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Why do some men lie about penis size
Last week on "One Thousand Ways to Die' they had a segment about some doofus (probably a yankee) who strapped a salami onto his thigh with a length of rubber hose and went to the…
273replies36,479viewsFinding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing)
I get that much of this lifestyle revolves around SEX. . . I mean, without the sexual aspect, it's just going out with friends. While I love sex as much as the next guy (or gal),…
227replies34,779views[LOCKED]Why aren’t single men allowed at parties?
We have been going to parties both house & hotel & are just wondering why single women are allowed but not single men? I think this is a great place to meet one & be able to do MF…
188replies9,195viewsWhat is the trick to getting to talk to people when you're single male
I live in in East Texas and most of the women on here are either fake or lie about their size or don't put a current picture then there are those who are totally honest but those…
by bigthor0536replies7,928viewsBHM (Big Handsome Man) Why the double standard??
I have noticed an interesting trend over the years in this lifestyle..... great attention and care has gone into making sure that BBW are seen as just as beautiful as smaller wome…
by lonelylvr69132replies7,317viewsThis is why single guys get a bad rap
Our profile is very clear - we don't want singles to reach out to us and we don't want anyone to reach out via IM. Yet - this morning we get an IM from a single guy simply saying…
by AandJinNNJ43replies7,242viewsHusband's, how did you do it?
I see so many hott couples of all ages, men sporting GORGEOUS women that are into living this lifestyle, and I always think to myself, "how do these guys end up finding such attra…
by Thaiger30replies5,946viewsSingles or couples wanting to meet without seeing face pictures
This is purely curiosity, not asking for advice. Ok, we get a ton of requests from singles saying they are ready to meet us without even offering a face pic of themselves or even…
by JeffX_RebX49replies5,743viewsBad experiences .
Hey I got a question for the single guys and ladies. How do you handle a very bad experience? Usually I just let it roll off my back but this husband was extremely rude and mean.…
by georgia9999136replies5,027viewsSingle Males not welcome here
I’ve wanted to be a part of this lifestyle for years, but mostly too nervous, and not really sure where to start. For years I’ve heard how kind and accepting this community is. I…
by Blue434358replies4,599viewsFirst rule of Swinging Single - Be single
We very seldom reach out to single females, but we made an exception this week to one who's profile seemed a real match in a town we will be visiting soon. We sent a nice opening…
17replies3,974viewsPhotos of the wife that doesnt look like she knows
I've been noticing a trend on profiles where the photos of the wife look like she had no idea he was taking her photo. When I noticed one, now they all stand out. I wonder if thes…
53replies3,766viewsDating Classifieds
I'm interested in a significant other, to be married or not, in a committed, non-monogamous relationship in the lifestyle. This means like the married couples here, we would swing…
60replies3,757viewsSLS needs to be more tolerant
I join this group as part of a couple and now find myself single. Although the intro to SLS says it includes singles and couples, the focus of SLS and most of the groups are coupl…
by OVDamsel24replies3,675viewsSingle female seeking advice and swing partner
Maybe more. As a single female new to the lifestyle I was expecting it to be easier. I’m learning, networking and trying to be patient. I’m finding that married couples are having…
22replies3,660viewsNo place for single men
I have been in the lifestyle since 2011. Back then I was 21 and living in Florida. I was shocked by the lifestyle and how much crazy mind blowing actions that go on in it. As a si…
22replies3,571viewsWife stopped being a swinger
So my wife and I are poly and she found a long term BF and has stopped wanting to be in the lifestyle. This has had the effect of making me a single male swinger and I have no ide…
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Meeting single guys
I understand that single guys get a bad rap here. Maybe I’ve been very fortunate, but I’ve found (in my vast and extensive 5 weeks in) that the good have definitely outweighed the…
20replies3,276viewsHow to date in a vanilla world ?
So I may have a unique situation in the future. (Maybe?) Before I was divorced I was involved in the lifestyle. Been out of the game for a while and now I am back as a single male…
15replies3,268viewsSF with married guys
I recently had (what I think was) an odd experience. Let me know your thoughts. I’ll preface this by saying I’m a SF, bi comfortable in certain situations but definitely not a uni…
16replies3,150viewsSingle male asking ladies
So as a single male that is truly looking for a female life partner. I constantly see single woman profiles saying looking for nothing serious. Kind of confused as to why a woman…
by big1890220replies3,148viewspenalizing single men!!!
First off, we go to a LOT of LS parties and I've never even heard of, much less witnessed the prostitute scenario. I suppose anything is possible, like getting struck by lightning…
by mayhem820replies3,121viewsRestrictions on singles play at parties
Is it a common rule that singles are only allowed to play with couples at parties/clubs?
43replies3,090viewsGangbang group
Took the first step and emailed some of the SMs that we already know and like, and it wound up being 14 SMs. These are just the ones I already had email addresses for, but there a…
by mayhem821replies3,083viewsDo SMs Want SFs?
