Straight, Bi, or Bi curious

Not much my wife hasn’t done when it comes to playing with other women when the situation was positive and the mood struck. It’s just she really prefers men and probably 95% of the time she doesn’t go below the waist.

Hey! You gotta make your own boxes, I'm busy putting everyone into the ones I made!

I can always laugh at myself first, stress will kill ya!

I’m bisexual. I’m also situational. I’m hetero-situational and Homo-situational.

I don’t fuck just anyone. The situation, personality and sexual attraction have to be right.

In that case I guess I should say I’m asexual and in a later discussion reveal I’m sexual-situational?

~rabbit~

We're that couple, neither of us are interested in male-male play. So if in conversation the straight guy expresses that he's ok with sucking my cock but there's no need to reciprocate because he's not really bi there's no possibility that any play is going to happen, simply because it gives the question of "what else are they not telling us?"

Straight guys don't suck other guys cocks, not at all, not in the heat of the moment, not if it's really big or perfectly shaped. If you say you're straight 95% of the time, you're not straight. If you think about it and might occasionally try it under the right circumstances, it's fair to say you're curious. To deny it is deceptive.

I'm straight. If a guy tries to touch my cock, I'm not curious to see if I might like it, there's no interest whatsoever. To borrow Scamp's analogy: I'm not interested in putting a turd in my mouth to see if I'm into scat, I already know that I'm not. It doesn't need to be proven or disproved.

Conversely, if you think about it occasionally and have had someone shit in your mouth, once when you were kinda drunk at a party and then once when things got really hot, you're into scat.

I like my world where I can put things in their category when it comes to what I allow in my sexual realm. People that want to blur the lines because they believe they know me better than I do create issues, I don't need issues.

I call myself "situationaly bi" . I play straight 90% of the time but If the situation is right and the guy is right I don't mind a little oral bi play. I will not though tag myself in our profile as anything but straight. A lot of couples won't even consider you if the male half is anything but straight so I just leave that for a later conversation.

This by VaBeachCouple33 sounds right “ It's been explained to you. Everyone here realizes that "curious" means something specific. But since it's the only choice offered between Straight and Bi, it is forced to stand in for all of the in-between situations”.

We are all on a spectrum. So if you’re not exclusively hetero or homo and not really bi (equally attracted to both sexes) then all that’s left is curious.

I have bi-curious selected because quite honestly there is no other label that I feel suits me. Bi-picky or bi-selective is more accurate. There are few women that I've met that I feel any sexual chemistry with. If I don't have any sexual connection with them, I like some people, I'm more than happy to "ruin the party" with boundaries. Same with guys. If there's no sexual chemistry, it's not happening.

I only know that if you're curious ,that means you've thought about it.bi means you're like me and however you got ahold of it you love a dick in your ass as much as having yours in a pussy.am I wrong? Only thing else I know is that I love being fucked by another man then going home to my wife

They should add Homophobic to the list of choices......... OR Wait how about people writing better profiles and READING them....

It's been explained to you. Everyone here realizes that "curious" means something specific. But since it's the only choice offered between Straight and Bi, it is forced to stand in for all of the in-between situations.

It appears the word CURIOUS has been redefined by the respondents and no one notified the various dictionary sources.

In bold PG, just awaiting your confirmation.

;^D

~S~

While I can fully understand the dates that Lady is going to be there being in permanent ink, I sort of hope the dates I will be there are at least penciled in lightly.

"It depends on the girl and situation"

that's how it is with me. i really have to be attracted to the girl for something to happen

Now, now my lovely Lady. Flattery will get you everywhere.

I still remember when the asshat contingent first met you and the Tramp for drinks.

You kept stroking mr legs and exclaiming over how soft my skin was. You made this little bunny blush.

Nothing quite like being a bi bunny and having a hot straight chick showing some mighty suggestive appreciation.

I have the date of your next visit marked in permanent ink on my calendar ...

~rabbit~

As is usual, someone comes storming in here ranting and raving and then doesn't hang around to read the replies.

Look at the "Are Any Men Interested?" thread in the BBW section. People are still replying to the OP 6 years after they made their one and only forum rant.

Agreed PG! It depends on the girl and situation. Rabbit is definitely one of those situations. ;^*

Rabbit hit the nail on the head with her statement about the options on here to check off being very limited, not that they could have an option for everyone but bi- situational or bi-receptive would be a good addition. I was 95% straight 95% of the time. There are a few ladies that I would do a bit of light play with, and believe me if they are one of the few, they will know it.

