Why do people lie on here so much?

For the same reason they do on all social media—- they can

I had to think about this one a bit. I'm not sure we've been truly lied to on this site. On the other hand is misrepresentation a lie? Plenty of people misrepresent themselves in dated pictures and interest in actually meeting. I guess it all depends on how you define a lie? Good, bad or indifferent we've enjoyed this little hobby long enough to not take to much seriously or get offended.

LOL perhaps it is indeed true, with age comes wisdom :)

One if the other issues issues is availability.

We are open to single makes, and get several messages daily.

If we met with all of them, let alone played with them, that is all we would do.

So even if someone were to meet our requirements to a T we still might not return their message just because they would be at the end of a long line and we don't want to give anyone false hope...

Not sure if it’s Sorillo or the Puppet speaking, but that was a whole of wisdom.

@Sorillo...backatcha! ;)

Mwah!

Sorillo the wise man has spoken.

Say hi to the puppet for me. :)

I don't understand how one goes from "I messaged someone who says they're interested in single men, but they never answered" to "they must be liars". No one owes anyone else an answer to a message, and when they don't answer, it does NOT mean they are liars, or bad people. It's simple: they didn't answer because you weren't what they were looking for. Maybe they prefer someone younger, or older, or more fit etc. And even though their list of requirements may seem to fit you, they will often have even more specific preferences within those requirements.

The thing is, you'll never know why someone doesn't answer, so it doesn't make any sense to let it bother you. Send out messages to those folks you're attracted to (and where you fit what they say they're looking for), and then FORGET ABOUT THE MESSAGE. Believe me, from my own personal experience, you'll be a lot happier.

I will go read some of that thank you.. and not whining with as along as I have been a member.. just get so tired of it.. I try and be very respectful to everyone and when I contact I am kind and polite. so like I said I like hearing what everyone has to say. I listen to advice and follow what applies. so please keep it coming..

Wolfpak-Welcome to the forums. Your first post kind of comes across as whining. You might consider heading over to the Better Profiles thread and the Successful Male thread and read A LOT before posting again. It might enlighten you as to why you're not getting the action you are hoping for. Good luck!!

Why do people say they are looking for single straight males and then when one write or post on here ( or a hot date) they all seems to suddenly not be looking. I do not understand this. Been a member of the site for so long and ever since I moved to Texas seems like the Texas and southern charm has been forgotten. I know some of the people say they get some many emails. maybe the site should set up something for every member to have a quick reply when they can just simply click and send a simple "" No thank you "" or "" sorry not interested "" at lest then they can reply and not make people think they are self centered. please feel free to chime in on your thoughts always open to reply and info to help me.. maybe I am doing something wrong..