FunInMidwest

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Soft Swap Parties

My wife and I like to soft swap and want to invite couples. We would like to first develop a list of couples who are interested somehow. Then we could send invitations out. Couples who have attended our parties know that we book some fanta…

Setting Dungeon Up for Party Help

We are hosting a halloween party in East Peoria in October and need to convert a game room into a dungeon. Its 2000 sq feet of arcades and games in a big room with black light disco ball. I'd like to decorate it like a dungeon and have a f…

Do you have a special travel bag?

We have a backpack and a suitcase. The suitcase has restraints and candles. A special wedge pillow. And some white Christmas lights to decorate our hotel rooms. Our backpack has our toys, handcuffs, lube, condoms, and anything else we need…

Gangbang with another Couple Present

It's our fantasy to find a guy or guys who would join us with another couple and have a gangbang. The ladies are wanting to be treated nicely. So lots of personalities to pull together to make it work. Also, it has to be a nice place and a…

Being Playful and Engaging

To be honest the best approach is to be friendly, and engaging at first. Everyone wants something different. Even we want to try different role-play fantasy. For instance we are wanting to find 2 guys who are friendly and playful but not d…

Amazing Facts About the Clitoris

“The clitoris is not a button, it’s an iceberg.” — Artist, Sophia Wallace. The clitoris doesn’t usually get a lot of press. It’s usually upstaged by the vagina, which often gets left in the dust by the attention the penis gets. (So we’re a…

Multiple Guys Fantasy

I set up 2 cameras on different sides of the bed and let it record our action. When I am done I use Final Cut on my Mac to make a little show. Final cut allows me to virtually pan in and out later adding action to the shots that otherwise…

Why are you Bi or Bi curious

It has to be right person. For me, now that I have tried it and liked orally pleasing a guy, As a guy, I look now more throughly at the guy and am more cautious. One positive is maybe I will select better couples for both of us. Choosing m…

Is Your Single Male a Casanova or a Picasso?

Choosing the right man for a threesome is challenging. Here's a way to look at this.... A notorious rake and world-famous lover, Casanova made it his life mission to pleasure women. But he did not seduce women to rack up his numbers, and e…

We threw a party. Here's how it went

No worries. Figured I would get blowback. I DONT think anyone is being a "pussy" just because they are scared of COVID. Lot's of people are really scared. I get it. Some are not so concerned. Some don't know wtf is happening. Most fall som…

We threw a party. Here's how it went

Our anniversary was spent not in Mexico but was cancelled. We decided we wanted to create the atmosphere of a swingers club. We rented a party house in a rural area with a series of themed bedrooms. It was quite amazing. Cleared everything…

Bi-Curious and Straight Couples

Hi. I wonder as a swinger if the idea of being together on the same bed is still attractive and the incidental contact associated. Group sex is a contact sport. How do you guys and gals feel about incidental contact and is this a problem i…

Mirrors on the Ceiling

I don't worry as much about what others might think of it. Guests rarely see the bedroom and our grown kids know we can't keep our hands off each other. They don't know we are swingers. Love watching my beautiful wife when she's sucking an…

Penis size

Absolutely not. Cocks are like boobs. They come in a wide variety of sizes and shapes. Pam doesn't love a huge cock but one of our closest couples is hung like a horse. He's charming and we really like them. I am average 6 1/2 inches thick…

Mirrors on the Ceiling

I told my wife I wanted to put mirrors over the bed. Anyone have any experiences? How do you go about it safely and aesthetically?

Why Rough Sex is the Only Sex You Should Have

Check out the on-line article for more below. Restraining a woman physically and using her for my own sexual pleasure was all part of the theatre. It was a major turn-on for myself and her. It allowed me to have sex without boundaries and…

Great Sex From A Womans Point of View

For me. Fucking a guy and having no emotional attachment is not an issue so long as I am doing for and with my hubby. If we are getting a great memory. So be it. I just want this random person to know a few things and be a certain level of…

Great Sex From A Womans Point of View

Here's an interesting link to an article on a site for writers called medium on the net The author Tabitha Lowndes makes some great points. Arguably. A woman wants the following things from great sex: 1. Emotional connection and relationsh…

Double standard

It could be simply that she loves you and is jealous of sharing you. I would take it as a compliment. Most men would love to be you

Why are you Bi or Bi curious

Everyone is different and so no wrong answers but the term Bi and Bi Curious kind of implied how much you are into or somewhat into bisexual experiences. In the end I still love the body of a woman over any man but the oral and otherwise c…

Porn makes men terrible in bed

What turns a girl on? Well they don't tell you on PornHub. I'm a relatively attractive wife and my husband is a sweetheart but some of the men he's picked quite frankly are so clueless. I say some because it seems to me the ones who are no…

Why do men pick out men for their wives online?

This is a good question. It has different "right" answers. For me, and everyone is different, I feel 9-10 exchanges don't go anywhere and there is a fair amount of bs. So the hassle factor. We know what we like but the fact that online pro…

Professional >The Word

Around Peoria Il professional means not biker couple. It's funny because some of them out earn the "professionals". Trust me I'm a professional.

do you swing with those who are Bi

We date openly bi sexual couples both men and women because for many bi sexual couples we are just fine. For that matter we have had bi experiences with the right couples but it's not our preference. We care mostly about personality and at…

Peoria Meetup

Hi, Was wondering if a meetup group happens at Big Als in Peoria? Hoping for a regular meetup place to hang out and be anonymous. One of the clubs in the area might be helpful. Anyone know anything? Help.

YOU CAN LEAVE YOUR HAT ON @ THE LUX

My wife and I will be visiting for the first time and we hope to find a few attractive couples to have some group fun with. Let us know if interested. Regardless come say hello if you are there. We are very excited to meet everyone.

Ever connect with couples spontaneously?

We always plan our dates with other couples and have never just met a couple who happened to be swingers. It's a fantasy to meet a couple this way but very risky unless we are certain they are also open to the ideas. Are there any benign q…