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mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

I'm not sure what your profile looked like before, but it seems to look OK now. You have a couple minor typos to go back and fix, but nothing too bad.

I would suggest that you have at least one picture dressed as you would to go out to a decent restaurant. Doesn't need to be suit and tie, but with a button down shirt, well fitting pants and shoes ;-)

I'd also make that your main profile pic as I believe it will appeal to a larger audience. People that like the outdoorsy look will see your other pics (plus your profile name) and the ones less interested in that may look and think that you at least clean up well.

You may want to expand the description section with any additional hobbies you may have as any/all of that can provide potential conversation starter hooks. You may have read this already, or not, but even though this is basically a sex site looking for others that also want to have sex, most people are looking for more than that in a FWB. It makes things easier if you have more common interests with someone.

FWIW - You list as Bi but show zero interest in males. Maybe at least elaborate a bit on that in the Additional Comments section. I get that you're likely more looking for MMF and MFM play, but it doesn't hurt to add a few words saying that if that's the case.

Fresno, CA, Us

You should start your own thread, to avoid confusion.

Hello! I'd also like some feedback on my profile. I may have over thought & over tweaked. Appreciative of time and suggestions. Thanks! adrian

Thanks, that's really good feedback -has some solid insights and gives good pause for consideration.

Really appreciate the time!

Madison, WI, Us

Here are my thoughts, you'll find people who give feedback here are very direct. Please don't take it personally, it's just how we are over here.

I'll start with your photos.

You should change your profile pic to a nice picture of you showing your face and a smile. Follow the photo guidelines in the pinned post.
Overall your photos show that you want a rock climber and I doubt you'll find a ton in the swinger world. Candidly none of your photos are great and I wouldn't stop to review your profile based on your photos if I was looking for a third for my FWB.

I would leave the first sentence in Looking for and move the rest to fantasies.

Your description is very long and I got bored 1/2 way through honestly. Shorten it up to your physical description and a bit of your personality. I'd remove the entire last sentence of description as it's restating things you've already said.

Fantasies are fine although it really seems you want someone who's going to be into backwoods hiking and being naked outdoors, that's going to limit the those interested in you.

The entire additional is redundant with the exception of that last tag line. But you have a space for tag line, why not put that there?

My overall impression starting with your username is that you want an exhibitionist or two who will go backwoods hiking and find a secluded spot to have sex. To me your profile reads very self centered and it doesn't seem like you have much interest in being indoors and doing things with us, rather than us doing things with you.

Hope that helps.