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@RusticMagic, uh. Yeah. Often. See, a lot of people (at least in our area) have taken to opening their pictures as a signal they are interested in you (had another one today). They don’t message you, they just usually have something writte…
Hi all! So I use to be able to change the setting for who could view our profile (open to all, only couples, no male). Now when I go to Tools, and click privacy settings it only gives me the option to block free members. So how do I change…
@ JOE WHY ARE WE SHOUTING? LOL. You're damn right I want condoms, now while I'm 33, when I was 23, when I'm 43, when I'm 53. My choice to protect my sexual and physical health and the health of those around me and who are/might be with me…
Firstly: I don't know if we are all in understanding that there IS a difference between blocking and hidden...albeit, slightly. Maybe, single men of SLS, if you understood WHY couples felt the need to have there profile hidden from single…
"Will there be women your husband's age who feel inadequate around you? Sure. There will also be women your age who feel inadequate around you for reasons that have nothing to do with age. " Ms. Molly - You bring up a very good point. I ho…
Oh Allen, dropping truth that I didn't really want to hear, but figured maybe could be there. Although, I would have rather seen you leave in "some" rather than "a bunch". A bunch is a lot to work against. Trading up/down effect? Meaning w…
Hunter, Twenties? Nah, thankfully not anymore lol. While I realize now I didn't mention my age in my original post I did mention his age and our age gap. I don't find my age gap shocking either, but I would guess that it might be easier fo…
Ms. Molly, Well thank you for the kind words. I am still working on it all. Working on the confidence. Working on not being shocked when someone does want to have sex with me, trying not to think that it must be a mistake, or a mix-up. But…
Ms. Molly, Yes, it does make sense, tho I'm not one for being overly confident lol. The parties we attend have all spectrum of people! From 18 to 65+, big, little, short, tall, gay, straight, everything in between that, every color of the…
Allen, lol there are NO parties in this area (tho it's a lovely area!). We always go north in some capacity. While your Mrs. might not be interested in being with someone as old as her father (and I totally get that!) where do the two of y…
Ms. Molly, We actually attend parties often (multiple times a month). In fact, we have only ever met one couple from SLS, and that didn't go anywhere past dinner. We do find we run into similar issue at the parties. Perhaps it's just certa…
Thanks Velma! I can completely understand where you're coming from with that! Good point about the beard. He has has one for the last 30 years, I love it, and he looks ridiculous without it. BUT, he does color it now! So updating those pic…
Hello all! My questions to the group is: has anyone ever had issues or difficulties with an extreme age gap between yourself and your swinging partner? How did those issues work themselves out? How do the swingers on the forums feel about…
Oh my god. That’s frightening! So sorry you had to deal with that!
Does anyone have any feed back, reviews, information about this organization at all? Looks to be world wide. It’s advertised on SLS. But still seems slight “off” to me. Thanks in advance!