I feel like I may be an outlier here, but I’m a SF who likes to have sex with SMs. I thought it wouldn’t be that difficult as I keep reading that there’s so many SMs out there. Bu…
36replies2,771viewsAttending first hotel party
I’ll be attending my first hotel floor takeover party next weekend. Any advice for a first timer, and should I look to book a room on the party floor or will booking a room somewh…
by ItsMrFlex13replies2,686viewssingle male versus single female
I read the certainly justifiable complaints of single males and the bad rap they get. However, being a unicorn and trying to find a suitable date is difficult too. I swung as 'bi'…
by yeaokay19replies2,661viewsUnreliable Single Males
Can we start a list of unreliable single males profiles. We are so sick of getting stood up or worse ghosted. We need to out these guys!
by coupleofqs28replies2,635viewsfirst singer's party as a single male
I'm going to my first party in the next couple weeks as a single male on the younger side. I wanted to see if anyone had Any advice. I am respectful and outgoing but I'm going to…
by MrSaturn014replies2,525viewsWidows
Ok as a widower who lost his partner and now after a time would like to reenter the scene. Is wondering do widows who lost their partners stay in the scene and at some point want…
by MrClliny7711replies2,290viewsBucks county PA
Good afternoon and hopefully this is allowed. I have been divorced for 5 years now and been searching for a partner that is interested in the life style. I am fit. Job. Great fami…
by big1890212replies2,212viewsPersistence is a virtue, to some of us
Without hijacking another's thread; a thought occurred to me while reading a response. In the thread: "What is the trick to talk to people when you're a single male?", and a respo…
19replies2,177viewsWhat are the best ways to find a serious female partner?
Let me start by stating that I am a successful male in the Lifestyle. I've met, had amazing sex and befriended multitudes of couples in all the years I've been playing. The one th…
by MrTrainer15replies2,044viewsGuys listed as straight or couple but unattached and bi?
Your observation is mostly correct. The wife has no idea that her vacation or intimate photos have been put online and are part of a profile. Sadly they were here during the Craig…
by HollyBlue11replies1,997viewsIs There an Assumption
I just have a simple question for anyone who cares to answer it: When you see a single guy on SLS, is there an assumption that he has real trouble getting laid in ordinary life, a…
by Nafester24317replies1,985viewsSingle Male profile review
Hello , I am a single male and I would like some reviews on my profile. I feel I’m very respectful and read other profiles completely before sending message, but then I get no res…
by Alp6249replies1,914viewsLooking for a girlfriend in the lifestyle
Ok, I didn't see a personals section and that may be because it's prohibited, but here goes. I'm a nice, kind, GIB guy, who always puts the ladies first. I'm retired comfortably w…
10replies1,907viewsEthiopian or Habesha
Are there any Ethiopian/Habesha swinging? Single women or attached? I'm very interested.
by ltapia8518replies1,716viewsNew to LS and having a difficult time meeting others
Hi I’m new to the LS and am looking to meet single females and couples. I don’t write short introductions nor do I act pushy. What would be the best advice for me you could think…
by LVNATIVE12replies1,658viewsDisadvantages to being single
Something I've taken for granted is that, as a regular couple, if you are doing something wrong, it will quickly be picked up on and corrected. Singles do not have that advantage.…
by mayhem88replies1,462viewsSingle male here, would like some profile critiquing !
Hi Everyone ! Thanks for stopping by this post, and if you have time to do so, checking out my profile and sharing your thoughts on it ! Steve.
by WildrMonkey3replies1,361viewsStories of those who have crossed over from nillaworld.
I read the single swingers looking thread Finding a new partner in life (who also wants to swing) and read all of it. The advice ranges from keep looking to find a partner from th…
by H_lustlover5replies1,354viewsWhy no dating or classified forum?
I can't be the only person searching for a mate in the lifestyle.
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Am I doing this wrong?
Hello, I’m a single male in my mid 20s but I’m having a hard time getting anyone... Not being aggressive, if anything, not approaching knowing not many people are looking for sing…
by JGO0074replies1,222viewsAdvice for the Single Guys from a couple who just blocked you
You think the men who need to understand any of this are going to read this when they don't even read the profile of the people they want to fuck? ????????
by Esperanza9113replies1,204viewsPlaymate
Hello, I’m interested in continuing the swinger lifestyle, going from couple to single male has def presented challenges for attending events and meeting people in the lifestyle!…
by JmdAsh2replies1,202viewsErection assistance
In a situation where a single male is looking for a couple (mature, 60's) would the couple have an issue if I use trimix or viagra? Trimix only takes a few minutes for some pretty…
by Bfwpmale8replies1,192viewsWhat are you into
“What are you into?” I get asked this question often and I’m not quite sure how to answer it. If only I had taken the time to write a profile….. that had all theses things listed……
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