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Racism in the lifestyle
We have watched the lifestyle evolve over the 20 years we have been participating in it. And have had some coorspondence with some very interesting people over the years. Occasion…
by djn4rap34replies1,318views2020 The Year In Review
With the year coming to a close, what would your review of 2020 look like on a website? Trust me, I can do a better review but this is kinda what I mean: 2020- Total crap. Wouldn'…
by Goodenuff22replies1,315viewsMale wanting to please his wife!
Being on SLS we already know that as a group in general we have a different mindset about sex than others. Having said that, as the Male half of a couple I love my wife to act lik…
by cplnok200013replies1,313viewsAnybody wanna play doctor?
Well, that's done. At the ripe young age of 59 years, 11 months, and 20 days. 2,436 days after I started, 6 job changes, 4 moves, two grandchildren. You can call me Tbrmskss, Ph.D…
by tbrmskss22replies1,309viewsSling tv commercials with swingers
Have you seen the sling commercials with swingers? I can laugh at how ridiculous it is, but I wondered what others thought.
11replies1,304viewsCOMING OUT AS SWINGERS
We have found that we have what we think is a good relationship with other "vanilla couples." Then when we mention we are lifestyle they freak. We no longer are friends with them,…
by MNJFLA17replies1,292viewshiding faces
what is the point of hiding or darkening your faces especially the ladies what do you ladies have to hide
by shyguy1975121replies1,286viewsDo you remember your first cars? And your first new car?
It might seem like half a century ago for some, but do you remember your first cars? What were your first couple of cars? Did you save up and buy them? How much were they? Were th…
by 8inchcable39replies1,283viewsJuly 4th
How are you spending your 4th? We usually travel to spend it with family.This year we're having a small deck party at home.
by plzrs4fun24replies1,279viewsVisual versus audible
I've always thought of myself as more of a visual animal, but a few recent events have sort of showed otherwise. There's a very attractive girl I know that frequents a party that…
by mayhem813replies1,279viewsRetired folks what do you do to fill your days?
So I am recently retired (January) and while this summer has been filled up, I'm a bit worried about how I'm going to fill my time when the weather turns cold. So what do you do w…
22replies1,277viewsPlease explain to me
Why are there so many posts without pics of the male half? I don't know how most couples think, but my woman wants to know how HE looks too! I'm not suggesting dick pics, but at l…
12replies1,277viewsTatt's
Fellow NY members... Looking for a Tatt shop that has an artist that specializes in B&W fine line work. Not into color just want tone on tone of black greys and whites.... any sug…
by fun4all7910replies1,277viewsHall Passes
How do they work for you? We are interested in trying this out. What is good bad or ugly about this? What have you all experienced? I know it does not work for everyone, but for t…
by MNJFLA11replies1,275viewsDo you ever wonder about
So here is a question to ponder. Does being in the lifestyle change the way you look at people you know or meet in non-lifestyle situations? Do you ever come across someone at wor…
by DBCooperMN20replies1,272viewsWhat do you do when you catch a poser/fake profile red handed?
We have all had them before. Emailing, kik, texting with someone and then setting up a date. Then poof... they fall off the face of the planet. They don't show up, don't follow up…
12replies1,269viewshas anyone had a bad experience
so the Mr. and i were in Vegas for the weekend (go Raiders). Was invited to a pool party celebrating Leo's (happy bday to the Mr.). The party was from 5:00 PM until 3:00 AM. Upon…
by Cooljoe911replies1,267viewsPlay near or far?
Open ended topic but what is your preference when playing? Do you search near your current location or search for fun 50-100 miles out to broaden your choices?
by HOPnrBED20replies1,266viewsMasked Safe Sex
Masked Safe Sex I'm available for Masked Safe Sex. (That means nothing oral.) Until players feel safe again via vaccines or antibodies, this might be a good option. Is it 100% saf…
by RoscoeBrowne22replies1,263viewsCheaters double standard
I've been in/out of the LS for over 20 years and during that time, there seems to be a double standard when it comes to those who cheat. When a single male is in the LS and is che…
10replies1,262viewsWould you play here?
We have kids at home so its getting tough to host....sure we can get a hotel room but were thinking of alternatives. Love some feedback, would you meet a couple or single and go b…
by MM201714replies1,253viewsSomeone you know.
One day, you open your profile and there she is... the self righteous Religious lady with a profile and a ton of certs about a “gang bang”. You know she will see your profile as w…
14replies1,253viewsBest Way(s) to Broach the LifeStyle Topic to Potential SO
I got into the LifeStyle because I have a high libido and tired of “waiting” while trying to find a Significant Other. I’m on a vanilla dating site, still hoping to find a SO. I h…
by Zeemac16replies1,249viewsSound proofing bedroom and bathroom
We want to get a Sybian. However they are super loud and we have kids and her mom recently moved in. I am going to be remodeling our bedroom and master bath. I am thinking of fill…
by meadris7524replies1,247viewsSwinger Symbol clothing
We like when we have an encounter that is "unplanned" or "organic". Often it will be at a regular bar or club where my wife will have a certain outfit on. However, we found that c…
by Verywetkris13replies1,240viewsMirrors on the Ceiling
I told my wife I wanted to put mirrors over the bed. Anyone have any experiences? How do you go about it safely and aesthetically?
by FunInMidwest16replies1,240viewsWhat is Hot Vax ?
