based on political beliefs. Why do some let that get in the way of being friends with other…
21replies1,469viewsFirst Ever Concert?
Another music topic just to take a break from the same old same old. When was the first ever concert you attended that had a well known national touring act as the headliner? Who…
by DBCooperMN41replies1,465viewsLocation Setting
Has anyone had issues with the location setting on their profile? I changed our location to a city we will be visiting soon and then tried to change it back to our hometown howeve…
by Shark1611replies1,461viewsHalloween
Anyone looking forward to Halloween parties? How early to you decide what kind of costume to do and how much effort do you put into it? What are you going as this year?
by JCcpl235replies1,458viewsStruggling with guilt and anger
Looking for any advice on this one and looking to see if anyone an relate. My husband and I had our second encounter with a single male. It didn’t go as we had planned and talked…
23replies1,455viewsNo comment
Been reaching out lately to try and meet like minded people do to traveling. Get a lot of looks and no response. Anyone else experienced the same result? Has common courtesy gone…
21replies1,446viewsWhat do you find to be more pleasurable
What do you find to be the most pleasurable 1. Foreplay, oral 2. The actual sex penetration 3. The climax
by Insatiable6115replies1,444viewsDelaying Ejaculation
My wife and I do not wear protection together. Half the time I am okay to go for a while without cumming but sometimes it does happen fast. I almost always make her cum so thats n…
by Lovemywife1218replies1,436viewsYou must laugh .first meetings
Sometimes, you just have to laugh.. Couple emails me. We make arrangements to meet. We sit for dinner at an upscale eatery. I do let couple know in advance that I prefer to pay my…
11replies1,434viewsForum stories
So we enjoy reading the forum stories.. BUT can you people at least break up your stories with paragraphs, break in sentences , etc. Those that don't are missing out!
by RonKathy39replies1,430viewsFacebook FWBs
We were checking our FB last night and got to wondering how many people on our friends list we had sex with. rabbit = 4 Scamp = 11 That got us to wondering, if you are on any kind…
14replies1,424viewsCommon Courtesy
Is common courtesy a thing of the past? We know we're in the older stages of life, but we we're raised to be polite to others. Why is it when you take the time to write to someone…
18replies1,405viewsFakes
Why do people post pics of movie stars on their profile, as themselves? Obiviously, they can never meet anyone because the gig will be up! I guess they want to see private pics. S…
by Robert89715replies1,402viewsDropping your wife off for a date
Who has dropped his wife off...or...picked her up for a date with another......What happened or discussion or her condition upon pick up return
by Apolon2125replies1,398viewsSexual situations with Vanilla
How do you deal with a situation such as this? A women who has been flirting with me for a few years and lately has turned the conversation to somewhat of a more sexual nature, co…
by hedo2forus16replies1,396viewsCum Addiction
Hello. First time posting on any forum. My FWB wanted me to ask a serious question. She wonders if it is possible to by physically addicted to a particular man’s cum (mine)? She s…
21replies1,390views21 year old couple
Hello everyone!! We are both 21 years old and we went to our first swing party last week in Cleveland! We are both in good shape, professionals! It went well, and we are ready to…
25replies1,390viewsNudist Park/Resort ???
We are a long time swinging couple (about 14+ years now) and we are thinking about going to a semi local Nudist Resort / Park for a day trip.. If you live in Virginia you may know…
by letztrythis15replies1,390views- 21replies1,389views
Thoughts, Opinions, over thinking?
So ok. someone with a new account as in This month sound interesting when they shoot an email your way. But they have no pictures. But want to you to join KiK just to see a G rate…
14replies1,383viewsWould you be alive in the year 1200
If you had been born in the middle ages, would you have died before now? I broke my femur when I was 3. If I didn't die from some resultant infection during the recovery, I had a…
24replies1,381viewsTonight's (day) Playlist
As a child, I had trouble getting to sleep, so at the tender age of five my dad dusted off an old Philco and placed it at my bedside, my love of music started that first night and…
17replies1,381viewsFriends on Line
We have lost the section Friends on Line on the right side of our home page, anyone else have that problem ?
16replies1,375viewsNew messaging fornat
I need to know , how many other people do not like the "new format" for messaging? Its not a new format so to speak, SLS basically took away the email messaging from us. Its ridic…
by Alpha_Omega15replies1,375viewsSexual Humiliation? Yes please.
I am a 41-year-old male who has found a lot of joy and success in life. While I do have an ego about me, I do not believe people who know me would label me as arrogant or selfish.…
by 4HerFunOnly13replies1,375viewsDoes the nervous excitement ever go away?
I saw in another post where someone that has been in the LS for a while was commenting about how they still get nervous when going to a party and/or meeting new people. For us, so…
by mayhem835replies1,374viewsDo you remember your first couple of jobs?
Do you remember your first couple of jobs? Did you leave on your own terms or were you shown the door? Why did you leave or why did you get canned? The bullshit jobs you worked be…
by 8inchcable35replies1,373viewsWhy is SFO so dead on SLS?
Having seen the LS scene in ATL/NYC/Chicago I had similar or better hopes from SFO. City to People on SLS ratio wise SFO is a let down. Who else has similar experience?
by koolfriend113replies1,371viewsHold the door, hold the door
Does anyone else find this odd? I seem to have this need to have to hold the door for someone? I find myself questioning myself (what the hell am I doing?) Especially at the gym!…
15replies1,370viewsFlakes
Is there any recourse for fakes and flakes. Generally met some swell people on here but one guy recently reached out to us , charmed the hell out of my wife and they chatted for a…
by Drewandelena27replies1,369viewsYou can tell everyone is getting bored at home
Due to the whole virus and stay at home quarantines etc. I can tell that people nationwide are getting a bit bored and browsing the internet a lot more. We used to average about o…
20replies1,357viewsStrangest meet and greet or encounter
I have been thinking about how the lifestyle might be changing. Evaluating whether to continue. I started reminiscing on lifestyle experiences both good and bad..i wonder if anyon…
by yeaokay13replies1,354viewsBest way to record sex?
What have you used to record sex that's easy to use and that can be saved in your computer? Or that you can livestream onto your phone?
by starry_night15replies1,353viewsHow to Keep Track of How Much Effort to Meet and Fuck?
How much time and effort goes into meeting and fucking? Wife always has tons more offers to meet and fuck from both men and women . It seems like alot of time spent searching for…
by wantalern23replies1,338viewsYa gotta love it
I saw a profile photo on another site just now. About 10 or so naked ladies standing outside under a banner. From context I would surmise this was a nude campground. There were ca…
20replies1,333viewsSleepovers
Have any couples been to or hosted sleepovers. What was your experience? Good or bad?
by MNJFLA15replies1,333views- 19replies1,332views
Thoughts, Opinions, KIK
So I really do not understand, and maybe some one that uses it more can explain. Why is it that when you start messaging some one on here (SLS) that the moment you ask about a fac…
21replies1,330viewsPlay rooms/areas for house parties?
We are no where near experienced and socialized enough yet in the lifestyle to host parties. Hopefully we get an invite or two in the future. But I've been told no one in our area…
26replies1,326viewsLegal Ramifications
If someone files a DMCA takedown notice with the correct agent, most sites will get the content off the site. And there are a mess of lawyers that will enjoy going after any site…
12replies1,322viewsIt Is Gemini Season
Here is where we can discuss anything and everything about our favorite nutbags of the Zodiac, the Gemini!
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