Hi. I somehow missed your post earlier and then didn't have time to give your profile the attention it deserves. I apologize in advance for my bluntness. It's kindly meant, but that doesn't mean criticism is easy to hear.
Your profile is okay. Sure, you could make some changes (for instance, a desire to get to know "anyone" isn't very flattering, so different wording would be helpful), but the problem is that you're on a lifestyle site full of people who want to have sex with others and...you mostly don't want that.
Instead, you want parallel and girl/girl play, but your female half doesn't have experience, isn't sure there's more than curiosity about sex with women, and none of that sounds particularly attractive given the alternatives that people on here have. You're basically looking for an altruistic couple or woman - or a couple like you, who wants same room and maybe g/g in lieu of swapping. Add in the implied responsibility of making it extra pleasant for her so that at some later date she might want more and it's a lot to ask, at least not here.
It's already tough to find a four way connection using on line sites, but the level of difficulty is greatly increased for a couple like you. It's not that you don't come off as smart or attractive, but what you're looking for isn't best found on line.
Parties and clubs are better, because there are other options for rounds two, three, or however many more that altruistic couple/woman wants that night, which isn't true in private settings. Plus, you're more likely to find couples willing to act as mentors, even if they're not interested in what you're offering sexually, and they might also know a couple you'll click with.
I hope that makes sense. If you have any questions, I'm happy to say more, but otherwise, best of luck and I hope you'll check out clubs, parties, even places like Hedo in Jamaica.
