“ We will just say.. "KUDOS" on the variety of photos, from classy, doing something, showing a fun side, etc etc.. so many just do not get it! It shows a little about what you are about to us,,, vs a chest shot !”
RonKathy, thanks so much for the vote of confidence! It means a lot coming from a couple with your experience and perspective!
We will just say.. "KUDOS" on the variety of photos, from classy, doing something, showing a fun side, etc etc.. so many just do not get it! It shows a little about what you are about to us,,, vs a chest shot !
We will let others speak on your profile!
Its all about fun classy people... who can laugh and do something in life besides sex which is the bonus !
Good morning SLS nation. Looking for brutal and frank feedback. Do not hold back. If I wanted validation, I would go snuggle with my dog. I have tried to view my profile and pics from the POV of single ladies and couples. This is what I am trying to advertise.
(1) Fit & active. (2) Conventionally attractive. (3) Well-rounded and educated. (4) Enjoys the finer things in life. (5) Classy gentleman, but not uptight or arrogant. (6) Looking to enhance an existing and satisfying sex life. (7)This is not my only outlet. (8) Desires and redlines clearly spelled out. (9) Kinky, but respectful of partner comfort levels. (10) Serious about sexual health. (11) Professionally and personally successful. (12) Able to host. (13) Friendly and courteous. (14) Positive person, does not have a laundry list of negatives.
I deliberately do not mention my manhood as everybody has one and few are truly exceptional. My private pics do have a view of me in tight boxers outlining what I have for those who are interested. For those I strongly connect with, my personal pics are explicit leaving nothing to the imagination.
Similarly, I avoid alleged sexual prowess as again no one thinks they are lacking when, in reality, that is something our partners will judge. Also, like are not, we aren’t sexually compatible with everyone regardless of real or imagined virility.
Finally, should I note that my poly partner does not play? Am I inadvertently creating uncertainty? Could prospective partners assume I’m cheating? If so, how do I counteract that uncertainty?
Thanks in advance for the sage recommendations. Have a great weekend
