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Hmmm, not sure why I was never flagged when someone posted to my thread and realize this was a while ago, but... obmscpl - In general, you probably want to be looking for "Bi" rat…
by mayhem822replies3,397views★The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
Very informative and useful. I was trying to reach you for further advice and maybe some critique as I recently joined SLS, unfortunately, your profile is not open to my type of a…
by 91dannan18replies9,992views
Profile review request single guy?
Just want to see what I should tweak and do to make my profile stand out more!
by Bayareabrad0replies243viewsProfile Review
Need specific advice on how to make our profile better. Not sure if we are writing the wrong things or ppl are just not liking the way we look. We’re not skinny minnies, but we ar…
by Ozone863replies299views- 4replies347views
Open for advice in Leesburg Florida
mnjfla ..... we have been in the lifestyle for eight years. We have constantly updated our photos and profile. It helps to have others review your profile an photos and lend their…
by MNJFLA3replies229views- 2replies320views
Profile Review Request
Hi All and thank you for taking the time to read this. I've set up a profile and have captured highlights of who I am and am looking for constructive feedback/criticism on it. If…
by ChillGenXGuy14replies588viewsProfile review request
After four years seeing each other and two years playing as a couple, plus now living together, we finally created a couple's profile. It feels a little stiff and I'm not entirely…
by gregnmolly30replies936viewsPlease review
I would appreciate some constructive feedback if anyone is inclined to give it!
3replies270viewsBrutal honesty requested
I kinda hope I stop short of brutality, but you be the judge of that. Anyway, dear god, it's not your height or looks. It's not personal at all, except insofar as you're not givin…
5replies443viewsProfile review
I'm not trying to be a wise ass. This is a serious question as I try to figure this lifestyle out. You have been on SLS for 12 years and have 12 certs. How much more are you expec…
by Ymichael140replies238viewsProfile Review/Advice for Single Male
I'm hoping to get some feedback on my profile. How does the profile read? TIA!
by hetflex4u6replies563viewsNewbie profile review please
I'm brand new here and to the lifestyle. Think my profile tells what I'd like it to but what do I know I'm a newbie.
by togjim3replies333viewsProfile review
Hi all, I'm just looking for some critique on my profile. I have had some success in the lifestyle here and there. I haven't been consistently in it at all for more than 6 months…
4replies290viewsJust another guy requesting a profile review
I would greatly appreciate a review of my profile. Please be blunt. Please feel free to be brutal as long as the comments are genuine. I've got a thick skin & I don't get insulted…
3replies297viewsAre we missing the mark with our profile?
So we have had our profile up for a bit, and it seems like we might be doing something wrong. We have sent out many greeting messages and have received almost zero responses. What…
by 828MHJH14replies602viewsSeeking profile review
How can we improve our profile? Not receiving many messages back when we like a profile.
by 216mjm1replies272viewsSeeking a review of our profile
Hey all, seeking an honest review of our profile. We need to work on getting some pictures, we know that, but any other advice here would be appreciated.
by Delmania35replies1,107viewsplease review my profile
Had joined sls in 2012 with my ex-wife...after a recent divorce, looks like I have become the one thing SLS hates: single man :-D. Despite that glass ceiling, can someone review m…
by mpaul5882replies273viewsLadies Hot Wives Looking for a couple for mmf
As a single it’s difficult to find a couple where the lady likes to watch her husband and a guy together and then join. Any interest on breaking the ice on here in general
by TeDeseo5replies336views- 2replies255views
Review of new photos
Do you like any of these? The ones with the blazer are new. The close ups of the face without the blazer are new. I think I look like a pedophile when I have a big smile. That is…
by Ymichael1424replies807viewsHelp with profile
Hey all. Having problems finding dates. Don't know if it's out profile or if we are just not attractive.
6replies396viewsProfessional photos
Do you think a professional/ corporate photo in a profile helps or hurts? I mean, it is a great photo, you clearly see what they look like, but it is also a staged photo and I jus…
by Ymichael145replies385viewsHonest Review Of My Profile
Before I start my intentions for making this post is not to bait any couples to mingle with. I genuinely would like a critique of my profile and things I could do improve attracti…
by Made_N_922replies391viewsPlease review our InkAndQuill Profile
Hi profile gurus and reviewers: Our profile continues to evolve from where we started in 2020, and we've stripped away the flowery prose and long descriptions to the current versi…
by inkandquill5replies342viewsReview My Profile
It appears profiles is not even part of the equation when trying to meet someone. Anyways I will at least try to make it right. Fire away!
