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Straight, Bi, or Bi curious
We don't get it. We read profiles and see a LOT of females that say they are Bi curious. And some males. Folks here is what Bi curious really means. You have NOT played with someo…
28replies2,226viewsAdult sex playground
Okay, we are looking for ideas to put up on our 10 private acres. We want to make a "Sex Playground" for adults. We have a sex swing up, sex table with straps, sex swing, trampoli…
20replies2,224viewsPENIS SIZE
I have always been sensitive about my penis size 5.5 hard. My (ex) wife always said my penis what average. I have had no problem with women telling me that I am to small. I was ac…
by sexpack43replies2,208viewsProfessional >The Word
Professional! I think if I hear that work one more time I'm going to puke. Hearing that is like to me seeing The Andy Griffith show, Friends, Everybody loves Raymond and I love Lu…
by dragonrapide41replies2,185viewsWayne's reply to Kik posts
Wayne replied in another thread then locked it. Here is his reply. "A good alternative for private messaging is using this site. That is the whole purpose of this site being creat…
31replies2,162viewsMen attending a club, how to dress. Semantics
This summer I am planning on attending more on premise clubs than I normally do. Every club has a dress code for men, which I fully endorse. I look at it like a date and dress nic…
45replies2,154viewsAny Christian Swingers on here?
My wife and I are Christians. A fact we would never hide from any one... I realize this may be a strange place to talk about God, religion and theology but I have been studying th…
32replies2,145viewsWhat is AA couple?
We see people describe themselves and what they are looking for as an "AA couple". We've been swingers for 22 years and have been in many situations, but still we wonder what it m…
by two4twoinpa28replies2,140viewsSwinger signs!!!!!!
Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!
by Acorrado91917replies2,133viewsNews of the Weird
OK. Since the forum sanitizer squad keeps moving the days news to politics, let's try again. Put stories from the day's news here. Hopefully they have an angle of oddity, humor or…
by currentrider25replies2,129viewsWhy kik
Just curious, Why is kik the go to? I use wickr for alot of my discreet conversations. But it seems most are unfamiliar with it. Or other ways of communicating. Just curious why?
by Deadlift7525replies2,123viewsHappy sounds during sex?
One of the reasons the Mrs turns me on like no other is the happy sounds she makes during sex. She could literally be in the middle of a dozen person orgy and I can pick her sound…
by mayhem827replies2,116viewsLet Us Hear It For
Here is where you can give applause for the things in life that you are proud of or for those things that make you shake your head at someone's or something's stupidity.
33replies2,110viewsForcing Yourself to Slow Down or Stop and Focus on Yourself
In today's world, there is so much that draws our attention. There is so much going on, that we as humans have too many irons in the fire and are highly stressed because of it. He…
63replies2,099viewsWhy are so many swingers prudes about sex on the first date?
So many profiles that basically seem to insist on a courting ritual before any possible sexy time. I sometimes wonder if those people waited to have sex until after marriage... I…
by Esperanza91139replies2,065viewsWhy do men pick out men for their wives online?
I just got through speaking to another "couple" which happens to just be the male half doing all the work. They typically set up the page, pick the pictures, do the selecting, the…
21replies2,064viewsroad rage!
The constant brake pedal tappers, with nobody in front of them! UGH! My brake pads lasted 142,000 miles by staying off them until needed and the rotors are still smooth as a Teflo…
by 888eatme88838replies2,059viewsCum Ice Cubes
I have a swingers party idea involving cum ice cubes for the willing ladies. Good idea? Bad idea?
by Willy6000028replies2,052views- 43replies2,047views
Fake Profiles and Feedback.
I know of a SM that occasionally posts in the forums who’s main (and possibly only) picture is of him in a suit. He has ALOT if certs and, though I’ve never met him, I know he’s l…
20replies2,029viewsThe end of the fora?
So curiosity got the best of me and I downloaded the app and guess what is conspicuously absent from the menu. Forums. Care to weigh in here Wayne and let us know if SLS plans to…
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The Lifestyle and STDs - some newb questions
My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and we're wondering how common of an issue STDs are, and how you go about keeping yourself safe from this kind of thing. Any advice from ve…
20replies1,943viewsProfile Names
I don't know if this has been asked before but thought it would be fun to ask " How did you come up with your profile name"? I'll go first; Look at my profile, I'm a big girl who…
by BBWinVenice35replies1,925viewsSLS is undergoing upgrades
...members may experience some downtime throughout the day. Deja Vu all over again. ~Scamp
26replies1,908viewsWhat's a swinger?
