Profile Review

I somehow missed your review request in June but just read MsMolly's previous advice - and most of it still applies.

Your profile text is full of cliches and generic sound bites - I get no sense of y'all as people.

Not sure when you updated your weight in stats (flyover was showing zero but profile has weights) - that will remove the red flag that so many ascribe to zero weight. Your photos show that you are healthy, happy and active - so that's all good.

Some of your photos are overwhelmed by visual clutter - makes it hard to see you clearly when viewing on a small screen.

I agree with MsMolly - among the cliches I see glimmers of interesting & fun people. You just need to let us see more than a glimmer. ;-)

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Hi. Your profile is better than it was in June, but it still doesn't have much personality. That's why it's hard to give advice that is any more specific than what I had to say then.

I do have one thing though, which is to use Description differently. Describe yourselves as a couple, highlighting the unique things that define you. If you have wildly different interests - and I mean like one is a quilter and the other one rappels down buildings - then take the X is a quilter, Y likes jumping off buildings tack in one sentence, but mostly talk about yourselves as a single unit. There is no one else like you, so highlight those things.

Let whichever one of you that isn't writing this profile read it out loud before you submit changes, because right now it sounds like only one flavor of person instead of two.

Other than that, please stop worrying about your weight or thinking it's an issue. If you have health or fitness concerns, hit the gym, etc., but in the meantime you have the bodies you have and there will be people who like those bodies.

Oh, and go to parties if you really want to meet people. Online is just a hard row for almost everyone.

I'm sure others will come in and critique the words and pictures on your profile. My initial thought is the pictures are pretty good...can see your faces and there are full length shots too. Listing your weights as 0 is usually not a good thing. The number may matter to some, but seeing 0 has a connotation of embarrassment or shame. A lot of people look for others who are comfortable with who they are, and listing 0 doesn't convey that.

Need specific advice on how to make our profile better. Not sure if we are writing the wrong things or ppl are just not liking the way we look. We’re not skinny minnies, but we aren’t hideous either.