3replies342viewsProfile cliche's we wish would go away?
You know the ones...the Sydney warning, Bathroom Selfies, "Like-minded", etc. If you could wave a magic wand, which one would you make go away everywhere?
47replies2,457viewsCouples who post photos only of the woman
I got a message today from a man whose profile has multiple photos of a gorgeous woman (allegedly his wife) and NONE of him. He offered to send me photos on Kik. I told him that p…
by entirelyreal15replies1,100viewsNot posting photos of BOTH people in a relationship
It's incredibly aggravating when you stumble upon profiles where one person is intentionally concealed within the relationship. They talk about being a couple, yet only one indivi…
16replies635viewsProfile Feedback Sought
Good morning SLS nation. Looking for brutal and frank feedback. Do not hold back. If I wanted validation, I would go snuggle with my dog. I have tried to view my profile and pics…
2replies346viewsProfile Feedback
Brand new to the website and lifestyle. Need good constructive criticism on my profile please :)
by XeniaGuy11replies649viewsFeedback on my profile
Any advice on what could be fixed on my profile. Maybe better photo ideas or what are things you’d like to know and I’ll write it out
3replies298viewsProfile advice
We are new and would like some advice on our profile. Any advice on wording, pics or approach would be greatly appreciated.
11replies698viewsFeedback on our profile
We have a longer profile that details what we’re like and what we’re looking for sprinkled with some sarcasm and humor. Some if it is to avoid being burned again by people who bla…
by just4us6033replies368viewsSeeking feedback on my profile and photos
Hello, Not new, here or to the lifestyle, but am always open to hearing what others think. Please give me some feedback on areas where I could improve my profile to catch the eyes…
9replies398viewsHelp me improve my profile
I'd appreciate honest feedback to help me make my profile more attractive. Send me a message so I can open my pics. Appreciate your time everyone
by Prodigy7213replies439viewsHelp me review my profile
Honest feedback. And shoot a message so I can open pics up for you if you'd like to see them all... Let me know what I can do to change things, to make my profile more attractive.…
by SneakyTiki4replies376viewsAre these photos better?
I added the last two photos and removed the ones that people said made me look homeless and living in the woods. Are these photos better?
by Ymichael1410replies610viewsWhere can we improve?
We'd like to use this opportunity to utilize community critique. We can always improve and advice from those who have seen success in attracting who they want to meet off this sit…
by LeeNCass2replies318viewsProfile Advice
Hello Im really me to this platform and while I'm getting an idea of how it works, I'm learning my profile might just be working to my deficit. Is there something that should chan…
2replies399views- 2replies325views
Need advice
I'd like to know what's wrong with my profile or pictures on why I have no luck.
0replies245viewsOpen to suggestions on my profile
I haven't been having much luck here on SLS. I send polite and engaging messages to others but usually get no response. I am in fairly good shape and feel that I am atleast somewh…
by Lucky24guy7replies379viewsWhere you take your photos
Guys, Ladies ........... while we get it when you need a mirror to take a full-body type selfie ....... maybe a company restroom isn't the place ? The company toilet stalls - no-n…
6replies417viewsLooking for a review of our profile and open to suggestions
Hi all, we are coming up on a year on this site in a few months. I think we should look at some improvements to our profile, if there are any to be made. We would appreciate any a…
18replies813viewsToo long?
Just seeking some advice if our profile drags on too long. We'd like others to actually read to the end without losing interest. Thanks in advance for all the great suggestions &…
by HOPnrBED5replies379viewsProfile review
Please give me tips on creating a better profile. I’ve been in the lifestyle since college and I have fun consistently, but I feel like my profile can be optimized to better. What…
by Prince2x2x1replies348viewsCould anyone give Feedback on my profile please?
Hello everybody, Not having a lot of success here messaging couples, and wanted to make sure there wasn't anything in my profile that could be a turn off. Anybody have any thought…
by Mrbreeze7428replies439viewsWHY DO MOST COUPLES HAVE LACK OF EDUCATION?
Many times couples are poorly educated, they do not respond, some because they have a fit body, they think they are worth more than others, some are racist, others discriminate, b…
by fitchcpl20138replies522viewsFeedback appreciated
Here are my thoughts, you'll find people who give feedback here are very direct. Please don't take it personally, it's just how we are over here. I'll start with your photos. You…
4replies358views