How many?

FokkersVeteran
Toms River, NJ, Us

Lately 1 a month, it had been 1 for 60-90 days for a while and that was during a good spurt.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

Okay so just this week in 5 days we received 6 our normal is 3-5 and usually from "new" guys who do not read what we have written in our profile.. 1 in 100 may say ... yes I read your profile and know you do not want SM's contacting you.. but respectfully I would like to reach out and tell you about myself, etc etc..

This SM we will entertain in a conversation as he actually reads.. we do get inundated and most weeks with requests to open our photos.. those SM's who just send dick photos will get blocked also rude crude SM's requests get blocked .. !

Desperation ... sorry not happening, now a good funny SM , a classy one who can read, communicate "game on".. Right TV!

I thought I was doing horribly... But it seems like 1-2 a month is avg even for some couples.

Emeryville, CA, Us

It's cyclical, depending on what event is coming up.

Woodville, TX, Us

Wow. I must need to retwad/update our profile. We only get about 1 every 3 weeks.

Windermere, FL, Us

We knew a woman who received 400 emails after one day on the site.

But that was when, in principle at least, you were expected to write some sort of email. So there was more effort involved.

The site has made sending one-word introductions easy. I'd hazard a guess that of those 1,000, at least 800 were "Hi", "How are you?", "Sexy" or "Mmmmmm".

Carlisle, PA, Us

Not many... Especially since we took guys out of our preferences. Maybe like 2 a month.

Digital mediums just don't consistently work for us. Clubs and events have been way more effective, and also eliminate a lot of the shadey nonsense and rigmarole you get on apps.

num1scampRegular
Warren, MI, Us

We currently have the message, "taking a break", on our profile. Due to covid. we are still getting 3 to 4 messages a week. in Normal times it's usually at least one a day.

Seymour, TN, Us

We get one or two a week sometimes more. Your lady friend got so many because she is a lady.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

We get one or two a week

One of my friends (a woman) made a profile here... within two days she received over a thousand messages! She didn’t post any nudity!

I have never received one, and rarely get a response.

How many messages do you receive a day?