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Swinger signs!!!!!!

Thornton, CO, Us

"huge increase in sexually transmitted diseases." What the hell, go for it. When they die they "can't take it with them".

Charles Town, WV, Us

‘#3) Find the public notice board

#4) Post one of those notes with the tear off phone numbers (using the burner number)

#5) Notice should read "Bob and Carol looking for Ted and Alice". ‘

We replied to one of those post-it notes, we saw at an adult store billboard a few years back, to a couple that was fairly close to us. We get along great, became close and hang with them pretty regularly now.

~Allen

Lancaster, PA, Us

Ron/Kathy....i had always heard that about the Villages but I recently read something that completely debunked that as a myth/urban legend.

SLOtownerVeteran
San Luis Obispo, CA, Us

“Have you ever thought about joining a swingers website where you can meet other like minded couples ? A website where you can email other people. One where you have communication to be able to meet face-to-face.”

C’mon, Constant!

Quit holding out on us! Post a link! OH....! Excuse Me! Can’t do that here! grrr.

SLO

Milton, FL, Us

Have you ever thought about joining a swingers website where you can meet other like minded couples ?
A website where you can email other people. One where you have communication to be able to meet face-to-face.

Lumberton, NJ, Us

#1) Get a burner phone

#2) Go to the community rec center

#3) Find the public notice board

#4) Post one of those notes with the tear off phone numbers (using the burner number)

#5) Notice should read "Bob and Carol looking for Ted and Alice"

#6) If anyone calls ask them what they want with Bob and Carol

WOW..... yes it is difficult to determine who is and is not a swinger while just browsing in public. I wear a black ring on and off, no one has approached me yet. Maybe if someone in the lifestyle knew what the black ring meant, they might respond. I have asked several swingers do you know what the black ring stands for, they had no idea. Would be nice if there was a piece of jewelry that " stuck out," and let other swingers know for sure that we are in the lifestyle. Short of a tattoo on our forehead I have no idea what would indicate we are in the lifestyle. We live in a retirement community and we have been told there are swingers in our community. We have no idea who they are but with 2000 population there has to be a few into the lifestyle. If anyone has any good ideas how to advertise or to overtly let people know we are interested please post your ideas here.

Sandy Springs, GA, Us

There are no signs.
Go to places where swingers congregate, odds are high that those who are there are swingers. Not 100%. But high.
Places where swingers congregate: websites, clubs, meet and greets, house parties, hotel takeovers, excursions (e.g. cruises).
Ignore: upside down pineapples, pampas grass, multiple flamingos, black rings, ankle bracelets (unless they have an explicit message) and so on.

Bethlehem, PA, Us

I see that SLS just added logo pendants and hats for sale....

Other than that, the pineapple thing and a colored porch light bulb is about all I've read/head about.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Nice shopping cart, Yea!

BT

New Orleans, LA, Us

Time to find a new grocery store...

BT

I’ve been looking for a woman who might allow me to put my pineapple in her shopping cart...upside down OR right side up. -Not picky in that regard ;-)

San Jose, CA, Us

Last week I stuck a pineapple in my wife's shopping cart, upside down. (The pineapple, not the cart.) I went off another direction for about half an hour. She got no questions, no looks, and no offers.

Lancaster, PA, Us

Ouch, copnkitten. Does it hurt to have that additional post? Hard to be forum-perfect. They admitted to being new, is that good enough to cut them a break?

Fresno, CA, Us

I find that the best way to identify a swinger couple is if she drops to her knees and starts sucking my cock while he looks on and tells her "you should go faster, honey".

To be serious for a moment, I'm thinking that it's best if you CAN'T identify swingers in a vanilla setting. I mean, if you suspect that a couple swings, do you go up to them at WalMart and tell the guy "I'd like to fuck your wife"??? Even if they do swing, that's a good way to take a trip to the ER. The only reason to want to ID the swingers in vanilla settings is to make an approach (which is dangerous if you're not in a lifestyle-friendly environment) or to creepily stare at them in the grocery store, thinking about how she's freaky in bed.

Charles Town, WV, Us

The OP should do a field study and report back with his findings.

~Allen

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Here are two clues:

1) You meet them at a swing club. Not 100%, because some just go to watch or be watched, but chances are good;

2) They have an active profile on a swinger website and have at least one cert.

Other than that, there are no signs. People keep posting new threads asking if there are though. ;-)

CopNkittenVeteran
Phila, PA, Us
  1. there are about 20 threads on this
  1. there are no swinger signs. ask them. yes some say black rings etc. but not everyone wearing a black ring is a swinger
  1. we didn't really need 2 more threads on this subject
San Antonio, TX, Us

Hi! So I’m new to this and was curious if anyone had any insight of clues if ya person is a swinger! I heard pinapples but I’d like to know what everyone says!!