Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
does anyone like black guys on this site
I am sure if you read forums, groups, and profiles you will find them.
196replies22,001viewsThis site is full of fakes,flakes bullshitters and liars
We've not met one single couple on this stupid site that didn't pull some sort of bullshit... Not one, they fucking vanish like a fart in the godamn wind or they don't reply or ma…
198replies18,404viewsDoes anyone NOT shave their pubes bald?
Does anyone (couple or female) NOT shave their pubes bald? Seems every couple or female we meet does. We were once with a couple whom did and neither of us (wife or I) liked. We r…
by NOVA_FWB80replies8,571viewsDoes anyone else find it hard to find local playmates?
We live in a small town and there are a few couples in the area that are on the sls site. But the problem that we have is that they want talk or try to even give you a chance. My…
by RedandPJ3059replies6,943viewsAnyone enjoy their wife dating other men and coming home and telling you about
My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for quite some time we're always looking to push the boundaries currently we're looking to open our relationship and go out with other peo…
by Cnk052633replies6,143viewsBullshitters .
Many of these swing sites have a ton of bullshitters due to the nature and privacy of the lifestyle. Just out of your experience can you share some of your bullshit stories of how…
by BruuceWayne62replies5,850viewsAre we in the minority
We've been in the lifestyle now for a few months. And we been looking to add friends with the additional benefit of swinging. We aren't looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend experien…
24replies4,832viewsAge Gap
Hello all! My questions to the group is: has anyone ever had issues or difficulties with an extreme age gap between yourself and your swinging partner? How did those issues work t…
41replies4,639viewsHow hard is it to find a 4-way connection?
We see this a lot and someone commented recently in another thread about how hard it is to find a 4-way connection. We played with newbies one time and didn't realize we were thei…
by mayhem838replies4,449views- 25replies4,222views
3some
We never would of thought that finding a female for a 3some would be hard. Not looking for a life long commitment just a few hours of fun time. Single guys are no problem in findi…
14replies4,172viewsSwinger symbology
Hey fellow swingers. I've recently been pondering about identifying our kind while out in public. I realize that it can be quite lonely being the only couple thinking the way we d…
by GunzNBoltz31replies3,887views- 21replies3,412views
Finding a fuck buddy
I know it should be easy, being in the lifestyle, but it's not. My hot lady has 4 fuck buddies and wants me to have one or more...I like that idea also. But...being painfully shy…
by midagehippie20replies3,327viewsHotel take-overs
Went to our first one this past weekend. It was fun, but not something we'd personally be in a hurry to go back to. We went with friends and the majority of our play time was with…
by mayhem816replies3,182viewsPics of the Mister
We want to hear from couples that don't put any, or put innocuous pics of the mister up? We are both straight, do the draw for us is the opposite sex. This seems to be the norm, a…
by TotesMaGoats19replies3,056viewsDoes open minded mean bi?
Relatively new to the site, trying create a better profile and understand profiles of others. Frequently i see it mentioned that the couple is very open minded. I believe that mea…
by kinkiez26replies2,943viewsDo the Black Rings ever work?
Okay, we've been in the lifestyle long enough now and each have a black ring we wear on our right have ring fingers. We don't wear them every day, but whenever we think we may hav…
11replies2,927viewsLooking impossible ground for Single straight male
I am not new to this lifestyle but definitely new to this website. Talking to different people everyday, updated profile and pictures as much as I can by maintaining 100% honesty…
31replies2,913viewsOverweight
How can you meet couples that you are attracted to, when your overweight. It seems like people see we are overweight and they pass. They don't give us a chance to get to know us.…
10replies2,837viewsAre there any guys who have experience hosting gangbangs?
We have a gangbang fantasy that we are exploring and I asked for help on another forum. Someone suggested there were guys who do this regularly. That they could host a gangbang ex…
by FunInMidwest14replies2,667viewsNo players on the playing field
So we are new to this and we've met a few cool people on here but for the most part there is nobody that wants to play there's a big filled out there with no players but us please…
39replies2,627viewsDoes the lifestyle have different fractions?
I'm still new here and there is something I noticed that most people here have in common and I'm just wondering if it is only common on this site, or is it the way most people in…
by Ymichael1447replies2,507viewsGeneral tips for finding potential playmates
Thought this may be helpful as there are a couple things I do that I haven't really noticed being mentioned. Should be common sense, but.... I will look at couples that RSVP to lo…
by mayhem815replies2,366viewsLong Time on SLS and no certs - red flag?