Was bored a few nights ago and browsing through old threads. Found one where a guy basically stated that singles really can't be considered swingers. The guy pretty much got hamme…
34replies1,896viewsShifting Baseline Syndrome
I recently viewed a video that was put out by an airline pilot. I found it interesting and agree with it. How many of you remember after 9/11 when the government started the TSA?…
61replies1,893viewsDo you open Photo Gallery when you
I would think that they wouldn't know that you opened your gallery unless you told them or they just happened to go look.
27replies1,891views15 things I have learned in 10 years on these forums.
These 10 years have been quite a journey. It will be a while before I can say whether it has genuinely added to our lives, or taken a toll on them. As for these forums, and making…
by pixie_lust27replies1,882viewsWhat is up with the IM feature
Have msg that says reconnection, Is that feature down are they ( the site ) working on it.
34replies1,865viewsGet It Off Your Chest
You know what? Sometimes you just have to get things off your chest. It doesn't matter if doing so solves or even complicates the problem, you just have to "Get It Off Your Chest.…
by Garp7834replies1,864viewsWhat ever happpened to
It is inevitable that forum members will drop from the ranks for various reasons. Recently someone was asking in the Ukraine topic what ever happened to HFT and heard a rumor he d…
by mayhem843replies1,864viewsNaming your dick?
Just wobdering how many men name their dicks? Do you reference that name alot? And ladies do you like it or no? Have a guy who named his dick and references it like a third person…
by gary76728replies1,859viewsMask and Swingers
We have had a few "Fun Times" in the past 6 months, we are not mask wearers in general, unless forced to. But really had some good laughs with people we have played with that wore…
by suzyque341replies1,858viewsObservation
When "Games" and "Politics" and this forum have the most posts, you know most on here are tire kickers and basement dwellers. We're here for swinging. Find another venue to talk t…
by calcanfun257replies1,856viewsPicking swingers out of a crowd
I'm kind of proud of my swingdar, I pick out a SLS couple out of a crowd the other night!
13replies1,855views[LOCKED]Where did they all go to .??
Are they something that only the older swingers know? What are they? Why they are called 'Manners' Everyone had them and they used them. It was a sign of maturity, of self respect…
by dragonrapide31replies1,843viewsTHE NEW UPGRADE IS HERE! THE NEW UPGRADE IS HERE!
June 20, 2018 SLS will undergo maintenance which may cause users to experience intermittent outages between the hours of 6:00am & 10:00am eastern time. We appreciate your patience…
by pixie_lust22replies1,842viewshappy thanksgiving 2018
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Wishing you safe travels and beautiful memories. :)
21replies1,838viewsProfiles without any quality pictures of the man.
This has probably been covered but since we're new to the site we wanted to ask. Why are there so many profiles out there that only show pics of the woman? Thks
34replies1,827viewsPegging
Welcome to the forums. Nothing says we're ready to swan dive into this shitshow like, "What's your favorite dildo?"
by pixie_lust23replies1,825viewsWhy do all comments disappear?
It appears that if someone that started a thread blocks you it removes all of you comments on that thread. We are still here and still have opinion even if they disagree with your…
50replies1,824viewsURGENT: SLS web access security from unauthorized others
You may have noticed that the architecture of this site is circa early 1990s so one would imagine their security protocols are similarly outdated. ~S~
20replies1,824viewsGratitude: What are you grateful for today?
What are you grateful for today? We'll start. We are most grateful to--and for--each other. Yes, we are grateful for every sunrise. We are even more grateful for being able to sha…
37replies1,823viewsOn This Date In History
Name something that happened on this date in history. Sports, music, entertainment, famous births or deaths, science, war event, political event, etc. If you were alive, do you re…
by 8inchcable36replies1,823viewsUp ones ass
As a medic I am never surprised as to what people shove up their asses, and why. Things like cucumber, fat handle hairbrushes, bottles, and once even a potato which required surge…
39replies1,810viewsUnauthorized Pic Taking
I met a couple off here and we agreed to meet yesterday Friday. To be fair we did not discuss much in terms of what will take place but when I got there, after showeingband all, I…
by SJElite201923replies1,801viewsLying
why does it seem so many people in the lifestyle lie? Why can't people just be honest Things people lie about and its not necessary Their weight Their couple status Their interest…
37replies1,800viewsDeep Thoughts
So, I have been pondering a lot of things since deciding to participate in the Lifestyle. Is anyone interested in having a discussion that goes deeper into the psychology of this…
by Stell737838replies1,793views
