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No interracial .
Most couples who state they won’t play with other “races” are Caucasian... I imagine there’s a man with a tiny pecker afraid of losing the game they start. I think the male feels…
46replies3,255viewsIs the lifestyle aging out?
Younger people are using different apps. Many are not on SLS at all.
by cacpl_2661replies3,250viewsStimulus Money, Round 2
I got an electronic payment over the weekend which went green Mon morning. Have you gotten your second checks yet? What do you plan on doing with it? Think we'll see a 3rd or 4th…
by 8inchcable68replies3,238viewsPIcky and selective
There's nothing wrong with being picky, or selective (to use the milder term), and don't let anyone tell you different. Just be realistic about what that means. No matter what cri…
by sorillo100047replies3,198viewsHas anyone fallen in love
With a couple MMF FFM MMMF FFFFM Seriously Any love that makes swingers looks good even for reality tv star’s
43replies3,195viewsMFM in a hotel
What is the best to initiate the encounter when you all are socializing in a hotel room before playing. What do u all do?
22replies3,183viewsAll natural women
Not trying to start a conversation about what people prefer, shaved or unshaved, that is your choice and please save it for another thread. What I am trying to find out is if ther…
39replies3,178viewsWhat is the craziest thing you have heard today?
the day is early, just watching some of the other threads I am sure you will see some crazy stuff... funniest part however is what some call crazy, if you look deep enough there i…
81replies3,172viewsOdd Meetup
Had an odd first meet with a local couple. We met at a restaurant, first impression not good, the hubby did not acknowledge us at the front door just ran in to get a table leaving…
by Wyocpl776560replies3,136viewsThat time I was an asshole
What's the worst thing you ever did to someone that you'd care to admit to on an internet forum? When I was about 11 some kid really pissed me off. I don't remember what he did, b…
88replies3,125viewsUpdating photos on profile.
Why is it that people do not update their photos? What are some of the reasons that you might have? I personally update my photos once a month in my book there is no excuse we all…
75replies3,041viewsBest swinger movies
On Amazon Prime, just search for ‘swingers’ there quite a few. The obvious classic “Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice”
by Fokkers43replies3,021viewsHow would you classify my wife?
I'll start off by saying that I know labels are nothing more than labels. We should never judge ourselves by labels. That being said, in our lifestyle we are often asked to descri…
38replies2,775viewsDo people not read profiles before contacting????
Partially because I am curious - why do people not read profiles before contacting? Or if they read a profile and see that they are NOT a match, why do they think they are the exc…
by nekkid146replies2,748viewsPanties or commando?
Wife here. During the Spring and summer, I love to go commando all the time. Sometimes I flash a guy here and there, and I love seeing his expression of surprise. If I go dancing,…
by starry_night29replies2,716views- 48replies2,705views
2021 Bitch of the Day
Because it's the end of March and it's time to move on.
42replies2,704viewsAttending a swinger event- bring a dish- what do you bring?
I both host and attend house parties with the standard “Bring a dish”. When someone beats me to the sign up list with veggie or cheese/cracker platter- I’m lost! What is a simple…
52replies2,684viewsRESORT SAFETY
We have been to a couple resorts in Mexico: Hidden Beach and Desire RM. HB discourages LS activity. Desire was very classy and you could find plenty of LS people. We are consideri…
66replies2,679viewsAre threads disappearing for a reason, or just a house cleaning?
We're relatively new to the forums and have enjoyed reading through some of the older posts. Today, many are gone. Is this normal?
by dreamsofdirt56replies2,635viewsAnal virgin here. How would you prep yourself and your partner for first time anal? What to expect the first time?.
I have been very curious to try it but haven't found the right partner yet
by koolfriend141replies2,602viewsPierced nips, yeah or nay .
I've been pondering the thought of piercing just one nipple, concerns about it are, is it more fun to suck on a pierced nipple or does it make it more difficult. Open to people's…
by sexylulous6632replies2,583viewsAll things motor vehicles
Was going to put this in BF, but last time I posted anything about cars it damn near took over the topic, so made this topic instead. Got a call from my daughter that her 2017 Chr…
by mayhem895replies2,564viewsMy husband won't let me fuck another man . Any suggestions?
Welcome.. sorry if you two are not on the same page , swinging is not for you. This is not a one sided situation unless that is okay for you. If not it will end badly and from our…
by RonKathy30replies2,555viewsNYC Swingers club raided
Caligula’s was raided this weekend and fines were imposed for no conformance too covid regulations implemented by the city and State .
by coolguy15043replies2,540viewsHas anybody ever had sex with a deaf woman?