We are new to the site and trying to understand the lay of the land... We are primarily interested in couples but may entertain a single male on occasion to ... ahem... test our m…
27replies2,350viewsAge preferences
Is it wrong to reach out if your are older ( within 5 years or less) than someone’s listed desired age range?
by curious_sims16replies2,284viewsLooking for Regular Bull for my wife
We live in Raleigh NC, and I am attempting to find a regular bull for my hotwife. We are looking for a discreet, clean, fit and handsome, guy that has a large cock. Length needs t…
by Jvwildcpl5replies2,262views- 13replies2,257views
Why quality better than quantity when it comes to swinging?
Most people we have encountered in the LS have been for quality friendships versus quantity in sex. In Kansas at least we see this as a trend and that has made us love being in th…
26replies2,112viewsPenis size
I have a 5” penis with ok girth. Now my question is- should I feel weird about size on here? It seems all women want big?
by Call997replies2,043viewsJust for Dinner?
Saw an ad for Just for Dinner Wondering if anyone has attended their events, and how they are. thanks!
21replies2,039viewsContacting potential dates
Guys we have talked before.. stop blaming those on SLS it is just one avenue to swinging and a small one..get out to clubs, events and parties.. by this time one would think you w…
by RonKathy18replies2,018viewsI have a problem
Not sure what I am looking for ...mainly to blow off some steam, I guess. Until not long ago, I was always able to attract lovers. But...mother nature has NOT been so jkind to me…
by midagehippie18replies1,924viewsPineapples
Hey fellow swingers. I was curious about how far and wide the "pineapple" usage spreads. A little background...here in NC, a pineapple sticker symbolizes that you are a swinger or…
by GunzNBoltz6replies1,900viewsFantasy, my husband and 3women
I'm finding it really hard to find two other women to join me and my man to make his 3some fantasy come true, him and 3women. Do you have any advice?
11replies1,889viewsThings that are a big turn off in general
I could have sworn we already had a topic for this, but if we do, I can't find it. I think the one I remember was "words that turn you off", but this isn't just words in this case…
by mayhem813replies1,883viewsConvincing Friends to Swap
We have been talking about swapping with Close friends how do we start this ?
by lickerman358replies1,865viewsFree members
Hi there, I have a question! I would like to contact a few free members but I’ve read that free members can’t read messages. How do you contact them then? Please advise! Thanks,
by SwingerinChi10replies1,766viewsBang for your buck
When it comes to parties, do other people besides me even consider the "bang for the buck" factor? The thing that made me think about this is a conversation I had online on anothe…
by mayhem815replies1,741viewsWhen should we disclose??
Here is a question about disclosure. Both Nin a& I are visually impaired. At what point in the courting does everyone think we should disclose this? On one extreme one couple we m…
12replies1,714viewsEver been Led by flaky women?
So I have a dilemma and need as much advice as possible!!! (Not to say that these women were mentally flaky but not straight up honest and flaked on who claimed to be) I’ve wanted…
17replies1,712viewsHOUSE PARTIES
"Yes my wife should have not played with the men and leave me sit there alone, but that happened... Again this is our final party as I am DAM tired of supplying my wife for other…
14replies1,654viewsI apparently attract crazy, uncommunicative weirdos
Had the following exchange with a SF who approached me this morning. Late 50s, one sentence in each part of her profile, a single public photo of her hair. That's it, just her hai…
by sorillo100014replies1,636viewsWhy
Why is so hard to find people that won't flake on you? We spent 1 week setting up a meet this morning with 3 guys. They were anxious to get the chance to fuck her. Now, this morni…
by Fwb3176821replies1,609viewsBig fluffy dad bod type here
ladies and gentlemen just want to say ?? figure ill try a forum post. Looking to start some friendships on here so when the covid cover up is over we can hang out. Or for those ri…
by Xjayxx20replies1,567viewsWhat to say when contacting someone ???
Well after we have been in this for over six years, and not getting the responses we would expect. We feel it is past time to ask for advice again. We are wondering what couples s…
by MNJFLA13replies1,553views- 6replies1,548views
Husband want watch wife .
My wife is open to this Would like to meet for drinks dancing playing around in the club and take it from there.
by Awittlefun3replies1,478viewsTeasing
Is it wrong for a woman to tease men, woman, couples and then not follow through with a sexual favor?
by LoversofLove15replies1,472viewsWoman to play
Why is it so hard to find a woman to join us. Generally I (f) try to get things going with her...should he take the lead?
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