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Deadline

in Swing.com ·

Is there a deadline in the future when the old version of SLS will no longer be accessible?

Bi-Male a plus or harder sell?

in Bi Couples ·

From a straight couple...Mrs. H is somewhat apprehensive when it comes to having intercourse with bi-sexual males. Men who have sex with men and women, often face a higher risk of STIs—including HIV, syphilis, and HPV—than both gay and str…

Margaritaville Islander April 10~15th

in Cruise Talk ·

You’ll have a blast, especially the crew being fun and down to earth. We’ve done Islander 2x just disregard any of the negativity some Karen’s post about the cruise line.

Interracial

in Straight Couples ·

We don’t see color, we only see humans. Personality, wit, charm, laughter, and hygiene keep our attention.

DVP

in 3-Some ·

Depending on the mood we can sneak a small soft toy in there for DVP but like Harley Mrs. Hop is on the smaller side.

Favorite movie quote

in Open Forum ·

"It was last seen hanging out in the girls' locker room at Angel Beach High School" or "God damn it! Will you move it, you lard ass?". ~Porky's

Virgin Cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

@TJP VV is not a lifestyle cruise but like you said, they make it easier to enjoy the company of other like-minded couples with no kids on board. We suggest making contact with others on this site ahead of time or hook-up with a specialty…

Descreet mode

in Swing.com ·

While in discreet mode all profile default photos go blank, is this a glitch or will you no longer be able to see them while invisible?

Choice Social Club

in Clubs ·

Looking for advice from those who frequent this club, is the location in a reasonably safe area of the city? Looking to stay in a nearby hotel.

55 and older searches

in Senior Swingers ·

We try to stay in shape best we can. It seems like the search limits for most couples here are 50-55. We look and act younger but definitely feel as though we miss out being included when others search. Are we alone in this situation?

When sending a message to a lady or couple?

in Getting Started ·

It’s a total sh_t show anymore…from single guys not putting any effort in whatsoever to couples that are 100% slobs to bi males in relationships masquerading as straight. Slim pickings these days can’t wait to see what 2026 is like lol.

Local People

in 3-Some ·

603, this is not the place to solicit others. Best to use the hot date postings for that. Good luck.

Rough looking people

in Open Forum ·

Everyday we see this either online, meet n greets, hotel parties, etc. It's too bad there isn't a way to enter weight ranges similar to age ranges. There have been meet n greets & hotel parties where we've turned around and walked out only…

Local People

in 3-Some ·

J n K you may have better luck posting some recent photos of you BOTH rather than three of her from 2006…that alone will turn most others away. Good luck.

Filtering weight

in Swing.com ·

Could this new platform have filters for weights of individuals similar to ages when searching?

Search function

in Swing.com ·

Will the upgrade ever remember your filter choices? Sorta painful to redo each time. Also, how do you switch to invisible while looking at ones profile?

Virgin Cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

Just sailed Valiant Lady Halloween cruise out of Miami and you choose the vibe you want to experience. No pressure at all you can totally relax or party like crazy with plenty of dance parties that start at 11pm.

Profile photo dates bait n switch?

in Open Forum ·

Amazing how many active profiles have photos dating back to 2010-2017 etc. Really gives perspective into ones profile now that photos come with expiration dates lol. Anyone else find this amusing?

Opening pictures

in 3-Some ·

If there is NO interest on our part after a couple/single initiates contact with their photos & we politely bow out it would make no sense opening our photos at that point. If, on the other hand WE initiate contact then we always have phot…

Recent Movies

in Open Forum ·

Although our eyes were bleeding from how awful it was we managed to watch til the end. "Anora" what a joke, they must have paid someone off to get any type of awards for that steaming pile lol....next!

Double penetration

in 3-Some ·

Oh yes on the "my eyes, my eyes" approving photos lol. Mrs. Hop laughs and says she knows it's awful when I say "check this one out"

What is the perfect cock size/shape for you?

in Fantasies ·

The Mrs. has no specific cock in mind but who it is connected to first. She does enjoy an average 6" cock that is rock hard but she says width is nice feeling that stretches her & hits certain nerve endings for a feeling of being filled up…

Double penetration

in 3-Some ·

We often play around with DVP having a toy beneath myself so that I am putting extra pressure upward against her. Depending on the size of the toy it is sometimes uncomfortable for her as HARLEY stated she's tiny as well. Still fun to expe…

Smiling face photos MIA

in Achieving Single Male Success ·

Allow us to reiterate for you CALCAN...our OP refers to SM's contacting us only to open half a dozen photos of a penis rather than a nice smiling casual photo. Yes, a (one) photo of the male's cock is acceptable.

Kik

in First Contact ·

We get many messages here via the SLS site so never a need to venture to another source until we've actually chatted/meet up.

Taking longer to climax

in Senior Swingers ·

At certain times too wet/slippery causes slightly less friction which tends to take longer to orgasm although Mrs. H is multi so no complaints from her.

Virgin Voyages

in Cruise Talk ·

We've set ourselves up on the new ship Brilliant 2026 to Alaska. May have to take a quick Virgin cruise out of Miami between now & then after seeing/hearing all the positives.