Sincere replies only please. I've been chatting with a beautiful deaf woman and have given this a lot of thought and it turns me on thinking about what it would be like in the bed…
by Intodirt48replies2,533viewsBest Sex Age
Just read an article on my news feed that said The 2018 Singles in America report—based on a survey of 5,000 singles of all ages, ethnicities, and income levels across the U.S—fou…
25replies2,524viewsCannabis and sex
We love cannabis . It makes everything better including sex . Doo you smoke or consume while having fun with other couples ! Or singles
37replies2,491viewsGeneral porn topic
This is sort of a catch all for porn in general. Along those lines I'd be interested to hear what sorts of things people like or dislike about porn in general, and how has that ch…
by mayhem846replies2,485viewsSpelling and grammar, or, How I learned to love proofreading
I think a lot of people would equate poor spelling, punctuation, and grammar with a lower level of education. I disagree. I think the people with the worst writing skills are simp…
by Ekserb251replies2,480viewsWhen is a No-Response a Response
So this complaint comes up in the forums all the time. Some believe you should respond to all messages and some do not. For those of you that believe that a no-response is a respo…
by sls_WayneC46replies2,475viewsBees
A fellow member got kinda beat up for attempting to start a discussion on a couple of topics they are interested in. It was all in the hope that folks of a similar interest could…
31replies2,475viewsNicest Car You Ever Had
In going through old pictures I came across my first car. A 1981 Chrysler Imperial Frank Sinatra Edition. Fully loaded with all options as standard. Lots of great memories and the…
by LaFrack64replies2,462viewsFeeling Cum Shooting Inside?
I know this is a funny question, but forgive my ignorance, but ladies can you actually feel the cum shoot inside you? Does it just feel hot and wet, or do you actually feel the sp…
by grecomike21replies2,453viewsPlay time talk
A while ago, someone had indicated that the forums used to have a lot of posting activity around people recounting their LS adventures, especially after a weekend. I also see a nu…
by mayhem855replies2,436views- 59replies2,391views
First timer regret!?
My husband and I just recently had our first Mmf encounter. It went pretty good but we had a little communication trouble and in the end. The next day was rough and now he can’t s…
39replies2,374viewsHow hard is it to find a unicorn at a swinger club
I am not from Miami, but visiting in September, I am looking for a first time experience, but have no interest in other men, so if my husband and I were to check out the local swi…
by Blondebabe8448replies2,370viewsIs there an adjective .
Is there an adjective that means a woman that enjoys sex, that has a positive connotation?
by az_couple_6932replies2,347viewsLong term SLS members, ZERO certs
Good evening all! Quick question....Do any of ya'll automatically discount members as "fakes" if they've been on the site for years (we've seen 10++ years) and have no certs? It a…
35replies2,336viewsFake Profiles
What do any of you do when you discover someone has contacted you and they are fake? What I mean by fake is someone pretending to be a couple, or the person (guy) is someone from…
24replies2,331viewsZoom sex party
Has anyone thought about hosting a ZOOM video conferencing sex party? Reason I ask is because our family had like a virtual family reunion last night and to be honest it was a lot…
by shallwedare27replies2,311viewsIs swinging illegal or something?
So I live outside a small city (pop: 1800) and the analogy they use is "if you fart, neighbor at the end of the street knows what it smells like before you". I live not in the cit…
35replies2,298viewsCars and trucks
Last time I mentioned cars it kind of took over the topic, so figured it could use its own. The Mrs car (Lincoln MKX) died with a bad alternator. With 177K miles, that happens. Th…
by mayhem882replies2,291views- 25replies2,289views
Cruel shit you did to an Ex spouse, BF, GF
What's some cruel or petty shit you did to an Ex spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend? Or REAL STORIES heard in the news I know the "screwed their best friend" stories will be abundant.
by 8inchcable27replies2,276viewsHeroes
Who are you heroes? More specifically, who do you look up to and admire for what they do for the world? I have a few, although only one is likely to be known to anyone here... and…
39replies2,272viewsYour Profession
Without going into detail unless you want to. I'm a RN for a Hospital and recently found out a co-worker is on SLS. This lead me to put this question out there. Please let us know…
46replies2,252viewsBlack rings
We were reading that swingers may often wear a black ring on their right ring finger to let other swingers know they are also swingers. It’s sort of a code in the vanilla world. J…
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