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Appreciate it, what I came for thank you

Since I don't have much time I'll just say - reread MsMolly's reply.

I might have reached the "thanks but no thanks" point even more quickly than she did - I think the "I'll send photos when ..." nonsense is what turned me off first. We're looking for someone fun and interesting - no hint of that in your profile.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Hi. Welcome to Thunderdome.

Not really, but bluntness is more often found here than kindness. It's meant well, but whether it's useful depends on how well you respond to that.

And I'm telling you this because I've spent the past 25 minutes trying to figure out why I'd type "thanksbutnothanks" before I even finished reading your profile.

It might just be that I've seen far too many single guy profiles with the standard half naked selfie and bland, uninformative text and am just over it. The bad news is that is probably true for many women and couples open to single men, with the corresponding good news that not having a half naked selfie and a bland profile will make you stand out among your peers.

Please put clothes on - clothes that fit and have no wrinkles - for your new pics and have more than one public photo. It's fine to edit to remove your face, but smile anyway. It does have an impact on the way you hold your body, even when it can't be seen.

Put yourself in the middle of your age range. Try to get a more current cert. Change your tagline. What you have is fine, but you want a new one to go with new photos so that people open your profile and discover you all over again.

In Looking For, it's women rather than females and try to say more about what you're looking for instead of what you aren't. So, leave out the drama thing and focus on the kinds of fun you hope to have (LTR, one and done, ongoing, FWB, whatever, just say more). The thing about photos - if you aren't sending a photo of your face with your initial messages means you are going to have a harder time than necessary - doesn't need to be here at all, since it has nothing to do with who or what you're looking for.

Description misses the point of this section entirely, which is to introduce yourself in a way that makes people think they can connect with you. Instead, you have philosophy and the kind of physical description that is better delivered with photos. You can do better than meh.

So, what makes you unique? Who are you? What about a combination of interests that others might share or want to talk about? This is the place for all that is vanilla and personal.

Fantasies would benefit from, once again, removing discussion of what you don't want. Also a check on grammar. I think you could talk a little about experiences you've had, since your profile is more than a decade old.

Additional comments is back in philosophy land. It's not doing you any favors. Instead, end on a high note, because this is a marketing piece and you want people to say, yeah, he might be someone we want to meet at the end of it.

Good luck.

I would appreciate some constructive feedback if anyone is inclined to give it!