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Madison, WI, Us

Ok, here are my thoughts.

You're 30 but your pictures look like something a 17 year old would have. Read the post on pics and then update your pics with new ones. full body with decent clothing and a smile. even if you blur the top of the face, leave your smile.

Looking for: Put a bit more than looking for a couple. Do you want people you can go out to dinner with, just fuck and go, spend a weekend at camp, etc.

Description: You're looking for is a bit bland, like a cabbage soup instead of a nice meaty stew. Tell us who you are and what you enjoy. Do you like to golf? Ride motorcycles? Cook dinners? Go dancing? Let us know why we should choose to chat with you over the others.

Fantasies: Remove the first line altogether. Put more about what you've done in the past. I want to know if the person is going to need some guidance or you'll step right into whatever scenario we might be looking for. Ditch the "i am very real". The rest of it is pretty good.

Add something to the last section, again, this is where you can sell yourself to those looking.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. Please tell me you've read some of the other threads here. First, because you need a lot of the same advice most people do and second, because this is the place for very, very (did I say very often enough?) blunt responses.

So, first, your photos are awful. The bathroom selfie is particularly bad. Why the hell would you think anyone wanted to see your messy bathroom counter? Okay, sorry, but I had to get that out of my system. I'm sure you're a lovely person, but did no one ever tell you to put your best foot forward? No more bathroom selfies ever. And please put some clothes on for your photos, ones that fit and aren't wrinkled, and then smile. Unless you're like me and the wider you smile, the squintier your eyes get, only use those pics where you've opened your eyes.

Just in case someone wants to see a naked photo of you, your phone can take photos without a mirror and has a timer that makes that easier. Unless it's a flip phone, in which case you're just going to need a friend's help.

As far as the rest of your profile, it's really not terrible, but I don't know who you're looking for or anything interesting about you, except that you're a pleaser. What kind of man are you? Any interests? Will we have anything to talk about? Because, honestly, I can have sex with anyone, so like women everywhere I can be super picky and want that solo guy to be a funny, sweet, interesting man. There are hints that you might be those things, but you can do a better job of highlighting the interesting parts of you rather than focusing almost entirely on sex, which just isn't all that compelling as a topic when women are doing the choosing.

So, in Looking For, please talk about the couples and women you're looking for. Focus on them mostly rather than you, even as you keep the parts that say why you're looking for them and what you're looking for.

In Description, it's great that you're a pleaser, but I'd also like to know that you're a champion bowler or whatever. Talk about the things that make you you, because there's no one else like you and that is your biggest selling point.

In Fantasies, what you have is actually a great second paragraph, but the first one should be about you. What experience do you have? Some, none, any? What about a fantasy or two?

Additional comments should not be left blank. You have a limited opportunity here to entice people to say yes to you, so don't forego any chance to do so. Can you host? Any last, interesting or intriguing thing about you? It goes here, so long as you can end on an up note.

Other than that, a short, catchy tagline is your friend, as is a smiling face in your default profile photo.

And to open your gallery, go to the profile you want to open it for. Those little symbols in the middle on the left? The one with the key is the one to click for your private gallery and the last one is for anything in a personal gallery. Also, there are tricks to make sure your photos aren't sideways.

Hello
Im really me to this platform and while I'm getting an idea of how it works, I'm learning my profile might just be working to my deficit. Is there something that should change? How do I "unlock" a gallery and give access to someone? Is my profile pic a bad start? Any advice would help