Interesting point Tip. You definitely can't have a relationship based solely on sex. I actually have found some folks on here that share interests besides sex, but didn't think about dating any of them. I have met at least three married co…
An HOUR!?!!!! Holy Cow! My pillow princess neck gets tired after 20 min. If things are going on too long, I will say I need a breather, or "let's get some water" is always a good reason to take a break.
The last few threads have made some great points. I think if you are going to post you have another who can join, it's good to specify you have a "single female friend" that can join. I have been invited to events by a single male where ot…
Thanks BT. I know there are a lot of people, both sexes, who are hiding this from a significant other. I would never want to do anything that would hurt anyone. I definitely know what I need to do after seeing a Facebook post today. I have…
How soon do you wait before bringing a single person to your place? What would stop you from bringing a single person over? Personally, I have grown children living with me right now so visits at my place would not be comfortable. I have c…
It's been a while since this topic has been awake, let's shake it up a bit... I have only know one truly nutty buddy single woman in the lifestyle. Like truly crazy, stalking, going to peoples places of work without asking kinda crazy. But…
Oh my... I have tried this twice, my partner made me stoop...lol I think he was afraid of being replaced Ahahahahaha.... I suppose as with anything, there are different qualities and preferences. Some people may like a firmer plastic while…
ok... Almost 2 years and no update?! How did the party go? My advise to single males is try to be outgoing, without being overbearing. Be friendly, talk about your interests besides just sex and be genuine with compliments. A friend of min…
Do you have an update? You totally need to find out what her feelings are about sex beyond just "not now". Does she not believe in premarital sex? Is she scared for medical reasons? is she open to having sex? Tell her you want to share tha…
I have gone back and fourth between vanilla and lifestyle. I don't think I'll ever go back. I found more vanilla guys lied and were not very great in bed. As far as finding a vanilla that is open, you just have to ask a lot of questions. A…
I totally get this. I used to just play with single guys, then I started going to parties. They were mostly attended by married couples, many who have been married many years. I love parties, they are so much fun, but sometimes it would be…