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Christmas and Holiday Music playlist

in Open Forum ·

I'm def a non-traditionalist when it comes to Christmas playlists. My (ex, but still fam) in-laws are from Louisiana, so we jam out to the 12 Yats of Christmas. I like to find good R&B songs... just found Santa Claus Wants Some Lovin' by A…

Is this how most Single Males really are? Oof

in Open Forum ·

One month into switching my profile from a single male to couple and I've almost lost all faith in my fellow man. I've read (and read, and read) so many posts about low-effort messages from SM but I guess I had to see it with my own eyes.…

Licking a wife while she and hubby make a cream pie

in 3-Some ·

Did this for the first time last night.. fucklicking creampie eating. NGL, it was pretty fucking hot to hear how much this turned on the wife. It was their first time w/ a guy (they've played w/ females a few times)... unicorn couple, as t…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Update: Things are going well. Really don't have time with both of us being parents (she's 100% all the time), but we're gonna hit up a pool party or local club. TBH, we're at that stage where we still got the blinders on with each other.…

Profile update from single to couple?

in Website ·

Not jumping the gun, but I'm curious to know if it's possible to change your profile from single to couple. The lady I'm seeing is definitely interested in the LS and we've discussed bringing in other guys... so having a single male profil…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

"You both get to offer each other something too. For her, it's extra security knowing someone has her back. For you, it's the ability to get into more LS events, as some don't allow SMs. Sounds like a win/win to me. Good luck and I hope it…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Hold on... you're criticizing people here and your pics include you with a Hulkamania t-shirt? Really? Oh, and I'm one of those libtards too. Wouldn't even spit on a Trumper. Waste of fluid.

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

“ but I remember some of the OP’s posts on other threads, he’s a bit gullible...” OK, I’ll take the bait. I looked at my entire post history and the only time I came across as a rube is asking for advice on my profile. I guess asking swing…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Appreciate the make sure you're thinking with the right head comment... I went back and re-read my post and reply; and yeah I can totally see that I came across as some schlep ready to buy this woman a whole new wardrobe... I just get a li…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Ymichael14, some valid points... but this isn't 1994. She's a boss. This woman is a full time single mom raising 3 kids; and kicking ass. Recently out of a long relationship (very vanilla), she said she's not looking for long term, but if…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Thanks guys! That's what I needed to read... class it up and don't fuck it up! I told her about the swingers club and she already wants to go... already told her BFF that I wanna share her. I'm pig in shit. Just gotta be cool and not get t…

Intermittant fasting - aka 16:8 diet

in Fitness ·

Big fan of fasting. For the last 8 months I fast two non-consecutive days a week. My last meal is Sunday night, until Tuesday morning. Then last meal Wednesday night until Friday morning. I’m also mainly keto, except for weekends with plan…

Multiple creampies

in 3-Some ·

Would love to be part of a gangbang creampie... like someone previously mentioned, DVP creampie = holy grail.

Talkin Dirty

in Men Talk ·

I lose my mind when women talk about how many men they've been with (esp while I'm in her). Since my college years, I'd ask girlfriends about their experience. That backfired a couple times! lol. I got called names, but no harm.

Top vs Bottom

in Bi Males ·

I must be an outlier... Top here that loves to suck and play w/ cock. But when it comes to my ass, I don't like anything in there. I played w/ a bi couple a few years ago... I told them prior about my limits. First thing the dude goes for…

General porn topic

in Open Forum ·

Anything not truly amateur turns me totally off. And I've noticed that amateur vids that I love are mostly average-looking people, at best. I know this sounds bad, but sometimes the rougher-looking the lady, the better the video, IMO. What…

Las Vegas in April

in Travel ·

Mayhem hit it on the spot. I was in Vegas a few years ago for a work conference. They had us at the Treasure Island. I was such a dump. So bad. And the who place stunk of old smoke. I swear there only two sections: smoking and excessive sm…

Bi Sexual House Party

in Bi Couples ·

I wish these kind of parties were around here in Charlotte NC. It's almost impossible for a single bi guy to find some fun.

Web Developers Amongst Us?

in Website ·

Wow, Cold Fusion... that was like 20 years ago... which is how this site functions. They'd have to scrap and start from scratch... but the site would be more like Tinder/etc. That said, I don't see them refreshing the platform to a newer v…

Where profile say straight and there bi

in Bi Males ·

Single bi male here. I get very few inquiries from couples and almost all are from the hubby who wants to play on the side. Nah, I can do that w other dudes. I'm looking for bi couples. I guess there's still a strong stigma in the swinging…

women watching m-m sex

in Bi Couples ·

I've only hooked up w/ a few couples, but I had one who wanted to get a front row seat of me penetrating her hubs. She would lube me up w/ coconut oil and slide it up in him. It was pretty f'n hot!