Profile changes?

You really do need to stand out, preferably by being an authentic, quality guy. So, bring us some content and let us help you create a profile that does you justice.

Thank you for being blunt.. I actually feel like I let people down by a weak profile.. Taking time to review a profile and give feedback is much appreciated.. Give me a week and see if I can make an eye catching / I want to get to know this guy profile… I can’t imagine how many other singles males are out there… I got competition and need to stand out

It doesn't appear that you've read any of the previous profile reviews so it may come as a shock to you that we're opinionated and often blunt. I'm usually the kinder/gentler reviewer but your profile just hit me in all the wrong ways. We do want you to be successful but I just want to smack you upside the head.

You've been on SLS four years and found this forum but if you've read any of the existing reviews you didn't bother to modify your own profile based on the common advice we've been giving single gentlemen for years! That's just lazy. You need more than generic sound bites to stand out from the crowd - and there is a crowd (trust me - I'm close enough to Birmingham that most of them have contacted me). Read a dozen or two other reviews, add some actual content to your profile and then I'll offer specific advice about your text (just come back here and let us know when your revisions are approved).

Pare down your photos - you have quite a few that are essentially the same. Every time you add a new photo delete an older similar one - you don't really need more than half a dozen public photos. Submit a support ticket asking for help rotating those that loaded sideways - or search the forums for where Wayne from customer service mentioned the procedure he uses. For your default photo a smiling face or something catchy or unique is going to be more enticing than a bare torso.

Looking forward to seeing your new & improved profile!

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Hi. I have some feedback, but it's pretty harsh. I apologize in advance.

First, please prune your photos and use a better one as your default. Maybe one of the sideways ones (which can be fixed).

Second, please fix your age limits. If you can't imagine fucking a 56 year old woman, that's fine, but then fix the young-enough-to-be-your-child lower limit so that you're in the center of the range.

For the rest, please put in some actual effort.

Looking For is about who you're looking for and what. Center it on the people you're looking for instead of yourself.

Description is your chance to connect with people. Who are you?

Fantasies is also a chance to connect, with a fantasy and/or with an experience or two.

Additional comments is where you end on an up note.

Try for two sentences in each section. Be real, be you.

Get a cert as soon as you can.

Need some profile feedback for single male. TY