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For Ymichael - my concerns went beyond the immediate. I was thinking, what if the lady blurted out to someone in the family that she was being brought into situation like that ? People with Alheimers or Dementia have been known to say thin…
Being that my wife and I are just over 70, we prefer to play with, senior-ish people. Let’s say 50 to maybe 75. So we connected with a couple in early 2023. They claimed to be 70, but we knew they were a bit older. Smart people, amusing. G…
Some people are nervous. Some are paranoid. Many aren't SERIOUS either - just lookie-lou's . They sign up just to see if any family members, friends, neighbors or coworkers might be on here. My thing that gets under my skin : people who po…
When wife and I look at a couple to evaluate their potential as playmates, one major turn-off we see too often. Why do people " certify " couples they've maybe just barely run into at a party ? A bar ? or just met over a cup of coffee ? Se…
In a single word : FLORIDA. A lot of retirees have " done their duty " - LOL, raised the kids, made a career, sold the business, the farm, whatever. Now they've moved here and decided to let their hair down. No prying eyes, no nosey neighb…
Guys, Ladies ........... while we get it when you need a mirror to take a full-body type selfie ....... maybe a company restroom isn't the place ? The company toilet stalls - no-no-NO !
We all know the story about the two bulls on top of the hill, the old bull and the young bull - looking down at the herd. I won't repeat it - LOL. I hit the big seven-zero 6 months ago - and my wife did, within the past week. So yes, we've…
After being here for a good number of years, wife and I have met ( and sometimes played ) with couples who stated they were " soft-swing only. " No swap. No FINAL swap. Except - when the playtime sessions got underway in private, they were…
Tell them you lost the camera - or it was stolen ! So you have no pics to share !
To Ron Kathy - yup - we live 5 miles from Eyz ! And yes, we were soft-swing for years, until one night we weren't. Meaning, we decided we weren't ANYMORE. And we changed our listing to reflect that. We just think that people who say they "…
So over the years we have seen a number of profiles from couples, even met with and played with couples - who listed themselves as soft-swing. We had no problem with that - it was every bit as much fun, quite sexy, etc. One couple we are i…
I guess my message / comments were something of a mixed message. We saw them not merely as playmates, but as FRIENDS. In these times of COVID, being as detached from everyone as we are, it was great having another couple that lived within…
Yup - nice to see some people get a BIT more daring / willing to share a face photo - or a tasteful nude or erotic picture .... DO have to laugh at the rise in single woman FREE new members - tells us : a lot of kids are home from school ,…
So - had a chance to meet up with our newbie friends yesterday - I spoke mainly with the hubby. As I suspected, he is going into the club with an open mind. He has no interest in loaning his lady out, or humiliating her in front of strange…
It'll be interesting to get the feedback from our friends when they go in a few weeks. There is something of a beginners' night coming up - it's a once-or-twice a month thing. The lady involved here is quite intelligent and they are new to…
Wife and I are full-fledged swingers, and have been now for over 18 years. Full-swap, usually with other couples, the occasional threesome. We also play as singles at certain clubs, events, parties. Before that 10 years or so of soft-swing…
Okay thanks for the answers guys and ladies. My status as a free member was just for one day, while my membership lapsed. I am back in as a paying member once again! LOL
I have noticed something on a couple of occasions - it appears that some profiles have their first / lead picture - that isn't one of the photos in their grouping of " the public gallery " ........................... Also, while some galle…
Not an expert on these things, not by a long-shot- but considering the weather forecast, can ANYONE think of a better way to spend a few recreational hours on a Sunday afternoon ??? Getting together with friends - and making NEW friends in…
Old song from the Lovin' Spoonful : " Did you ever have to make up your mind ?? "
Our experience there - on the night of the Superbowl some years back ......... ( when the Bucs won the game ) - the big room was an open area with people coming and going ( no pun intended ) - good area for voyeurism, while recharging betw…
p Wife and I have been a couple of times, AWESOME club ! We ve always been on a Sat night though. We were wondering - how are some of the other nights ? Weds ? Sunday ?? Decent attendeanve ? Different crowd ??? /p
Medicinal Porpoises .......... my favorite !
