You are probably right in the useless thought, if, you are waiting on the ring or whatever to attract people. I know you are right about the smile and just being sociable.
I do think there may be a place for all this stuff though. There is always the point when the conversation is humming along in vanilla mode, when one or both parties are wondering "if". At that point a pineapple tie clip and a ring, or a ring with a pineapple applique might help get past the hump .
BTW you really did not have to move all the way to Florida after we met for dinner. We would have taken no for an answer ;)