"But that's just me....maybe I'm a little Rab-Bi"

L'chaim. ;-)

Go Rabbit. I've never had that happen, but if it ever does, I'll be sure to have a large bus handy.

And then don't forget there are those that are only bi-curious when in the room with you my rabbit ;^O

But that's just me....maybe I'm a little Rab-Bi

Let's not forget the men that list their female partners as bi or bicurious. I doubt the women know about it either.

We've hooked up with at least 2 couples that had the woman listed as some sort of bi. One couple we had drinks with then went to a LS club. I was getting no gaydar vibe at all so I asked her, as we were all heading to a playroom, if she was bi. She stated "No". I looked at her husband then at her and said, "huh, weird, HE has you listed as bi. No big deal. I just need to know where my boundaries are". She gave him a rather spleen stabby look.

In hindsight I would have loved to string the guy along while Scamp had fun with his wife but I didn't. That old hindsight=20/20 thing.

Another couple that had her listed as some sort of bi brought us back to their hotel. We were playing in separate beds and the husband told me that she would love it if I played with her boobs while Scamp was fucking her. I'm always happy to oblige a nice set of breasts so I dove in.

She noticed after a few moments and made it clear she was unhappy about it.

I returned to the separate bed and kept the husband at bay while saying I really wanted to watch she and Scamp. He was the unhappy one then.

I did tell her after we were done that it was his idea.

Another couple we met at a club. He told me it was his (very hot) girlfriend's birthday and she would love it if I just forced myself between her legs and went down on her.

I went over to where she was sitting, wished her happy birthday and asked her if she wanted me to go down on her. (Not my exact words)

She absolutely, positively did not!

I went back to Scamp and told him what the boyfriend and she said.

Scamp went over to wish her happy birthday and then threw the boyfriend under the bus by telling her what he said.

They left shortly after that.

Either you're gay, bi, bi receptive, bi curious OR heterosexual. Those boundaries can change over time BUT in the moment is when it matters.

And let's not forget attraction. I've had plenty of "straight women" groping me. Apparently they liked what I have to offer.

Attraction is the key. I don't fuck every bi woman I meet because there might not be an attraction. Same as I don't fuck every man.

If ever someone was to say to us, "Scamp, prove your straight or rabbit prove you're bi" we would laugh at them

~rabbit~

Mrs is not bi or bi curios. She is very straight but does let women touch her during group sex because she does not want to ruin the party.

"Folks here is what Bi curious really means. You have NOT played with someone of the same sex but have thought about it and are at least mildly interested in it."

Yeah. No. First, you don't get to define how people self identify. Second, you're just wrong.

Sexual preference is a spectrum that runs from strictly homosexual to strictly heterosexual (and, yes, I'm leaving out other markers like asexuality, not because they don't matter but because those markers aren't germane to this discussion), with a stop in the center for bisexual. Sexual preference and sexual behavior overlap, but they aren't quite the same thing.

Out of that wide spectrum of choices, SLS gives you straight, bi-curious and bisexual.

I've long thought that many of the women in the lifestyle who identify as bi are actually closer to heteroflexible or at least my inner gaydar, which is usually reliable, says they're not bi. But catch me telling someone else how to identify. Besides, it's a useful designator, since gives information about what they're willing to do if the attraction is there (see above about sexual behavior). Bi-curious seems to indicate a lesser interest in w/w play than "bi."

Some number of men who identify on SLS as straight vastly prefer women but are willing to suck a cock now and again in the right circumstances. Ditto for some of the men who identify as bi-curious. I've seen any number of posts insisting those men should identify as bi, even though I doubt the vast majority of them see a guy and say, "Oh, hot guy." It's a situational thing and the designator they choose probably has as much to do with how they feel about the disapproval of bisexual behavior in men as it does with their identity.

Until SLS broadens the number of categories (which will be approximately never), there are just three and people get to decide for themselves where they fit. Anyone who insists they know what should go into that choice is just being an ass and not thinking things through.

Personally, I list myself as "bi-curious" because I prefer men, but am not opposed to be touching and playing with a woman without going "full bi". I have had that experience and loved it, but to do it again would have to be with a very special lady. There is no place to check off " Bi friendly".

Its the herd thing. People do whatever is cool to be part of the herd.