Saw it on Night line ? Is this a community of swinging and where can or how can I find Hot Vax on Google? Exactly what is it
10replies1,233viewsWhat do husbands look for, in messages from other men?
I've asked before on here and been told, that most couples profiles are run by the male half. The woman will have final say and vet any choices he makes. But for the searching and…
13replies1,226viewsWhy are there so many more bi women than bi men?
Per title, really just want to know. Personally, I find beauty everywhere. Is it social norms, or? Thanks for your replies!
by Chilitomlife12replies1,223viewsChat, email.
Seems the majority of communication are the males on here. Do most ladies dislike that portion of chatting? Seems like most of the pictures are of the females though. Just wanted…
by ChatandSee11replies1,223viewsThe Addiction Is Real
So yesterday I was walking out of the local MegaloMart just minding my own business, when I ran into my old dealer, just standing there looking innocent as could be. I tried to ju…
by DBCooperMN24replies1,220viewsQuestion for mature ladies
Have you ever had your ass eaten? If yes do you enjoy it. If no would you be willing to try it.
by moretti12replies1,219viewsSwinging after Bariatric surgery
Almost a year to the day my wife embarked on a path to a healthier weight. She took the big plunge and decided on bariatric surgery. Over the course of a year she has lost well ov…
by davbec21replies1,217views0 lbs Profile. I never look at them
By my count, this has been discussed a gazillion and three times. Most of the threads discussing this have been deleted with The Great Forum Purge of 2018. Perhaps someone will co…
by Goodenuff10replies1,217viewsSome profiles.
I’m met here and I can’t believe some of the profiles. If you and your spouse are 300 pounds each, why would you expect a 175 muscular billionaire join you for fun? I understand y…
14replies1,213viewsForum Activity
Is it my imagination or does the activity on the forums seem to have dropped way off? Seems like most topics get no activity at all and really only a select few of us actually com…
32replies1,209viewsFAA vs FCC a topic for Forum nerds
A battle has been raging for months with the FAA and US airlines pitted against the FCC, AT&T, and Verizon. The phone companies spent 80 billion to get access to a radio frequency…
by hotluvrs37replies1,205viewsOrlando in November
We are going to be in Orlando the first 2 weeks of November, Wondering what there is to do while in town. Thanks
by newcplfun6910replies1,201viewsHow far would you go?
So..I met this young single female couple weeks ago. We did not play but met up for dinner. We hit it off, she was cool. But since two weeks she's been having trouble in personal…
by koolfriend117replies1,198viewsI think I just figured out a key element I’ve been missing in all this!
I’m our wife crystal, nice to meet everyone. Basically that is what I’ve missed. I’ve quietly been fluttering around this forum for awhile now. I checked out everyone who talks a…
by knightly154515replies1,198viewsFriend’s list
People keep appearing on my friend’s list. I have not requested them as friends. What gives? If so many people are wanting to be my friend, why aren’t I getting laid more?
by Hunter446013replies1,192viewsRisk: I'll wear a mask all day and eat the ass out of a stranger I just met at Buffalo Wild Wings
I see the irony every day. Couples who don't want to play because of covid but don't want to wear a condom. Hey I'm not judging. I hate condoms too. I see Bikers wearing a mask bu…
by FunInMidwest22replies1,191viewsAvenger hook up
Ok everyone. If you could pick one Avenger character for a one night stand. The character. Not the actor. Who would it be. I would pick Thor. My boyfriend would choose Black Widow…
12replies1,188viewsWife wants a gangbang
Wife wants a gangbang. What's the best way to make this happen. Thanks Happy Stag
by DLwundering10replies1,187viewsHedo or Caliente
So we are thinking about going to Hedo II in Jamaica but with possible travel constraints due to pandemic I was considering Caliente in Florida as an alternative. Anyone got any c…
by descreetx4211replies1,186viewsTips for getting back into the swing of things?
Many of us have been on a LS hiatus for more than a year. What's your "pro tip" for folks who have been on a break like that? Our contribution: Many of us are carrying little bott…
14replies1,185viewsGhosting
I wouldn't feel disrespected, or think about people ghosting much at all... If they ghost you, you probably would not want to spend time with them anyway...
by tbrmskss11replies1,183viewsSurprise
Have you ever had something happen during sex that you wouldn't have seen coming in a million years? I had one girl who let me figure it out on my own that she was missing a foot!
59replies1,181viewsParty games?
Not sure if this is a thing, but at house/parties what games are played? Maybe some serve as icebreakers while others are fun for well-established friends.
18replies1,177viewsHow many states/countries have you had sex in?
My wife and I have traveled extensively and came up with a list of states/countries we have had sex in. This includes "friends" we met along the way. We are at 14 states and 23 co…
by brstlcpl34replies1,165views
