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Have you read any other profile reviews? You'll find a lot of good advice in them that's is applicable to your profile. And you'll probably notice that many of us offering advice are rather opinionated and blunt. It's all about your profile not you personally - we really do want you to find what you're looking for.

The whole point of your profile is to entice others to contact you (or reply if you initiated contact). We're all here for sex - you need to emphasize the things that make you different from every other single gentleman with a dick in his pants.

Treat each section as a question to be answered. The first section should be about the type of people you hope to attract (outdoor enthusiasts, club goers, couch potatoes, etc.) and what sort of relationship you prefer (one-time NSA encounters, on-going FWB or something in-between). Try not to talk about yourself - you've got the rest of the profile for that. In Description tell us some of the vanilla bits of your life; the sexy bits can go in Fantasies/Experience. Use the last section for any odd bits that don't really fit elsewhere. A half dozen sentences or less per section is often enough and complete sentences are better than lists and fragments.

Most of this is rather generic advice - MsMolly pretty much took care of specific advice. ;-)

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Hi. You have a cert, so it's not like you've had no luck, but there's not much good stuff going on in your profile. Your dick is prominently displayed in your photos and your text leads with it and...that's not really going to make you a ton of friends on line.

Prune your photos. You have a really nice one as a default - you are smiling and look interesting - and the one in a hammock gives you a chance to show off your body in an organic way. The rest range from meh to douchy, although if the rest were better, the one with the monkey is fun.

Your tagline is informative, so there's no reason to open your profile to find out more about you. Try something short and catchy instead.

In Looking For, there's no reason to mention your dick. This section is about the people you're looking for, so talk about them instead. What kind of people are you looking for? Just ongoing? Cool. Say that. And, while I get that this surprises a lot of men, your dick is the least interesting thing about you until you use it. Waving it around, metaphorically or otherwise, just makes a lot of women roll their eyes.

Let your certs talk about it instead. Yes, really. You show up in your profile and at first meetings as an interesting, unique man - who is looking for compatible couples and women for mutual fun, for sure, but put the emphasis on being interesting. I mean, yeah, have a nude and your dick safely in your private gallery and only open that gallery if asked (because some people really do care about that), but lots of men have penises and penises are just not that special.

Yes, I know this is a sex site. That means you're marketing yourself to a lot of people who likely have had a lot of sex with a sizable number of people. That means sex is not in itself all that noteworthy. So, all that you have now? Not special and easily supplied by anyone with a dick. What can't be supplied by any rando? The unique person that you are.

So, in Description, none of that stuff is particularly intriguing and you will do better if you talk about yourself differently. Don't focus on sex at all. Instead, talk about yourself as the unique person you are, that combination of traits and interests.

Use complete sentences in Fantasy and include the part about your lifestyle experience in this section.

Don't leave Additional comments blank. You have a limited number of chances to make a good impression, so use all of them.

Good luck.

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