Unauthorized Pic Taking

You're welcome and congrats on your fun time with others.

~Allen

Thank you to all who have taught me in this area of the LS

I am presently in Florida. Met a couple and after establishing initial interest, I told them of my experience and stated my new found rules regarding pics. They were also fairly new to the LS and thanked me for teaching them..lol. Needless to say, a fun night was had by all.

"If it ever happens again, which am sure it wont cause have learnt my lesdon, would definetely walk away! Yup...walk away from pussy....like a boss lol'

I have done that multiple times, for various reasons. It always leads to more future pussy. Though at the time you do it, the word boss isn't what they think of you. lol

When playing with another couple, and we want some pictures taken, I’ll give the husband or wife my phone so they can take the pictures. This way, they can keep their spouse’s face out of the frame, and they can delete any “oops”.

Yeah, fo sure..

My dick will strangle me after though lol

That’s right, SJE, show that pussy who’s boss!

:-D

~Allen

If it ever happens again, which am sure it wont cause have learnt my lesdon, would definetely walk away! Yup...walk away from pussy....like a boss lol

“ then that they showed me they were deleted from the deleted folder as well”

Bingo! I was waiting a while for that one.

~Allen

We always discuss whether or not we allow them. Especially today, since you can take videos on your phones. We never post pics with partners faces showing, are very careful about how we handle them if we do take pics. It's something that should always be discussed first we think. There's a video of me floating around the web, it was from a hotel party, we believe we know who did it. He must have sneaked a cell phone in. Not happy about that at all.

Oh if you could see my personal pics...

I instinctively knew it was not right cause of privacy but I didnt force the issue because I felt no face pics were taken and i hve no tatoos or distinguishing marks. Still though the replies from others havereally opened my eyes and helped me for the future

I would have loved it.....

I would have been pissed.

I like pics, and especially want them if the wife plays solo. I always ask first. But, I have to share my favorite response when I asked a guy if he minded if there were pics. He said, "I don't care if you do an oil painting!" Ha ha! (you know who you are!)

Hi. I'm just adding to the chorus saying they should have asked. Not everyone gets that their thirds are real people with real privacy concerns and sometimes people are just rude as fuck, so you can either address it in your profile as is already suggested (something along the lines of being fine with photo taking and you'll discuss your limits if you get to that point) or prior to meeting.

I/we take photos but I always tell people before we meet.

He should have asked permission. Period. We always ask guys (and couples) if they mind pics and respect their wishes.

If it concerns you going forward, I suggest you add a note to your profile how you would like it handled. No pics. No face pics. Express your wishes up front and enjoy the journey.

~Scamp

I texted him after to say if i can have the pics too. No reply yet

Lol@Ellen. No pussy did not get better of me. I didn't stop coz i did a quick mental evaluation. He started taking pics wwhen i was eating her out, face buried deep in her, etc so i knew face was covered. He stopped when i came up but i could tell thats what happened. Later he took your more private parts closeups- dick going in, etc.
And thanks everyone so much for your replies. Have highlighted things I had never even thought of. Definetely wiser now.

Communication is critical - you cannot assume anything. People have very different ideas of what is acceptable.

Before you parted I hope you were able to see the pictures and request deletion of any you were uncomfortable with.

For the future you can either be sure to speak about pictures when you meet and/or add a note to your profile - if picture taking is OK, what cannot be in the shot (face or tattoos), ability to review and request deletion, how they can be used (personal viewing or posting on Internet), etc.

Or he should have asked before taking them.

As for the face showing concern, never, always blurred faces and tattoos unless they request a set of themselves unblurred, then I will gladly oblige a set with their face unblurred but our would be.

OP: What was your reaction? Did you stop play over your concern or did her vagina get the best of you to let him?

~Allen

The guy made an assumption. The possibility of pics should have been discussed even before meeting.

Does.seem to be an ethics violation to snap pics without permission.

I met a couple off here and we agreed to meet yesterday Friday. To be fair we did not discuss much in terms of what will take place but when I got there, after showeingband all, I began to play with the wife. It was clear the guybwanted to see the wife with another guy and he would join in later which was fine by me.
But in the midst of me playing with her he began to take pics! Like I said, not much had been discussed before but I expected at least the courtesy of him asking. It was in a hotel room with heavy drapes so it was dark and I knew my face, etc was not showing but am curious to know if anyone else has encountered this and what you did.
I have only been less than a week on the site but that definetely was a learning moment.