Filtering out Single males fakes and flakes

in 3-Some ·

Frustrating for Mrs. H as well. We tend to have better luck on vacation by meeting others in person. At least this way we see a smiling face with conversation vs a blue Gumby or a close up photo of them letting us know they have a penis in…

Opening pictures

in 3-Some ·

You are not alone. It's a real PITA around here especially for a site set up to make connections with others. Just the amount of profiles that won't even include a faceless MALE photo frustrates Mrs. H. We basically use this site for listi…

Certifications

in Swinger Advice ·

More the content of the profile rather than certs. We don't post any either so it may cut down on how many contact us.

Local People

in 3-Some ·

Also, list yourself as bi after reading your profile. Good luck!

Email contact only?

in Getting Started ·

Your question is not really needed as you already knew the answer, stick with SLS messaging you'll be fine. If the other party insists on an outside source dump them until you've actually met & trust them.

Cpl to cpl

in Website ·

When sharing a PM or profile with Mrs. Hop that is the first thing she asks is if there are photos of the male half...not meaning the ole famous dic pic either lol.

Virgin Voyages

in Cruise Talk ·

Looking into a Virgin cruise in 2026 let's hear the good, the bad, the ugly from experienced cruisers...

Is SLS for you who

in Open Forum ·

Also keep in mind that you have a SF profile but your opening line says "we"...that will be viewed to us as a red flag. You may want to correct that if you are actually a couple.

Is it really this hard?

in Straight Couples ·

Your profile screams "Karen" with all of the complaining. You need to shore up your profile with more of a description of yourselves rather than your dislikes. Good luck!

Why is the communication on here so terrible?

in Finding Playmates ·

People are LAZY which if you are that lazy communicating with us in a PM or with your profile how will your laziness follow you to meet or play? Our time is limited like everyone else's we won't entertain BS and we can spot it right away.

Women squirting - yea or neh?

in Men Talk ·

The slippery feeling is great but what turns us on the most is the powerful release of that type of orgasm for her while with a partner that she feels comfortable enough to let go of everything and enjoy the moment. That is why we have tow…

Intense orgasms

in Men Talk ·

NH, yes we are experiencing things more intensely now in our middle 50's especially Mrs. Hop with her rapid fire O's and extremely wet moments.

Annual swingers

in Open Forum ·

We tend to be more alert while on vacation for potential adult fun along with the use of hot date listings.

Interracial

in Straight Couples ·

Agree, the world would be so much easier if we could just see another human being rather than a color...so sad because 9 out of 10 movies & news stories over the years constantly use race to describe someone's actions.

Margaritaville cruise March 24

in Cruise Talk ·

Great little get away cruise for a couple days. Nothing over the top but we have fun & that works for us. Been on many cruises bold to basic and this one is the best bang for the buck. We are on again at the end of April & over to Tampa in…

How to convince my wife

in Swinger Advice ·

This is a hobby you BOTH agree to enter into 100%...if either of you are having second thoughts put the brakes on you are not ready.

Anal sex poll

in Senior Swingers ·

Like others have pointed out, the woman MUST be in the hottest mood typically after she has had a few good orgasms along with LOTS of lube and entered at a snails pace. Allow her to control the speed and push into you...the pay off is well…

Anal sex poll

in Senior Swingers ·

Ha Ha, just couldn't resist...an anal sex pole sounds like it may hurt lol. BTW, the Mrs. used to enjoy it but as she aged it is not a favorite of hers now. Have a great day!

Concealed carry gun choices

in Open Forum ·

For self protection a nice handgun should feel comfortable to carry, handle, and shoot. If you are looking for something very light & mechanical try the Smith and Wesson M&P model 340 PD revolver with enclosed hammer that can use .38 or .3…

Concealed carry gun choices

in Open Forum ·

Train, train, train...then when you think you have trained enough train some more. The tsunami of 8 million invaders to this country has yet to return as a 40' wave. Stay salty everyone the next 10 months are going to be interesting to say…

Profile photo approvals

in Open Forum ·

At times does anyone else experience the look of shock or actually tilt your head a little with an eyebrow raised when photo approvals pop up? We often as a couple find it very humorous to share with one another what some folks upload. Mer…

Too long?

in Better Profiles ·

Just seeking some advice if our profile drags on too long. We'd like others to actually read to the end without losing interest. Thanks in advance for all the great suggestions & comments ahead of time.

Looking for others while on a trip

in 3-Some ·

After posting hot dates prior to traveling which stirs the pot we tend to have the best luck out in public just by saying hello with a nice warm welcoming smile. Mrs. Hop will usually gives a nudge when she notices a sexy couple, SM or SF…

senior swingers

in Soft Swinger ·

Florida is our pin drop for fun, between Miami-Ft. Lauderdale there are plenty of opportunities.

WTF

in Open Forum ·

RK, maybe take a photo using a pair of K's shear panties with your middle finger in them to use as return fire lol...at least some SM's are great to keep us laughing.